And what a shame because we're sure this would've been the year we finally made the FieldDays trip happen.

But we wanted to come back in for one final poddy record to tell you about our summer holidays, chat about whether date nights are required in long term relationships, why Brad is currently hobbling around on crutches, and to bring you all the latest queer news from around the globe.

Plus we wrap up by reminiscing on what has happened over the past four years, how much life has changed for all of us since Out The Gayte started, and by thanking you - our wonderful Gaytors.

Enjoy the final episode, and thank you for everything. 

All our love, Matty, Chris & Brad xx

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There are some doozies under the tree, and the boys are very merry and VERY gay.

Plus we look forward to 2026 and share our hopes and dreams for the new year.

Merry Christmas, Gaytors!

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First up, has anyone else ever put the metal cage from a champagne bottle over their private parts? No?! Just Brad?!

Chris has a warning for anyone using Facebook Marketplace after he was scammed trying to buy a trailer.

The boys are now all deep in the world of Heated Rivalry, and Matty wants to know if the horniest show on TV would appeal to straight men because of, you know, the sports.

We look back at some of the standout Hotties from 2025 and award an official Hottie of the Year.

And we've chucked the Google Doc into ol' ChatGPT and have the Officially Unofficial Out The Gayte Wrapped.

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We go full boomer this week with our gripes - including loud BYOs, bad drivers, and escalator hogs.

Matty had some transport dramas trying to get to a wedding in Canterbury last week - enter his hero Leanne.

We talk erections (Christmas tree edition), and the importance of balls in the erection process.

The boys are deeply invested in the horniest show of 2025 - the gay ice hockey love story that has set the world on fire. This is now a Heated Rivalry fan podcast.

Speaking of gay sports stars, our favourite out football player Josh Cavallo has revealed he's in the process of mentoring other professional sports players struggling with their sexuality, and we're here for it.

Plus we go through all the wrapped's - Spotify, Adult Toy Mega Store, Grindr. It's a data-filled poddy, and you're going to love it.

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Turns out we were lead astray and you actually can have peacocks on a residential property!

There are gay sheep overseas and the boys are outraged on their behalf - BLATANT sheep homophobia is at play, and Out The Gayte won't stand for it.

Why was Chris trying to take a photo of a stranger's hair at a concert over the weekend, and what made his partner Matt mad?!

Plus we've got a brand new sting for our Hottie of the Week segment and it's a little...handmade.

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But boy oh boy do we have some stories from Matty’s move to the “farm”. He’s a cowboy now, don’t you know?!

There are winners and losers in sport this week - first the NZ Breakers who have refused to wear a Pride flag. We're not happy, Jan.

But there's a gorgeous story worth celebrating about a rugby game in Wales with a team of fierce queens competing in FULL drag.

We award our Hottie of the Week to bisexual AFL player Mitch Brown who has taken part in a very sexy photo shoot.

And we spitball some ideas for Pockets' own nude photo shoot - farm frolic anyone?!

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First thing's first, we discuss the (not so) breaking news of the first openly gay Sexiest Man Alive - and we are here for him and his slutty little glasses.

We told you about the Olympic athlete in hot water over his OnlyFans account, but he has now given the middle finger to his haters by revealing how much he's actually made.

Brad needs to confront Matty about yet another driving offence in the neighbourhood.

Chris came armed with a great story about the Lourve robbers, but has he fallen victim to a scam?!

Plus Pockets got asked something over the weekend that has made him feel, well, straight.

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There was only one way this episode was ever going to start, though, and that is with a deep dive into Matty and Brad's Tunnel Tour '25.

Hear all about the bus nicknamed Black Beauty, the gorgeous guide named Ezra, the slight hiccup which resulted in a bout of hitchhiking, and the copious amounts of wine consumed.

There's also a new Prime Minister in the Netherlands, and he's GAY! And he has a BOYFRIEND! And he's HOT!

A former Olympian is in trouble after something he did on a plane.

We are all a little frightened of AI and the misinformation it's spreading (and yet, we're utterly obsessed with the AI edits of Queen Elizabeth II).

Plus Chris is ready to throw in the towel with something and he wants the support of the boys, so we all make a pledge by the end of the podcast.

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Brad brings this week's Hottie of the Week via the new hit show Boots - and it has us reminiscing about our foray into male erotica.

We have managed to get our hands on an advanced copy of the upcoming Kiwi Firefighters' calendar, so for the good of the Gaytors we naturally dissect each month.

There's been an update on the Gay Games, and the next location is very close to home.

Chris has an update for us on his journey to fatherhood - and it's GREAT news you won't want to miss.
Plus why are Matty and Brad going into a dark tunnel together this weekend?! 

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• Chris' European adventures, which involved him having to come out all over again 
• Matty's bad boy reputation now that he's got a tattoo
• Brad's new TV show obsession, which includes a peen count that you'll be very impressed by

Plus Matty has a proposition for the boys as he puts a list together of 40 things to do before he turns 40.
And we discuss the top who's set to take on ONE THOUSAND bottoms. 

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Straight out the gate (no pun intended) Brad needs to confront Matty about something his partner Karl witnessed this weekend - it involves a stop sign and a sprinkling of road rage.

There's a couple of Hotties to discuss - first up are we about to see ALL of Kiwi actor KJ Apa in his upcoming movie? And are there nude photos of a former Glee star on the internet anywhere?

AFL player Mitch Brown made history as the first openly LGBT+ player when he came out as bisexual recently - and you won't believe the powerful move he's now made.

Matty went to a rural pub over the weekend and somehow ended up pouring pints behind the bar.

Plus why did Pedro Pascal comment "yay gay" on his most recent Instagram post? The boys need your help.

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One of us is about to go to Disneyland for the first time, one of us has been EIGHT times, and one swears he’ll never ever go - can you guess who’s who?!

We discuss the news of Charlie Kirk's death, and the complicated feelings surrounding the whole event.

There was a deep dive into the gay and inclusive rugby tournament - the Purchas Cup - and just how beautiful and successful it was.

Plus why is there a straight man on TikTok rating famous men's "members"?! We're not mad, just curious.

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You know we can't resist talking about The White Lotus - and with the news that the next season will be filmed in France, we start building our dream cast.

We also have a few TV recommendations for you this week, including something for both the lesbians and the gays.

Matty has a big dilemma involving an invite to a 30th birthday dinner, and we need your help!

Plus former Deputy Prime Minister Grant Robertson has written a new book, and has posed a very interesting question: are we ready for a gay Prime Minsiter?

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None of us are immune to a cheeky perv from time to time, but it turns Chris has been checking out someone he actually knows! So the boys have set him a challenge.

There's not one, not two, but THREE hotties of the week - including the son of a very famous couple.

Brad's been investigating elephants in Sri Lanka, and it turns out they're not opposed to a bit of man on man action in the animal kingdom.

Plus was this Australian pop star flirting with Pockets?! We'll provide the evidence and let you be the judge.

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We run through a list of things that just feel gay - like lying on your stomach on the phone.

We toss around a few ideas for the title of ep, and of course one of them is Jonathan Bailey related.

We’ve got two new words to add to your vocabulary - get ready to use dwerking and jelging in everyday conversations.

Plus we reminisce about the early days of our relationships after one of Matty's colleagues went on their first ever date, and wondered if you need to immediately feel a spark.

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Firstly, how was the clinic's cuck chair, and what visual aids were available? But secondly, why a sea turtle felt like a message from on high.

Brad, the master of words, teaches the boys about the phrase "crutch cruise", after he swung past the local skate park for a perv.

There might be Swandris and Red Bands in Matty's future, but he needs advice from our rural Gaytors.

We've got a fresh Hottie of the Week and let's just say thick thighs get the guys.

Plus is an Out The Gayte on the cards for us?! Wait, no, we can't go making promises we can't keep...or can we?!

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Chris is away in Mexico kickstarting his journey to daddyhood, and we were excited to get a voice message from him!

It was a stressful morning for Pockets, with his dog Otis going missing - find out where he ended up!

Plus is Brad a lifesaver?! He was a first responder to an incident over the weekend, and it’s a pretty crazy story.

We're obsessed with the very clever way a drag queen has called out JK Rowling.

Plus, a new hottie of the week has us obsessed with luscious locks! 

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Matty had a big mix-up with his Uber Eats delivery while hungover on the couch - but if there's a silver lining, at least it didn't involve a Sticky Bishop.

There's a new Hottie of the Week courtesy of Brad - all thanks to the new Happy Gilmore movie. Please welcome our favourite new crush Bad Bunny!

One of our regular Gaytors is engaged, and it's got us all in the feels about this wee community.
Plus you won't believe which celeb has released a new sex toy - and it's DOUBLE SIDED!

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First there was the birthday dinner where Brad learnt something about Pockets that he's been hiding, and it got him very hot and bothered.

Then the two of them had a date night Saturday night at Brad's house - and yes, it did involve a Sticky Bishop - but Matty needs to confess something.

Chris brings a brand-new term to the table - soft swapping - but we think it might be more intimate than straight sex.

Plus, apparently there's a hot new city for the gays, and it's right here in Aotearoa - but you'll never guess where!

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But before that, there were pre-drinks at Brad's, and Chris found something in his bathroom that he's never mentioned to us before now.

Speaking of bathrooms, you will not believe what was found in the locker rooms after swim club last week - it is shocking, and Brad SWEARS it's not his.

Plus Matty's become an accidental auctioneer, but maybe he should've had a couple less beers before he picked up the gavel. 

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Matty watched the rugby on the weekend as was suddenly very interested in the commentary after some wildly sexual innuendo.

Speaking of rugby, we were very invested in Brad's story about the straight team mates who got a little...umm...gay in the locker rooms.

The baby journey is continuing at light speed for Chris - so much so that he's off to Mexico in a matter of weeks to get up close and personal with a cup.

Plus you won't believe who knocked on Pockets' door the other morning while he *ahem* enjoyed his own company.

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We had a Gaytor slide into our DMs with an update for Chris on the Shawn Mendes/Robert Irwin rumours and it is JUICY.

Budapest Pride was cancelled, but you try telling the hungry gays of Hungary that they can't party, and you'd best believe they're putting up a fight.

Our Brad continues on from last week's Brad Pitt chat with a discussion about whether A Lister Brad would ever give men a go.

Plus this week's Hottie of the Week is a hurdler who showed us a lot more than he bargained for at a recent event.

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Chris has been duped by AI and the deception really stings - why did he think Robert Irwin had fallen in love with a male pop star?!

Not usually one for decisiveness, Pockets took control of the group ordering at a restaurant, but a rogue dish tipped him over the edge.

Matariki has us all reflecting on our highs and lows of the year so far, and it's given Brad a push to be really open and honest about what's been going on in his life lately - we're so proud of him for opening up.

Plus there's a simple question about dinosaurs that could make or break your relationship!

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There was a mid-winter Christmas gathering at Pockets' house this weekend, and his story swings wildly from wholesome slow cooker chat to debaucherous gay clubbing in a matter of minutes!

Chris was so overwhelmed by all your beautiful feedback about his journey to fatherhood, and there's an update this week - he has been *ahem* delivering samples to the clinic.

The real world MAFS experiment across the ditch has officially come to an end - so are Josh and Stefano still together?

Plus Matty and Brad Pitt shared a bed?! We're not even kidding - you won't want to miss this.

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First up, Pockets roped in his husband to reluctantly take part in a running race - so did their marriage survive? 

There is HUGE news in Chris' household involving the potential pitter-patter of little feet - you're not going to want to miss this.

We're still obsessed with the real-world MAFS experiment, but we're nervous about where it's heading.

We discuss the idea that you're either a girl's gay or a guy's gay and where we fall on the spectrum.
Plus, it wouldn't be Out The Gayte without butt chat - so bare with us as we count down the list of the hottest asses on TV.

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Josh Fox is a gay British man living in Australia who has been deeply invested in Married at First Sight - even hosting his own podcast on the topic, slagging off the so-called "experts" and questioning whether the experiment actually works.

So Josh decided to put his money where his mouth is, and recently married a stranger himself, documenting the process in real time on social media.

So what would happen if you stripped away all the wild reality tv dinner parties and crazy challenges, and just worked at a relationship with a stranger?

Matty and Chris have been following the journey keenly, and this week are joined by Josh to find out how the experiment is going - and it is FASCINATING.

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Like how often should long term couples be having sex? Or what happens if your libido is shot to pieces because of medication? Is it normal to feel shame after sex? And how do we grow our confidence in the bedroom?

This episode, more than any other, is testament to the Out The Gayte mantra that we never yuck someone's yum.

Sex.Life season 3 is out May 28th.

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Chris has been getting into a TV recommendation given on the pod recently, but he really has a bone to pick with Pockets.

We do  a whip around of interesting news from the internet - including an update on the gay version of MAFS, a selection of Broadway-related thirst traps, and a coming out story that may or may not be four years old (we're talking to our research department about it.

Matty had a very interesting interaction with a well-known New Zealand celebrity involving a locked toilet cubicle - you won't want to miss this story.

Plus a selection of suggestions from our Gaytors about what should be included on a 40 before 40 list.

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It’s got Matty thinking about his own 40th next year, and he’s wondering whether he should be putting together a to-do list of things to tick off before the milestone.

We’ve found our Hottie of the Week in the form of a Spanish football star (si Papi) who accidentally revealed more than he meant to in a recent game.

There’s a gay version of Married at First Sight that the boys are hooked on at the moment, and we cannot wait to see how it ends.

Plus what on earth is Matty’s husband Ryan hiding from him?!

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We thought we knew what the gays were into until Chris turned up somewhere unexpected and found our community en masse!

Why was Pockets crying in a show about zombies, and more importantly why is he insisting we all put ourselves through it?!

One of us is having a significant birthday this week, and it got us thinking about our old man habits.

Plus all the goss from the stag do Matty threw at his house - with a surprise guest appearance from an old friend of the podcast, who had an awkward question at the end of the night.

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We whip through a quick fire round of updates on previous podcast mentions, including Tiger King Joe Exotic, our favourite Australian photographer Mitchell Burns, and that Senate Twink.

Brad's been sassed over a recent home appliance purchase - but a debate ensued between the fellas.

We discussed the art of complaining after Matty wasn't happy with his hotel room.

Plus is this our new favourite sport?! Chris plays us the very dramatic trailer for - wait for it - sperm racing.

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There's some new research out around pheromones, and Chris reckons the gays love sweat more than the average person.

Matty went out over the weekend, and was very surprised by what he got up to with his husband Ryan in da clubs.

One of the boys is furious at straight boys this week, and really has a bone to pick.
Boomer Brad is in to deliver a rousing speech in support of something the Gen Z's want to cancel.

Plus for the very last time, we talk about The White Lotus. We promise - we're done.

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It looks like Pockets might be a model now?! He hit the runway in Dunedin and is ready for his Naomi Campbell diva-ship

What fun little walk down memory lane put Chris in the dog box with his partner, and what's it going to take to get out?!

We have to talk about those steamy new Robert Irwin underwear pictures.

Plus by the time you listen to this you'll already know, but we make our final White Lotus predictions ahead of the season finale (because, you know, we record on a Monday and upload on a Wednesday).

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But Matty and Chris had a big weekend attending the Synthony Festival - although why did Pockets wake up with excruciating thighs the next day?!

We've had some feedback from Chris' fiancé that maybe last week we spent too long talking about The White Lotus, so strap in for the quickest of recaps (but, honestly, we had to talk about the brothers).

One of our childhood crushes - and an absolute gay icon - is heading down under. Do we think he'll make his way to New Zealand?!

There is a university overseas offering a course for male adult film stars wanting to go Gay for Pay - complete with different sets including a building site, a mechanic garage and a "chav's living room".

Plus just wait until you hear the gorgeous voice note we got from a Gaytor who had some advice for the boys about becoming a parent.

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Firstly, were the rumours that the engagement party might double as a secret wedding true?!

Also who was the very unlikely Gaytor the boys met at the event?

Plus why is Brad ordering drinks from the bar like a boomer?

There's a lot going on in the LGBT+ community at the moment, and we really do need your support and love more than ever.

Plus, to finish off on a note of levity, the peen count on The White Lotus has increased, and there's an update on the brotherly love storyline.

All that and more on this week's episode.

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The boys all agree that comedian Pete Davidson has BDE, but should he have gotten rid of his tattoos?!

It's nearly time for Chris' engagement party, but he has a dilemma regarding gifts! 
With the weather getting warmer, Brad decided to take a dip in the pool, but his in-laws got more than they bargained for when they checked the security cameras.
Plus when do you know you're ready to be a parent? It's a big question that's been nagging Matty, and he'd love some help from the Gaytors.

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There were some nerves from Chris who wondered whether he might've overstepped the mark by enthusiastically talking about the steamy scene between two brothers on The White Lotus.

Matty was out for dinner on the weekend and a stranger divulged way too much information involving a trip from Whangarei for a swingers party!

Plus a press release dropped in the boys' inbox - there's an iconic event happening in exactly 100 days. Could this be the year Out The Gayte gets there?!

All that and more on this week's episode.

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Chris went to see Irish Drag superstar Panti Bliss, and we get a review from one of our Gaytors.

It was reunion time for Matty and Chris, who both went back to their old university...but surprise surprise, Matty put his foot in it.

Plus Brad caught up with an old friend of the pod while sunning his buns at the the beach. All that and so much more on this week's episode!

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First up, 'tis the bloody season because there's been another proposal in the team! Find out all the juicy details of Brad's dirty knee.

It was clearly the week for romance because Matty had an anniversary dinner, but it got slightly derailed by a Portugese hottie.

We had to speak up after the events over the weekend at the Pride Festival - and there's a lot to say about the misinformation and fear being spread.

Plus Headmaster Chris set the boys some homework, and you won't believe it, but they actually came through!

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There were some very exciting summer adventures to discuss - but none more so than the bloody marriage proposal from our man Chris!

We get all the deets on how he got his knee dirty, and the potential roles for Pockets and Brad at the upcoming nuptials. Brad's jumped in the deep end - literally - and joined the gay swimming team, but one of us has the inside word on why that's ruffled some feathers.

Plus Matty's well and truly in his fitness era, but hanging out with hot, straight gym bros has gone straight to his head and we think he's taken things too far.

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The boys have gathered Christmas morning to exchange gifts, and there are some great throwbacks amongst the unwrappings!

Plus we discuss our summer plans, and give you an update on our return in 2025.
Merry Christmas!

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Or Chris' collation of the gayest neighbourhoods in New Zealand thanks to the latest census data (we love stats).

And the very unrelated pairing of Brad gorging on pineapple ahead of his partner Karl's return home.

Plus we have a lot of loose ends to tie up - like did the aphrodisiac chocolate actually work, and whatever happened with those photos that appeared in Pockets' DMs?!

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Big day on the tools this week for Matty and Chris who worked together on the new Lord of the Rings premiere - but Matty snuck in somewhere he probably wasn’t meant to be.

Some very exciting news off the back of Brad’s recent trip to America - we’ve made the top 3 in something pretty cool!

Who’s the Christmas Grinch who hasn’t put their tree up yet?!

And forget Spotify Wrapped - Grindr has all the data on which country is topping the charts, and who’s fallen to the (hung) bottom.

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Our favourite twinky top Troye Sivan was in town and Chris gives us all the goss on his Auckland gig - plus, what was on his face at the gay bar later that night?!

Pockets loves the boys, but according to Instagram, the boys do not love him, so we need your help.There's subtle and then there's Brad, who hit us with some absolute zingers this week.

Plus there's a Catholic priest statue in Whangarei that we're desperate to get our hands on, and we're putting our faith in the Gaytors.

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The silly season has well and truly got us - Chris is aiming for Gold in the Busy Olympics.
Not usually one for labels, Brad is now a Gucci man with his new accessories, which really make us think - is Brad, you know, *gay*?!

Pockets has been cheating on his barber, but it’s getting serious with the one-night-stand.

Plus we’ve laid out the welcome mat and organised drinks and nibbles to formally introduce a new celebrity to the family.

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There are receipts after last week's assertion from Brad that he told his partner Karl the correct times of his international flights. Buckle in for something you never thought you'd hear.

Chris is ready to jump on the Chris Martin caboose (literally and figuratively) after a spiritual experience at Coldplay.

Despite a debut fraught with emotions, Pockets persisted and went back to tennis - so how did he fare with round two?!

Plus we have been called OUT by a Gaytor in our DMs, and truths were told.

All that, and more - including potential legal action taken against us by one Mariah Carey - in this week's episode. 

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First thing's first, Brad has a confession to make and it's about his temporary replacement.

Butch athlete Pockets has joined the tennis world, but ironically his ball skills are lacking.
The new Wicked movie is all anyone's talking about, but Chris has news about why some of the merch is accidentally x-rated.

Plus, Gaytors, there's a new celeb dick pic in the mix.

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Matty ran the half marathon over the weekend and won't shut up about it - but something he did in preparation for the run has his husband excited.

There's a bunch of new Hallmark movies about to drop in time for the holiday season, but Chris reckons some of them sound like *ahem* other films.

Taylor Swift's brother in law Jason Kelce is in hot water for a homophobic slur that has the boys divided.

Plus we announce our next winner of our Troye Sivan competition!

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Although Brad did send us a voice note to share, and we did not listen to it ahead of time, so it was a real roll of the dice pressing play.

Pockets got a DM this week - you will not believe who was listening to last week's episode!

There's a new Shawn Mendes song out where he talks about those rumours about his sexuality, so Cam shares his thoughts on the whole thing.

Plus Chris has the exciting task of drawing a winner for our Troye Sivan competition. But wait, as they say; there's more!

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It's not even Christmas yet and Chris is already delivering us gifts - and this one has us hot under the collar. Jocktober is almost behind us, so it's time to get ready for next month - No Nut November. But there are warnings from a doctor for anyone looking to take part.

Cam is in a long distance relationship so the Fagony Aunts are back to impart some (questionable) wisdom. Plus you know how much we love Troye Sivan, but if you love him too, we have your chance to win a double pass to his Auckland show in December!

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Chris realised the month of October is very special, but we forgot to celebrate - well, Pockets did a little bit. Is it too late to play catch up?!

Matty went to Uluṟu and met some fellow travellers that had the team saying "oh my GOD!"

Brad is about to pack up and leave his Mum's house - how's Dons feeling about her baby empty nesting her again?

Plus how old is too old to attend a Gen Z house party? One of us certainly put that to the test.

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Pockets has had a couple of instances lately of putting his foot in it and saying the wrong thing, and we all have second-hand embarrassment.

A press release arrived in our inbox and it's...well...girthy.

Chris has a wild story from a Gaytor about his sex-capades in Europe.

Plus remember how we talked about the life drawing class Pockets attended recently? Just you wait until you hear what went down with the nude model at another Hen's Do.

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Pockets has all the details from the Hen's Do he hosted, including a pizza delivery mishap and a potentially flirty nude model.

Chris has been very busy in the back end (pun absolutely intended) and has an exciting wee announcement involving one of our favourite international superstars.

Plus the return of the Fagony Aunts with a question submitted by a Gaytor that has us all reflecting on our journey to where we are today.

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Brad's all of a sudden strangely into wildlife photography, and now we understand why.

Chris has the latest on a new queer film starring Daniel Craig and Omar Apollo...but who's coming out on top?!

Plus Matty is hosting a Hen's Do at his place, and it got off to an awkward start when he slid into the DMs of a familiar face to ask a favour.

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Chris is all over the Paralympics and has begun compiling a list of the hot athletes we need to watch out for.

Matty chucked on the speedos the other day and now he's had an offer in his DMs.
Plus we delve into your feedback on the huge dilemma from last week involving the "straight" married man.

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Chris and his partner have been in the wars, but it did provide a relationship first, and boy does it show you just how much they love each other.

Some sad news about the infamous same sex penguin dads - and, true to form, we absolutely give the story the respect it deserves.

Matty has a huge dilemma he needs our help with, and strap in because it is juicy.

Plus the humble jockstrap turns 150 this week, so the boys throw a party in its honour.

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They also explain why they were so reluctant to talk about Algerian boxer Imane Khelif.

Brad brings us the latest from the regions, but full disclosure he's at his Mum's house and Donz's WiFi is sketchy.

ChatGPT is ALL the rage, so Chris asked it to review the poddy - turns out ChatGPT is a bit of a bitch!

There’s a new scientific way to determine just how kinky you are, so you’d best believe the boys took the test. Tune in for the crowining of our very own Kink King.

Plus there’s a new chocolate bar hitting the shelves filled with aphrodisiacs. Who’s going tthere volunteer to take the first bite?!

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But good news is the gays are nailing the games - no, not like that.

Pockets wore a mesh top to an event and we think he's a changed man.

Chris was asked to do something unusual while visiting the chiropractor.

And Brad brings us news from the regions, including a comprehensive breakdown of the mall's food court. Hot Apple Pies, anyone?!

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Who are the hottest athletes at the games? Which sport stars have started an OnlyFans? And why is Grindr blocked in the athlete's village?

We break it all down for you.Plus Chris is back from the US and he has a gripe with the public bathroom stalls.

Enjoy all that and more in this week's episode!

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The boys are back this week, but Brad's in the dog box after humiliating his partner at the supermarket.

Matt might've entered his masc era and it's confusing for all of us.

You won't believe what links Grindr and the Republican Party this week!

We're certainly not yucking anyone's yum (you know us) but there's a warning you need to know about.

Plus just how in tune are Pockets and Brad? We put it to the test this week with a game.

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Matty went off grid and it turned spicy in more ways than one.

Plus Chris might've just found us a new team uniform - Gaytors, let us know if you want in on the bulk order.

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Matty and Chris went to the Egyptian themed party, and dissect everything that went down, including the costumes. Plus you won't believe who else was there.

Pebbling is the new term you need to know - and believe it or not, it's not a sex thing.
Matthew Ridge has dropped the F word (yes that F word) and the boys want to draw a line in the sand once and for all.

Plus can anyone yell us just how gay this new Mary and George TV show is?!

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We heard your feedback on hobbies, and now Pockets might have to cross stitch a butthole?!

Chris might've gotten rid of the stye, but now his back and knees are playing up - and no, not because of that.

We ponder what our beige flags are - the strange things about us that make us cute little weirdos.

And boy do we have an announcement on our Gaytor community. You won't want to miss this!

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Are hobbies a thing for adults? Matty's not sure he has one, but he might have an idea to change that, and it involves the Cha Cha.

Chris' body is breaking down - how exactly do you get rid of a stye?!

And there's a beautifully heartbreaking obituary the boys discuss from someone finally able to be who they truly are.

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Matty wants to surprise Ryan, who despises surprises, so tries to figure out the best way of doing it.

Chris has been researching the story from a few months back about the anticipated mass coming out in the world of European football, and he has an update.

Plus the boys either want to be Troye Sivan or they want to be with Troye Sivan - we're not entirely sure. Either way, there's a lot of Troye Sivan mentions this week.

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Chris has drunk the Kool Aid and has well and truly been sucked into something big.

Matty had to get a new driver's licence and the photo process took a turn.

Plus they both discuss the new porn passport those across the ditch will need in order to access R18 material online, and reminisce on the days of dial up internet.

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Matty wonders what the protocol is at the urinal.

Chris sets us up for future failure by suggesting a viewing party for next year's Eurovision.

And Brad cheated yet again - this time with a doctor!

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Despite this being an audio medium, Chris is eager to teach the boys some sign language.

You'd best believe us all being in committed relationships won't stop Brad talking about the new Bumble feature.

And WAIT til you hear Matty's update on the outrageous place to cruise these days...allegedly.

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Matty's Mum almost found something in the washing basket at his house.

Chris and his partner are potentially crossing the threshold into sibling territory.

And Brad's up with the youths now that he's attended a 21st.

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Brad admits to the boys he's cheated - but at least his lid looks good.

Matty laments being the old man at a house party, and is concerned he might've stolen some Ferrero Rochers.

And Chris realised we missed a crucial day in the annual calendar, but it might not be too late to celebrate.

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Matty has a proposal dilemma from a Gaytor.

Chris has fallen deep into some algorithm rabbit roles.

And Brad brings us up to speed with the rainbow crossing culprit's sentencing.

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Pockets tells us if Baby Talk is working in the bedroom.

Chris has our new stats and we've gone international, baby!

Plus Brad gives us the full lowdown from the Rainbow Games - and spoiler, we had a bowling blowout.

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The boys have some things to say about the rainbow crossing debacle.

Brad has to give a speech to hundreds of people and is rightfully shitting himself.

And Matty accidentally suggested a threesome to a new friend.

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Brad gets misty-eyed reminiscing about NZDating.com.

And Matty's been ripped out for still rocking skinny jeans.

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The boys go off on a wild tangent about Chris Hemsworth’s junk…mail.

Matty has a pep in his step after an interaction with a Gaytor.

Brad’s ready to pull out the dressing gown now that the weather’s cooling down.

And Chris has rounded up the best stories about your falls.

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So excited to be back in your ear holes xxx

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