5e27a451-e6e6-4c51-aa03-a7370003783c 2ee267e4-831c-44cf-ab16-af2a014a924b 1200f127-6160-4235-8196-af5c01012b25 e786a128-832f-4b6c-8b9d-af5c01015749 en-US Team Us: A Christian Marriage Podcast The best marriages have a teamwork mentality. Spouses serve each other, support each other, and celebrate each other. They tackle life together, and when one slips, the other gives grace. Husbands and wives can be vulnerable with each other because... https://www.lifeaudio.com/team-us The best marriages have a teamwork mentality. Spouses serve each other, support each other, and celebrate each other. They tackle life together, and when one slips, the other gives grace. Husbands and wives can be vulnerable with each other because they know they rise and fall as one.

Do you want a marriage like this? On each episode of the Team Us: Christian Marriage Podcast, married couple Ted and Ashleigh Slater come alongside you and your spouse as friends and mentors. They talk openly, honestly, and humorously about the betters and the worsts of their marriage, sharing how grace, commitment, cooperation, and lots of laughter have kept them united over the years.

Whether you’re newly married and desire to build a strong foundation, or you’ve been married longer and your relationship needs a little TLC, you’ll gain practical, realistic ideas for strengthening your Team Us.

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]]> episodic The best marriages have a teamwork mentality. Spouses serve each other, support each other, and celebrate each other. They tackle life together, and when one slips, the other gives grace. Husbands and wives can be vulnerable with each other because they know they rise and fall as one. Do you want a marriage like this? On each episode of the Team Us: Christian Marriage Podcast, married couple Ted and Ashleigh Slater come alongside you and your spouse as friends and mentors. They talk openly, honestly, and humorously about the betters and the worsts of their marriage, sharing how grace, commitment, cooperation, and lots of laughter have kept them united over the years. Whether you’re newly married and desire to build a strong foundation, or you’ve been married longer and your relationship needs a little TLC, you’ll gain practical, realistic ideas for strengthening your Team Us. Want more from Ted and Ashleigh? Visit https://ashleighslater.com/ Support support@lifeaudio.com Ted and Ashleigh Slater clean https://www.omnycontent.com/d/playlist/5e27a451-e6e6-4c51-aa03-a7370003783c/1200f127-6160-4235-8196-af5c01012b25/e786a128-832f-4b6c-8b9d-af5c01015749/image.jpg?t=1670943562&size=Large Team Us: A Christian Marriage Podcast https://www.lifeaudio.com/team-us Why Believing the Soulmate Myth Can Harm Your Marriage Why Believing the Soulmate Myth Can Harm Your Marriage In this best-of episode, we discuss the idea of a "soulmate" as a myth that has been around for thousands of years. It may seem like a concept only for non-married people looking for “the one.” But here’s the thing. If you are married and subscribe to this idea of soulmates, it can be harmful to your marriage. Listen in as we share why!

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Make a list of other marriage myths and reflect on whether they are impacting your marriage. If so, how can you replace them with truth?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> In this best-of episode, we discuss the idea of a "soulmate" as a myth that has been around for thousands of years. It may seem like a concept only for non-married people looking for “the one.” But here’s the thing. If you are married and subscribe to this idea of soulmates, it can be harmful to your marriage. Listen in as we share why!

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Make a list of other marriage myths and reflect on whether they are impacting your marriage. If so, how can you replace them with truth?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

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]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater f81777c5-e9ee-442f-95da-b3db00f294dd f81777c5-e9ee-442f-95da-b3db00f294dd Tue, 27 Jan 2026 10:30:00 +0000 1323 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-believing-the-soulmate-myth-can-harm-your-marriage Why Marriages Drift (And How to Stop It) Why Marriages Drift (And How to Stop It) Most marriages don’t fall apart in one big moment. They drift slowly and quietly, often without either person noticing. You can share a house, a life, and a schedule and still end up on relational autopilot.

In this episode, we talk about why connection fades over time and share three simple rhythms that help couples stay emotionally close—not through big gestures, but through small, intentional patterns that gently change the direction of a marriage.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • Why most marriages drift into autopilot without either person realizing it
  • Three simple rhythms that keep a marriage emotionally connected long-term
  • How small, intentional patterns quietly change the direction of your relationship

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Marriages change by direction, not by moments. Small patterns shape where you end up.
  • Connection must be built on purpose and maintained through every season.
  • Repair and emotional openness matter more than perfect communication.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, talk honestly about whether you’re drifting into autopilot in any area of your marriage, then choose one small shared connection ritual to add. It doesn’t have to be big or impressive. Something simple and intentional is enough. The point isn’t the activity. The point is choosing each other on purpose.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

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]]> Most marriages don’t fall apart in one big moment. They drift slowly and quietly, often without either person noticing. You can share a house, a life, and a schedule and still end up on relational autopilot.

In this episode, we talk about why connection fades over time and share three simple rhythms that help couples stay emotionally close—not through big gestures, but through small, intentional patterns that gently change the direction of a marriage.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • Why most marriages drift into autopilot without either person realizing it
  • Three simple rhythms that keep a marriage emotionally connected long-term
  • How small, intentional patterns quietly change the direction of your relationship

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Marriages change by direction, not by moments. Small patterns shape where you end up.
  • Connection must be built on purpose and maintained through every season.
  • Repair and emotional openness matter more than perfect communication.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, talk honestly about whether you’re drifting into autopilot in any area of your marriage, then choose one small shared connection ritual to add. It doesn’t have to be big or impressive. Something simple and intentional is enough. The point isn’t the activity. The point is choosing each other on purpose.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe to Ashleigh’s weekly email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com.

 

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]]> full 108 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 3bf730b8-ef1b-4851-b06f-b3d601471412 3bf730b8-ef1b-4851-b06f-b3d601471412 Tue, 20 Jan 2026 11:30:00 +0000 967 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-marriages-drift-and-how-to-stop-it How to Stay Open and Teachable in Marriage How to Stay Open and Teachable in Marriage In this episode, we’re talking about adaptability and flexibility in marriage. We discuss those everyday moments when staying open and teachable really matter. It’s not just our big decisions, but our small, ordinary interactions that shape how we live life together. Listen in as we explore what psychological flexibility looks like in marriage and how growing in this area can create more peace, safety, and connection over time.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • What psychological flexibility is and why it matters in marriage
  • Why everyday moments—not just big decisions—often create the most tension
  • Common roadblocks to flexibility, including control, rigidity, and shutdown
  • How inflexibility affects emotional safety and connection over time
  • Practical ways to practice flexibility without losing yourself
  • How awareness creates space for better choices in marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Psychological flexibility isn’t about being passive or agreeable—it’s about staying open and grounded.
  • Inflexibility often shows up as shutdown, control, or resistance rather than overt conflict.
  • Small, everyday interactions shape the emotional climate of a marriage.
  • Control can feel like safety, but it often comes from fear.
  • Awareness doesn’t fix everything, but it does create space for healthier responses.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, each of you choose one small area where you’ll intentionally practice flexibility. It might be listening without defending, staying open to a different preference, or pausing instead of shutting down.

At the end of the week, talk about what you noticed—not what you accomplished. The goal isn’t to “do it right,” but to build awareness and connection.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! What’s one way you want to be more open and teachable in your marriage. Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

  • “What Is Psychological Flexibility?” from the University of Rochester Medical Center (https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/behavioral-health-partners/bhp-blog/april-2020/what-is-psychological-flexibility.aspx)
  • “Psychological Flexibility in Marriage” from Focus on the Family (https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/psychological-flexibility-in-marriage/)
  • “How Psychological Flexibility Strengthens Relationships” from Marriage.com (https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/psychological-flexibility-in-relationships/)

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]]> In this episode, we’re talking about adaptability and flexibility in marriage. We discuss those everyday moments when staying open and teachable really matter. It’s not just our big decisions, but our small, ordinary interactions that shape how we live life together. Listen in as we explore what psychological flexibility looks like in marriage and how growing in this area can create more peace, safety, and connection over time.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • What psychological flexibility is and why it matters in marriage
  • Why everyday moments—not just big decisions—often create the most tension
  • Common roadblocks to flexibility, including control, rigidity, and shutdown
  • How inflexibility affects emotional safety and connection over time
  • Practical ways to practice flexibility without losing yourself
  • How awareness creates space for better choices in marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Psychological flexibility isn’t about being passive or agreeable—it’s about staying open and grounded.
  • Inflexibility often shows up as shutdown, control, or resistance rather than overt conflict.
  • Small, everyday interactions shape the emotional climate of a marriage.
  • Control can feel like safety, but it often comes from fear.
  • Awareness doesn’t fix everything, but it does create space for healthier responses.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, each of you choose one small area where you’ll intentionally practice flexibility. It might be listening without defending, staying open to a different preference, or pausing instead of shutting down.

At the end of the week, talk about what you noticed—not what you accomplished. The goal isn’t to “do it right,” but to build awareness and connection.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! What’s one way you want to be more open and teachable in your marriage. Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

  • “What Is Psychological Flexibility?” from the University of Rochester Medical Center (https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/behavioral-health-partners/bhp-blog/april-2020/what-is-psychological-flexibility.aspx)
  • “Psychological Flexibility in Marriage” from Focus on the Family (https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/psychological-flexibility-in-marriage/)
  • “How Psychological Flexibility Strengthens Relationships” from Marriage.com (https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/psychological-flexibility-in-relationships/)

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]]> full 107 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 0bd72110-ded8-42ba-b7df-b3cc0127480c 0bd72110-ded8-42ba-b7df-b3cc0127480c Tue, 13 Jan 2026 11:30:00 +0000 1350 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-stay-open-and-teachable-in-marriage 3 Tools for Tackling Everyday Conflicts in Your Marriage 3 Tools for Tackling Everyday Conflicts in Your Marriage How do you and your spouse tackle everyday conflicts? In today's best-of episode from our archives, we share three of our favorite tools for working through those smaller disagreements or disputes.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one of the tools we shared to try this week when you face conflict with your spouse.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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TEAM US RESOURCES

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]]> How do you and your spouse tackle everyday conflicts? In today's best-of episode from our archives, we share three of our favorite tools for working through those smaller disagreements or disputes.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one of the tools we shared to try this week when you face conflict with your spouse.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

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]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 9a164a24-cb73-4feb-a985-b3b500efcf21 9a164a24-cb73-4feb-a985-b3b500efcf21 Tue, 06 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000 1374 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-tools-for-tackling-everyday-conflicts-in-your-marriage How to Team Up for a New Day, Week, Month, and Year How to Team Up for a New Day, Week, Month, and Year In this best-of episode from our archives, we’re talking about how you can team up not just for the new year, but for every minute, hour, day, week, and month of the year! Listen in as we share three practical ways you can walk in unity. We also talk about spiritual warfare in marriage, what that might look like, and share thoughts on how to navigate it hand-in-hand.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Pick one of today’s ways to team up and try it this week.

Team Us Resources

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

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]]> In this best-of episode from our archives, we’re talking about how you can team up not just for the new year, but for every minute, hour, day, week, and month of the year! Listen in as we share three practical ways you can walk in unity. We also talk about spiritual warfare in marriage, what that might look like, and share thoughts on how to navigate it hand-in-hand.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Pick one of today’s ways to team up and try it this week.

Team Us Resources

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 37a34135-1f6e-44be-8f46-b3b500ee78c6 37a34135-1f6e-44be-8f46-b3b500ee78c6 Tue, 30 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000 1348 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-team-up-for-a-new-day-week-month-and-year-1 How Christmas Past, Present, and Future Can Strengthen Your Marriage How Christmas Past, Present, and Future Can Strengthen Your Marriage We don't have to be Scrooges to benefit from reflecting on Christmas past, present, and future. In this episode from our archives, we talk about how looking back, living now, and planning ahead together can enrich our marriages.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you’ve been married five years or more, practice nostalgia with your spouse. Ask each other about your favorite Christmas you’ve spent together and why it stands out to you. If you have been married less than five years, plan ahead on where you want to be relationally next Christmas.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

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]]> We don't have to be Scrooges to benefit from reflecting on Christmas past, present, and future. In this episode from our archives, we talk about how looking back, living now, and planning ahead together can enrich our marriages.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you’ve been married five years or more, practice nostalgia with your spouse. Ask each other about your favorite Christmas you’ve spent together and why it stands out to you. If you have been married less than five years, plan ahead on where you want to be relationally next Christmas.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater d11e55ab-06e9-4883-aded-b3b4010a6874 d11e55ab-06e9-4883-aded-b3b4010a6874 Tue, 23 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000 1262 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-christmas-past-present-and-future-can-strengthen-your-marriage 3 Micro-Habits That Make Marriage Better 3 Micro-Habits That Make Marriage Better In this episode, we explore the surprisingly powerful world of micro-habits—those tiny actions that take less than five minutes but, when repeated, create meaningful and lasting change in your marriage. From simple daily rituals to small moments of gratitude to chore-based love notes, you’ll discover how small things practiced often can strengthen connection, build warmth, and shape the overall direction of your relationship.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • What micro-habits are and why researchers say they matter
  • How 1% improvements compound into significant transformation over time
  • Why micro-moments help keep couples from slipping into “roommate mode”
  • Three daily micro-habits that build connection, gratitude, and emotional safety
  • Practical examples of how we use these habits in our own marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Small habits practiced consistently create meaningful change over time.
  • Micro-moments protect connection and help couples avoid “roommate mode.”
  • Specific gratitude (“Thank you for…”) shifts focus toward what’s working.
  • Everyday chores can become tangible expressions of love.
  • Simple rituals—like hello, goodbye, and goodnight kisses—strengthen emotional and physical connection.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Choose one micro-habit and practice it every day this week. It can be one of the three we shared or be a micro-moment unique to your relationship. Consistency is the goal, not size. Let the small thing do its quiet, steady work.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

  • Follow Ashleigh: Instagram @teamuspodcast | Facebook @ashleighslaterauthor
  • Subscribe to Team Us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen so you don’t miss an episode.
  • Join our community: Get updates, resources, and encouragement for your marriage by signing up for Ashleigh’s weekly email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

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]]> In this episode, we explore the surprisingly powerful world of micro-habits—those tiny actions that take less than five minutes but, when repeated, create meaningful and lasting change in your marriage. From simple daily rituals to small moments of gratitude to chore-based love notes, you’ll discover how small things practiced often can strengthen connection, build warmth, and shape the overall direction of your relationship.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • What micro-habits are and why researchers say they matter
  • How 1% improvements compound into significant transformation over time
  • Why micro-moments help keep couples from slipping into “roommate mode”
  • Three daily micro-habits that build connection, gratitude, and emotional safety
  • Practical examples of how we use these habits in our own marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Small habits practiced consistently create meaningful change over time.
  • Micro-moments protect connection and help couples avoid “roommate mode.”
  • Specific gratitude (“Thank you for…”) shifts focus toward what’s working.
  • Everyday chores can become tangible expressions of love.
  • Simple rituals—like hello, goodbye, and goodnight kisses—strengthen emotional and physical connection.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Choose one micro-habit and practice it every day this week. It can be one of the three we shared or be a micro-moment unique to your relationship. Consistency is the goal, not size. Let the small thing do its quiet, steady work.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

  • Follow Ashleigh: Instagram @teamuspodcast | Facebook @ashleighslaterauthor
  • Subscribe to Team Us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen so you don’t miss an episode.
  • Join our community: Get updates, resources, and encouragement for your marriage by signing up for Ashleigh’s weekly email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 106 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 304a15f9-c430-4a78-afd0-b3b2000a1550 304a15f9-c430-4a78-afd0-b3b2000a1550 Tue, 16 Dec 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1373 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-micro-habits-that-make-marriage-better Why Forgiveness Is Key to a Happier Marriage Why Forgiveness Is Key to a Happier Marriage In a previous episode, we talked about the power of saying, “I’m sorry.” Today, we’re taking the next step and diving into forgiveness, specifically, what it looks like to forgive our spouse. Forgiveness isn’t always easy, but it’s one of the most powerful ways to strengthen a marriage. In this episode, we explore what forgiveness really is (and isn’t), why it’s vital for lasting love, and how practicing it can lead to healing, trust, and deeper connection.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • Why forgiveness plays such a big role in happy, lasting marriages
  • What forgiveness truly means from both a biblical and relational perspective
  • Three things forgiveness is not and why those distinctions matter
  • How to navigate the process of forgiving when it still hurts
  • Practical ways to rebuild trust after forgiveness
  • How to think like a forgiving person and create a culture of grace in your marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Forgiveness is a process, not a one-time decision.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t erase responsibility or instantly restore trust.
  • Choosing to forgive frees your heart from bitterness and opens space for connection.
  • Repair—not just resolution—is what rebuilds intimacy after conflict.
  • Thinking like a forgiver starts by asking God to help you see your spouse through His eyes.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week’s challenge is to think about how you think. When your spouse does something that frustrates or hurts you, pause and ask yourself: Am I thinking like a forgiver or like a victim? Invite God to reshape your thoughts, helping you move toward grace and understanding.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

  • Follow Ashleigh: Instagram @teamuspodcast | Facebook @ashleighslaterauthor
  • Subscribe to Team Us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen so you don’t miss an episode.
  • Join our community: Get updates, resources, and encouragement for your marriage by signing up for Ashleigh’s weekly email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

 

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]]> In a previous episode, we talked about the power of saying, “I’m sorry.” Today, we’re taking the next step and diving into forgiveness, specifically, what it looks like to forgive our spouse. Forgiveness isn’t always easy, but it’s one of the most powerful ways to strengthen a marriage. In this episode, we explore what forgiveness really is (and isn’t), why it’s vital for lasting love, and how practicing it can lead to healing, trust, and deeper connection.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • Why forgiveness plays such a big role in happy, lasting marriages
  • What forgiveness truly means from both a biblical and relational perspective
  • Three things forgiveness is not and why those distinctions matter
  • How to navigate the process of forgiving when it still hurts
  • Practical ways to rebuild trust after forgiveness
  • How to think like a forgiving person and create a culture of grace in your marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Forgiveness is a process, not a one-time decision.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t erase responsibility or instantly restore trust.
  • Choosing to forgive frees your heart from bitterness and opens space for connection.
  • Repair—not just resolution—is what rebuilds intimacy after conflict.
  • Thinking like a forgiver starts by asking God to help you see your spouse through His eyes.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week’s challenge is to think about how you think. When your spouse does something that frustrates or hurts you, pause and ask yourself: Am I thinking like a forgiver or like a victim? Invite God to reshape your thoughts, helping you move toward grace and understanding.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

  • Follow Ashleigh: Instagram @teamuspodcast | Facebook @ashleighslaterauthor
  • Subscribe to Team Us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen so you don’t miss an episode.
  • Join our community: Get updates, resources, and encouragement for your marriage by signing up for Ashleigh’s weekly email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

 

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]]> full 105 Ted and Ashleigh Slater e81f0e6f-8fd6-4535-8d0a-b3a701117596 e81f0e6f-8fd6-4535-8d0a-b3a701117596 Tue, 09 Dec 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1424 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-forgiveness-is-key-to-a-happier-marriage 10 Budget-Friendly Christmas Date Ideas for Couples 10 Budget-Friendly Christmas Date Ideas for Couples The holidays can sometimes feel overwhelming. Between all of the shopping, decorating, and events, it’s easy for us as couples to stay busy without really connecting. In this episode, we share ten fun and affordable holiday date ideas to help you slow down, laugh together, and enjoy the season as a team. You’ll hear creative ways to make time for each other and find joy in everyday moments.

 KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • The holidays don’t have to be stressful or expensive to be meaningful.
  • Simple, shared experiences can bring you closer together.
  • Making time for each other is one of the best gifts you can give this season.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Come up with a holiday date idea of your own—something simple that fits you as a couple—and make it happen. Then share it with us at AshleighSlater.com or on social media! We’d love to hear how you’re making time for each other this Christmas.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

  • Follow Ashleigh: Instagram @teamuspodcast | Facebook @ashleighslaterauthor
  • Subscribe to Team Us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen so you don’t miss an episode.
  • Join our community: Get updates, resources, and encouragement for your marriage by signing up for Ashleigh’s weekly email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com.

TEAM US RESOURCES

 

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]]> The holidays can sometimes feel overwhelming. Between all of the shopping, decorating, and events, it’s easy for us as couples to stay busy without really connecting. In this episode, we share ten fun and affordable holiday date ideas to help you slow down, laugh together, and enjoy the season as a team. You’ll hear creative ways to make time for each other and find joy in everyday moments.

 KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • The holidays don’t have to be stressful or expensive to be meaningful.
  • Simple, shared experiences can bring you closer together.
  • Making time for each other is one of the best gifts you can give this season.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Come up with a holiday date idea of your own—something simple that fits you as a couple—and make it happen. Then share it with us at AshleighSlater.com or on social media! We’d love to hear how you’re making time for each other this Christmas.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

  • Follow Ashleigh: Instagram @teamuspodcast | Facebook @ashleighslaterauthor
  • Subscribe to Team Us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen so you don’t miss an episode.
  • Join our community: Get updates, resources, and encouragement for your marriage by signing up for Ashleigh’s weekly email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com.

TEAM US RESOURCES

 

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]]> full 104 Ted and Ashleigh Slater d3688380-55fa-4ab0-8b69-b39801690738 d3688380-55fa-4ab0-8b69-b39801690738 Tue, 02 Dec 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1554 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/10-fun-and-budget-friendly-christmas-date-ideas-for-couples Fun Conversation Starters for Couples in a Rut Fun Conversation Starters for Couples in a Rut In this fun episode, we share creative and meaningful conversation starters to help you reconnect with your spouse, especially if you feel like you’ve run out of things to say. Whether you’re on a date night, taking a walk, or driving somewhere together, these questions will help you laugh, learn, and rediscover each other.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why it’s normal for couples to occasionally run out of things to say
  • How conversation starters can spark fun, meaningful connection
  • A mix of lighthearted and relationship-focused questions to ask your spouse
  • How laughter and curiosity keep your marriage conversations fresh

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Playful conversation matters. Asking silly, imaginative questions helps you reconnect through fun and laughter.
  2. Curiosity strengthens connection. When you keep learning about each other, you keep growing together.
  3. Intentionality counts. Don’t wait for deep conversation to “just happen.” Plan for it by bringing a few questions along on your next date.

CONVERSATION STARTERS WE ANSWER

  • If you could have any job, whether serious or silly, and money was not a factor, what would it be?
  • If time travel existed, when and where would you like to visit first?
  • Who are three famous people, dead or alive, you would want to have lunch with?
  • If you could only listen to two albums for the rest of your life, which ones would you choose, and why?
  • What do you think our biggest strength as a couple is? What about our biggest weakness?
  • What’s a "little thing" in our relationship that you really love?
  • If our life was a reality TV series, what do you think would be the most appropriate title?
  • What is one date we have not done you would like to do?

US TIME CHALLENGE

Print out a list of conversation starters and take them with you on your next date night, walk, or long drive. Make it fun by taking turns picking questions, and let the conversation go wherever it leads. You might just discover something new about each other!

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

Stay connected with us beyond the show! Visit AshleighSlater.com for free marriage tools, updates on new podcast episodes, and to sign up for her weekly email newsletter.

TEAM US RESOURCES

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Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> In this fun episode, we share creative and meaningful conversation starters to help you reconnect with your spouse, especially if you feel like you’ve run out of things to say. Whether you’re on a date night, taking a walk, or driving somewhere together, these questions will help you laugh, learn, and rediscover each other.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why it’s normal for couples to occasionally run out of things to say
  • How conversation starters can spark fun, meaningful connection
  • A mix of lighthearted and relationship-focused questions to ask your spouse
  • How laughter and curiosity keep your marriage conversations fresh

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Playful conversation matters. Asking silly, imaginative questions helps you reconnect through fun and laughter.
  2. Curiosity strengthens connection. When you keep learning about each other, you keep growing together.
  3. Intentionality counts. Don’t wait for deep conversation to “just happen.” Plan for it by bringing a few questions along on your next date.

CONVERSATION STARTERS WE ANSWER

  • If you could have any job, whether serious or silly, and money was not a factor, what would it be?
  • If time travel existed, when and where would you like to visit first?
  • Who are three famous people, dead or alive, you would want to have lunch with?
  • If you could only listen to two albums for the rest of your life, which ones would you choose, and why?
  • What do you think our biggest strength as a couple is? What about our biggest weakness?
  • What’s a "little thing" in our relationship that you really love?
  • If our life was a reality TV series, what do you think would be the most appropriate title?
  • What is one date we have not done you would like to do?

US TIME CHALLENGE

Print out a list of conversation starters and take them with you on your next date night, walk, or long drive. Make it fun by taking turns picking questions, and let the conversation go wherever it leads. You might just discover something new about each other!

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

Stay connected with us beyond the show! Visit AshleighSlater.com for free marriage tools, updates on new podcast episodes, and to sign up for her weekly email newsletter.

TEAM US RESOURCES

 LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 52 Ted and Ashleigh Slater fed992e1-f2c1-442e-935e-b38d0108d9c2 fed992e1-f2c1-442e-935e-b38d0108d9c2 Tue, 25 Nov 2025 10:30:00 +0000 1900 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/fun-conversation-starters-for-couples-in-a-rut-1 5 Simple Ways to Face the Holidays United in Your Marriage 5 Simple Ways to Face the Holidays United in Your Marriage In this conversation, we talk about how to face the holidays as a united team rather than letting stress, schedules, or family expectations pull you apart. From setting shared expectations to finding ways to serve and dream together, these five simple principles can help you approach the season hand-in-hand, not back-to-back.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • How to set holiday expectations as a couple so you stay on the same page
  • Ways to make time for each other amid the busyness of family gatherings and events
  • How serving together can deepen your bond and create meaningful shared memories
  • The value of dreaming together before the new year begins
  • How to handle conflict with a "we vs. the problem" attitude

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Set expectations together. Talk about what kind of holiday season you both want — simple or busy, quiet or full of tradition — before the stress hits.
  2. Spend dedicated time together. Guard your connection by scheduling couple time in advance, even if it means celebrating a little differently.
  3. Serve others together. Volunteering or giving as a team strengthens your unity and creates shared purpose.
  4. Dream together. Use the season to look ahead, set goals, and imagine what’s next for your marriage and family.
  5. Face conflict together. When disagreements arise, remember you’re on the same team and approach conflict as us against the problem, not me vs. you.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Sit down together and set your holiday expectations as a couple. Talk about what you both want this season to look like — from traditions and travel to budgets and downtime — and then make a plan to help make that vision happen.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

Stay connected with us beyond the show! Visit AshleighSlater.com for free marriage tools, updates on new podcast episodes, and to sign up for my weekly email newsletter.

TEAM US RESOURCES

 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> In this conversation, we talk about how to face the holidays as a united team rather than letting stress, schedules, or family expectations pull you apart. From setting shared expectations to finding ways to serve and dream together, these five simple principles can help you approach the season hand-in-hand, not back-to-back.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • How to set holiday expectations as a couple so you stay on the same page
  • Ways to make time for each other amid the busyness of family gatherings and events
  • How serving together can deepen your bond and create meaningful shared memories
  • The value of dreaming together before the new year begins
  • How to handle conflict with a "we vs. the problem" attitude

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Set expectations together. Talk about what kind of holiday season you both want — simple or busy, quiet or full of tradition — before the stress hits.
  2. Spend dedicated time together. Guard your connection by scheduling couple time in advance, even if it means celebrating a little differently.
  3. Serve others together. Volunteering or giving as a team strengthens your unity and creates shared purpose.
  4. Dream together. Use the season to look ahead, set goals, and imagine what’s next for your marriage and family.
  5. Face conflict together. When disagreements arise, remember you’re on the same team and approach conflict as us against the problem, not me vs. you.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Sit down together and set your holiday expectations as a couple. Talk about what you both want this season to look like — from traditions and travel to budgets and downtime — and then make a plan to help make that vision happen.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

Stay connected with us beyond the show! Visit AshleighSlater.com for free marriage tools, updates on new podcast episodes, and to sign up for my weekly email newsletter.

TEAM US RESOURCES

 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 61 Ted and Ashleigh Slater ed23352c-a2bb-4e0d-821f-b38d0107a3b6 ed23352c-a2bb-4e0d-821f-b38d0107a3b6 Tue, 18 Nov 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1486 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-simple-ways-to-face-the-holidays-united-in-your-marriage 3 Ways We've Learned to 'Leave and Cleave' in Marriage 3 Ways We've Learned to 'Leave and Cleave' in Marriage In this conversation, we talk about what it means to “leave and cleave” in marriage and how getting married calls you to realign your loyalties and priorities. We share three ways we’ve learned to live out this principle, and we hope it encourages you to keep choosing your spouse first.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The biblical meaning behind the phrase “leave and cleave”
  • Why “leaving and cleaving” is harder in practice than in theory
  • How redefining “immediate family” strengthens your marriage
  • Three practical ways to prioritize your spouse over extended family
  • Why involving parents or siblings in marital conflict can create unnecessary strain

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Give your spouse priority over parents and siblings. Your marriage becomes your new “immediate family.” While it’s still important to love and honor your parents, your primary loyalty now belongs to your spouse.
  2. Determine to make decisions together first. Going to your spouse before seeking outside input builds trust, unity, and interdependence. It shows that your spouse’s thoughts and feelings come first.
  3. Decide not to involve extended family in marital conflict. Unless you’re dealing with abuse or serious issues, resolve everyday disagreements privately. Inviting family into routine conflict can damage relationships and make reconciliation harder.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Write down one specific area where you struggle to “leave and cleave.” Share it with your spouse and discuss whether they see it the same way. Then, together, brainstorm two or three practical ways you can improve in that area this week.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

Stay connected with us beyond the show! Visit AshleighSlater.com for free marriage tools, updates on new podcast episodes, and to sign up for her weekly email newsletter.

TEAM US RESOURCES

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> In this conversation, we talk about what it means to “leave and cleave” in marriage and how getting married calls you to realign your loyalties and priorities. We share three ways we’ve learned to live out this principle, and we hope it encourages you to keep choosing your spouse first.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The biblical meaning behind the phrase “leave and cleave”
  • Why “leaving and cleaving” is harder in practice than in theory
  • How redefining “immediate family” strengthens your marriage
  • Three practical ways to prioritize your spouse over extended family
  • Why involving parents or siblings in marital conflict can create unnecessary strain

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Give your spouse priority over parents and siblings. Your marriage becomes your new “immediate family.” While it’s still important to love and honor your parents, your primary loyalty now belongs to your spouse.
  2. Determine to make decisions together first. Going to your spouse before seeking outside input builds trust, unity, and interdependence. It shows that your spouse’s thoughts and feelings come first.
  3. Decide not to involve extended family in marital conflict. Unless you’re dealing with abuse or serious issues, resolve everyday disagreements privately. Inviting family into routine conflict can damage relationships and make reconciliation harder.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Write down one specific area where you struggle to “leave and cleave.” Share it with your spouse and discuss whether they see it the same way. Then, together, brainstorm two or three practical ways you can improve in that area this week.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

Stay connected with us beyond the show! Visit AshleighSlater.com for free marriage tools, updates on new podcast episodes, and to sign up for her weekly email newsletter.

TEAM US RESOURCES

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 56 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 6a67b01c-8b92-4f4c-9dbf-b38d01072958 6a67b01c-8b92-4f4c-9dbf-b38d01072958 Tue, 11 Nov 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1209 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-ways-weve-learned-to-leave-and-cleave-in-marriage Why Saying "I'm Sorry" Feels So Hard and How to Get It Right Why Saying "I'm Sorry" Feels So Hard and How to Get It Right Ever said "I'm sorry" just to move on? You're not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about how to apologize in a way that actually heals and not just hushes the hurt. We'll share what experts say about why it's so hard to say sorry, what makes an apology sincere, and how humility can transform even the most awkward moments into deeper connection.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • Why apologizing feels so difficult (and what’s really behind it)
  • How to make "I'm sorry" more than just words
  • The difference between regret and a true apology
  • What humility has to do with healing and reconciliation
  • A practical, faith-based process for rebuilding trust after hurt

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Real apologies focus on the other person's pain, not our own discomfort.
  • Humility is the foundation of every meaningful apology.
  • "I'm sorry if…" or "I'm sorry but…" aren't true apologies—they're defenses.
  • Taking responsibility rebuilds connection faster than explaining your intent.
  • A sincere apology requires empathy, ownership, and change.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Look back at your most recent apologies. Were they centered on your own feelings or your spouse's experience? This week, practice making your next "I'm sorry" one that reflects humility, empathy, and love.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe to Ashleigh's weekly e-newsletter at AshleighSlater.com, so you never miss what's next. 

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]]> Ever said "I'm sorry" just to move on? You're not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about how to apologize in a way that actually heals and not just hushes the hurt. We'll share what experts say about why it's so hard to say sorry, what makes an apology sincere, and how humility can transform even the most awkward moments into deeper connection.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • Why apologizing feels so difficult (and what’s really behind it)
  • How to make "I'm sorry" more than just words
  • The difference between regret and a true apology
  • What humility has to do with healing and reconciliation
  • A practical, faith-based process for rebuilding trust after hurt

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Real apologies focus on the other person's pain, not our own discomfort.
  • Humility is the foundation of every meaningful apology.
  • "I'm sorry if…" or "I'm sorry but…" aren't true apologies—they're defenses.
  • Taking responsibility rebuilds connection faster than explaining your intent.
  • A sincere apology requires empathy, ownership, and change.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Look back at your most recent apologies. Were they centered on your own feelings or your spouse's experience? This week, practice making your next "I'm sorry" one that reflects humility, empathy, and love.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe to Ashleigh's weekly e-newsletter at AshleighSlater.com, so you never miss what's next. 

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 103 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 48802c7e-4219-4a7a-93e4-b3890105c0bc 48802c7e-4219-4a7a-93e4-b3890105c0bc Tue, 04 Nov 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1431 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-saying-im-sorry-feels-so-hard-and-how-to-get-it-right 3 Simple Ways to Stop Screens from Stealing Your Time Together 3 Simple Ways to Stop Screens from Stealing Your Time Together Ever sit down for date night and realize you’re both scrolling instead of talking? You’re not alone. In this episode, we tackle the challenge of “technoference,” or when screens quietly slip between you and your spouse.

For couples who can’t just unplug completely—because, for some of us, “off the clock” isn’t really a thing—we share three simple, memorable ways to protect your marriage time from digital noise. From quick phone checks that don’t spiral into scrolls, to turning toward each other when it matters most, this episode offers practical steps to keep your connection strong, even in a screen-saturated world.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • What “technoference” means and how it quietly affects relationships
  • Why “just turn it off” doesn’t always work for busy couples
  • Practical steps to handle screens with purpose instead of guilt
  • Three simple, memorable habits for protecting your marriage time

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Veni, Vidi, Vici — “I came, I saw, I conquered”: Take care of the urgent task quickly, then turn back toward your spouse.
  2. Stop, Look, Listen: Pause before reaching for your phone. Notice your moment and your marriage.
  3. Ready, Steady, Go: When your spouse bids for attention, get ready to respond, steady yourself to act, and then go by giving them your full focus.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, try one of these three ideas. Maybe it’s setting down your phone mid-scroll, conquering that quick work text and returning fast, or intentionally turning toward your spouse when they reach out. Small shifts can make a big difference in how connected you feel.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! Which of these takeaways do you need most? Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

 

 

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]]> Ever sit down for date night and realize you’re both scrolling instead of talking? You’re not alone. In this episode, we tackle the challenge of “technoference,” or when screens quietly slip between you and your spouse.

For couples who can’t just unplug completely—because, for some of us, “off the clock” isn’t really a thing—we share three simple, memorable ways to protect your marriage time from digital noise. From quick phone checks that don’t spiral into scrolls, to turning toward each other when it matters most, this episode offers practical steps to keep your connection strong, even in a screen-saturated world.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • What “technoference” means and how it quietly affects relationships
  • Why “just turn it off” doesn’t always work for busy couples
  • Practical steps to handle screens with purpose instead of guilt
  • Three simple, memorable habits for protecting your marriage time

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. Veni, Vidi, Vici — “I came, I saw, I conquered”: Take care of the urgent task quickly, then turn back toward your spouse.
  2. Stop, Look, Listen: Pause before reaching for your phone. Notice your moment and your marriage.
  3. Ready, Steady, Go: When your spouse bids for attention, get ready to respond, steady yourself to act, and then go by giving them your full focus.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, try one of these three ideas. Maybe it’s setting down your phone mid-scroll, conquering that quick work text and returning fast, or intentionally turning toward your spouse when they reach out. Small shifts can make a big difference in how connected you feel.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! Which of these takeaways do you need most? Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

 

 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 102 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 98d38cbf-6e75-4d58-a413-b382012da340 98d38cbf-6e75-4d58-a413-b382012da340 Tue, 28 Oct 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1287 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-simple-ways-to-stop-screens-from-stealing-your-time-together How to Talk So Your Spouse Feels Seen and Heard How to Talk So Your Spouse Feels Seen and Heard Ever feel like you and your spouse are talking but not really connecting? You’re saying words, but they’re not landing. We’ve all been there.

In this episode, we share five simple communication techniques—adapted from How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes—that can help you feel more seen, heard, and understood in marriage. These aren’t gimmicks or manipulative tricks. They’re practical, grace-filled ways to build trust and connection with the person you love most.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why body language and attention matter more than perfect phrasing
  • How to recognize your spouse’s bids for connection and respond well
  • What it means to become a “word detective” in your marriage
  • Why “thank you for…” is stronger than just “thank you”
  • How to use empathy and echoing to make your spouse feel truly heard

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. The Big-Baby Pivot: Turn your full attention toward your spouse when they speak—it communicates value and presence.
  2. Be a Word Detective: Listen for clues about what interests your spouse, and ask follow-up questions.
  3. Never the Naked Thank You: Always follow gratitude with for—“Thank you for doing the dishes,” not just “thanks.”
  4. Echoing: Mirror key words to show empathy and understanding.
  5. Employ Empathizers: Replace “uh-huh” with thoughtful affirmations like “I see what you mean” or “That makes sense.”

US TIME CHALLENGE

Pick one of the five communication techniques and practice it intentionally. Maybe it’s pivoting toward your spouse when they talk, or saying, “Thank you for…” instead of just “thanks.” Small shifts in how we speak and listen can make a big difference in how connected we feel.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! Which of the techniques are you going to try first and why? Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> Ever feel like you and your spouse are talking but not really connecting? You’re saying words, but they’re not landing. We’ve all been there.

In this episode, we share five simple communication techniques—adapted from How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes—that can help you feel more seen, heard, and understood in marriage. These aren’t gimmicks or manipulative tricks. They’re practical, grace-filled ways to build trust and connection with the person you love most.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why body language and attention matter more than perfect phrasing
  • How to recognize your spouse’s bids for connection and respond well
  • What it means to become a “word detective” in your marriage
  • Why “thank you for…” is stronger than just “thank you”
  • How to use empathy and echoing to make your spouse feel truly heard

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  1. The Big-Baby Pivot: Turn your full attention toward your spouse when they speak—it communicates value and presence.
  2. Be a Word Detective: Listen for clues about what interests your spouse, and ask follow-up questions.
  3. Never the Naked Thank You: Always follow gratitude with for—“Thank you for doing the dishes,” not just “thanks.”
  4. Echoing: Mirror key words to show empathy and understanding.
  5. Employ Empathizers: Replace “uh-huh” with thoughtful affirmations like “I see what you mean” or “That makes sense.”

US TIME CHALLENGE

Pick one of the five communication techniques and practice it intentionally. Maybe it’s pivoting toward your spouse when they talk, or saying, “Thank you for…” instead of just “thanks.” Small shifts in how we speak and listen can make a big difference in how connected we feel.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! Which of the techniques are you going to try first and why? Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 101 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 0e5980f6-79be-47da-86f8-b37b015dfd9f 0e5980f6-79be-47da-86f8-b37b015dfd9f Tue, 21 Oct 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1524 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-talk-so-your-spouse-feels-seen-and-heard 10 Simple Hacks for a Stronger, Happier Marriage 10 Simple Hacks for a Stronger, Happier Marriage It’s our 100th episode! Can you believe it? To celebrate this milestone, we’re sharing ten simple hacks for a stronger, happier marriage.

Over the last four years, we’ve talked about each of these in different episodes, but today we’re pulling them all together in one place. These hacks are doable, encouraging, and designed to bring you closer as a couple.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Hack 1: Think “Us,” Not “Me” — shift from “me” to “we” for unity and teamwork.
  • Hack 2: Get on the Same Page — create shared goals and expectations, and keep checking in.
  • Hack 3: Dream Together, Stay Together — build connection by pursuing shared dreams.
  • Hack 4: Make Rituals Your Super Glue — create traditions that bond you through consistency.
  • Hack 5: Show Love with Follow-Through — build trust with small, steady actions.
  • Hack 6: Progress Beats Perfection — focus on growth, not flawless performance.
  • Hack 7: Stay Flexible to Stay Connected — adapt to life’s curveballs as a team.
  • Hack 8: Battle Problems, Not Your Partner — face challenges side by side instead of against each other.
  • Hack 9: Turn Conflict into Closeness — lean into conflict with humility and respect to grow stronger.
  • Hack 10: Keep Love Playful and Fun — laugh together and flirt often to keep the spark alive.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Choose one hack from the list and practice it together. Whether it’s starting a small ritual, showing follow-through, or sharing a laugh, see how it strengthens your marriage this week.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! Which hack is your favorite and why? Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> It’s our 100th episode! Can you believe it? To celebrate this milestone, we’re sharing ten simple hacks for a stronger, happier marriage.

Over the last four years, we’ve talked about each of these in different episodes, but today we’re pulling them all together in one place. These hacks are doable, encouraging, and designed to bring you closer as a couple.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Hack 1: Think “Us,” Not “Me” — shift from “me” to “we” for unity and teamwork.
  • Hack 2: Get on the Same Page — create shared goals and expectations, and keep checking in.
  • Hack 3: Dream Together, Stay Together — build connection by pursuing shared dreams.
  • Hack 4: Make Rituals Your Super Glue — create traditions that bond you through consistency.
  • Hack 5: Show Love with Follow-Through — build trust with small, steady actions.
  • Hack 6: Progress Beats Perfection — focus on growth, not flawless performance.
  • Hack 7: Stay Flexible to Stay Connected — adapt to life’s curveballs as a team.
  • Hack 8: Battle Problems, Not Your Partner — face challenges side by side instead of against each other.
  • Hack 9: Turn Conflict into Closeness — lean into conflict with humility and respect to grow stronger.
  • Hack 10: Keep Love Playful and Fun — laugh together and flirt often to keep the spark alive.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Choose one hack from the list and practice it together. Whether it’s starting a small ritual, showing follow-through, or sharing a laugh, see how it strengthens your marriage this week.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! Which hack is your favorite and why? Share it with us on social media or send us a message at AshleighSlater.com.

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]]> full 100 Ted and Ashleigh Slater a72f5333-7ad9-4cad-b7ab-b371017019ff a72f5333-7ad9-4cad-b7ab-b371017019ff Tue, 14 Oct 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1388 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/10-simple-hacks-for-a-stronger-happier-marriage 3 Ways to Rekindle Romance in Marriage 3 Ways to Rekindle Romance in Marriage What do Reese’s, raisins, and rekindling romance have in common? More than you might think. In this episode, we kick things off with a lighthearted chat about October candy trends, before diving into something sweeter: three practical ways to keep the spark alive in marriage.

Whether you’ve been married two years or twenty, you’ll walk away with encouragement and simple steps to nurture friendship, show love in everyday gestures, and let go of old hurts.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why friendship is the foundation of lasting romance
  • The power of small, daily gestures to communicate love
  • How forgiveness frees couples to move forward together

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, pick one or two small gestures of love to practice each day.

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]]> What do Reese’s, raisins, and rekindling romance have in common? More than you might think. In this episode, we kick things off with a lighthearted chat about October candy trends, before diving into something sweeter: three practical ways to keep the spark alive in marriage.

Whether you’ve been married two years or twenty, you’ll walk away with encouragement and simple steps to nurture friendship, show love in everyday gestures, and let go of old hurts.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why friendship is the foundation of lasting romance
  • The power of small, daily gestures to communicate love
  • How forgiveness frees couples to move forward together

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, pick one or two small gestures of love to practice each day.

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]]> full 99 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 58ef1ec7-6b39-46db-892a-b3680109868e 58ef1ec7-6b39-46db-892a-b3680109868e Tue, 07 Oct 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1535 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-ways-to-rekindle-romance-in-marriage Why Unresolved Conflict Poisons Marriage Why Unresolved Conflict Poisons Marriage Every couple has conflict. But what happens when we let it linger? In this episode, we’re unpacking three reasons unresolved conflict can poison our connection, our home, and our marriage. Plus, we’ll explore how understanding conflict management styles can help us handle disagreements in a healthier way. Because how we handle conflict shapes the kind of connection we share.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The five conflict management styles 
  • Why lingering conflict prolongs issues rather than solving them
  • How unresolved conflict breaks connection and trust between spouses
  • The effect lingering conflict has on the atmosphere of your home
  • Practical encouragement from Scripture to address conflict with wisdom

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, reflect on your conflict management style. Which one do you tend to use most often in your marriage? Do you need to make changes so that conflict doesn’t linger and harm your relationship?

ADDITIONAL TEAM US EPISODES WITH TIPS FOR CONFLICT RESOLUTION

  • How to Embrace Conflict in Your Marriage as an Adventure, Not a Threat [Episode 5]
  • How to Work Together to Resolve Disagreements [Episode 16]
  • What to Do When Communication Is Frustrating [Episode 22]
  • Why Being Right in Marriage Can Be Wrong [Episode 33]
  • How to Respond When Your Spouse Loads the Dishwasher Wrong [Episode 40]
  • Why We Go to Bed Mad (And How It’s Helped Our Marriage) [Episode 41]
  • 3 Tools for Tackling Everyday Conflicts [Episode 64]
  • 3 Ways to Transforms Kitchen Disagreements into Deeper Connection [Episode 91]

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]]> Every couple has conflict. But what happens when we let it linger? In this episode, we’re unpacking three reasons unresolved conflict can poison our connection, our home, and our marriage. Plus, we’ll explore how understanding conflict management styles can help us handle disagreements in a healthier way. Because how we handle conflict shapes the kind of connection we share.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The five conflict management styles 
  • Why lingering conflict prolongs issues rather than solving them
  • How unresolved conflict breaks connection and trust between spouses
  • The effect lingering conflict has on the atmosphere of your home
  • Practical encouragement from Scripture to address conflict with wisdom

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, reflect on your conflict management style. Which one do you tend to use most often in your marriage? Do you need to make changes so that conflict doesn’t linger and harm your relationship?

ADDITIONAL TEAM US EPISODES WITH TIPS FOR CONFLICT RESOLUTION

  • How to Embrace Conflict in Your Marriage as an Adventure, Not a Threat [Episode 5]
  • How to Work Together to Resolve Disagreements [Episode 16]
  • What to Do When Communication Is Frustrating [Episode 22]
  • Why Being Right in Marriage Can Be Wrong [Episode 33]
  • How to Respond When Your Spouse Loads the Dishwasher Wrong [Episode 40]
  • Why We Go to Bed Mad (And How It’s Helped Our Marriage) [Episode 41]
  • 3 Tools for Tackling Everyday Conflicts [Episode 64]
  • 3 Ways to Transforms Kitchen Disagreements into Deeper Connection [Episode 91]

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]]> full 98 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 493a77a4-00c8-4516-ad57-b36300ca3935 493a77a4-00c8-4516-ad57-b36300ca3935 Tue, 30 Sep 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1277 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-unresolved-conflict-poisons-marriage How to Be a Better Listener in Marriage How to Be a Better Listener in Marriage We’ve all been a non-listener at times. Maybe it’s been the advice giver, the eternal optimist, the doomsayer, or the one who makes the conversation all about us. The truth is, we all fall into bad listening habits now and then. But here’s the good news: becoming a better listener is possible, and even small shifts can make a big difference in our marriages.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The six types of non-listeners, and why we all slip into them sometimes
  • Three practical ways to improve your listening: removing barriers, pausing before you respond, and showing real interest
  • How better listening can deepen connection and help your spouse feel truly valued

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, practice pausing for three seconds—or simply taking a breath—before you respond to your spouse. See how it changes the way you listen and connect.

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]]> We’ve all been a non-listener at times. Maybe it’s been the advice giver, the eternal optimist, the doomsayer, or the one who makes the conversation all about us. The truth is, we all fall into bad listening habits now and then. But here’s the good news: becoming a better listener is possible, and even small shifts can make a big difference in our marriages.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The six types of non-listeners, and why we all slip into them sometimes
  • Three practical ways to improve your listening: removing barriers, pausing before you respond, and showing real interest
  • How better listening can deepen connection and help your spouse feel truly valued

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, practice pausing for three seconds—or simply taking a breath—before you respond to your spouse. See how it changes the way you listen and connect.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s next. And we’d love to hear from you! What non-listener do you struggle with being? Share it with us on social media or contact us at AshleighSlater.com.

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]]> full 97 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 930a043c-d236-4104-8478-b35e0112207d 930a043c-d236-4104-8478-b35e0112207d Tue, 23 Sep 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1650 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-be-a-better-listener-in-marriage 3 Steps to Create Fall Traditions as a Couple 3 Steps to Create Fall Traditions as a Couple Fall doesn’t have to be all about the big, once-a-year events like apple picking, Oktoberfest, or corn mazes that you choose to do together. It can also be about the smaller, weekly things that build connection, create memories, and give your marriage deeper meaning.

In this episode of the Team Us podcast, we share why traditions matter in marriage, how some of the best ones start, and three simple steps you can use to create your own weekly fall traditions as a couple.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The surprising history behind corn mazes and Oktoberfest
  • Why Dr. John Gottman says traditions (or “rituals of connection”) matter for couples
  • How even haphazard, accidental traditions can become meaningful when nurtured
  • Three simple steps to create weekly fall traditions without feeling overwhelmed
  • Practical ideas, from cozy movie nights to coffee shop dates, that you can start this week

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, create one weekly fall tradition with your spouse. Use the three steps from today’s episode to get started and see how it adds connection and meaning to your week.

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]]> Fall doesn’t have to be all about the big, once-a-year events like apple picking, Oktoberfest, or corn mazes that you choose to do together. It can also be about the smaller, weekly things that build connection, create memories, and give your marriage deeper meaning.

In this episode of the Team Us podcast, we share why traditions matter in marriage, how some of the best ones start, and three simple steps you can use to create your own weekly fall traditions as a couple.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • The surprising history behind corn mazes and Oktoberfest
  • Why Dr. John Gottman says traditions (or “rituals of connection”) matter for couples
  • How even haphazard, accidental traditions can become meaningful when nurtured
  • Three simple steps to create weekly fall traditions without feeling overwhelmed
  • Practical ideas, from cozy movie nights to coffee shop dates, that you can start this week

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, create one weekly fall tradition with your spouse. Use the three steps from today’s episode to get started and see how it adds connection and meaning to your week.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

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]]> full 96 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 44849943-053e-4085-b671-b356015a2557 44849943-053e-4085-b671-b356015a2557 Tue, 16 Sep 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1492 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-steps-to-create-fall-traditions-as-a-couple Why Early Bird-Night Owl Couples Need Smart Habits to Stay Close Why Early Bird-Night Owl Couples Need Smart Habits to Stay Close What happens when an early bird marries a night owl? Opposite sleep schedules can make even the strongest marriages feel a little out of sync. But here’s the good news: with a few intentional habits, couples can stay connected, whether one of you is most awake at sunrise and the other at midnight.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why going to bed at the same time matters (and how to make it happen)
  • How to avoid “mismatched talk time” when one of you is chatty and the other isn’t
  • Smart ways to protect quality time, even when energy levels peak at different hours
  • Practical habits that help early birds and night owls thrive together

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, pick one shared evening activity to enjoy together. It could be watching a show, playing cards, reading side by side, or taking a walk after dinner. The goal? Build a simple habit of connection, no matter what your schedules look like.

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]]> What happens when an early bird marries a night owl? Opposite sleep schedules can make even the strongest marriages feel a little out of sync. But here’s the good news: with a few intentional habits, couples can stay connected, whether one of you is most awake at sunrise and the other at midnight.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why going to bed at the same time matters (and how to make it happen)
  • How to avoid “mismatched talk time” when one of you is chatty and the other isn’t
  • Smart ways to protect quality time, even when energy levels peak at different hours
  • Practical habits that help early birds and night owls thrive together

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, pick one shared evening activity to enjoy together. It could be watching a show, playing cards, reading side by side, or taking a walk after dinner. The goal? Build a simple habit of connection, no matter what your schedules look like.

STAY CONNECTED BEYOND THE PODCAST

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]]> full 95 Ted and Ashleigh Slater d3b4b3e3-690c-4c33-8101-b34e00e95671 d3b4b3e3-690c-4c33-8101-b34e00e95671 Tue, 09 Sep 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1355 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-early-bird-night-owl-couples-need-smart-habits-to-stay-close 3 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Strong When Life Changes 3 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Strong When Life Changes Life is full of change—new jobs, moves, kids growing up, health challenges. The question isn’t if change will happen, but how we’ll face it together. The good news? Change doesn’t have to push you apart. It can actually bring you closer.

In this episode, we share 3 practical ways to not just handle change, but to embrace it as a couple. You’ll discover:

  • How to reframe change as growth so it strengthens your relationship.
  • Why it’s vital to create shared meaning together when seasons shift.
  • The role of psychological flexibility in navigating the unexpected.

“Us Time” Challenge: Talk through a recent change in your life. Then brainstorm a few intentional ways you can create shared meaning together in the middle of it.

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]]> Life is full of change—new jobs, moves, kids growing up, health challenges. The question isn’t if change will happen, but how we’ll face it together. The good news? Change doesn’t have to push you apart. It can actually bring you closer.

In this episode, we share 3 practical ways to not just handle change, but to embrace it as a couple. You’ll discover:

  • How to reframe change as growth so it strengthens your relationship.
  • Why it’s vital to create shared meaning together when seasons shift.
  • The role of psychological flexibility in navigating the unexpected.

“Us Time” Challenge: Talk through a recent change in your life. Then brainstorm a few intentional ways you can create shared meaning together in the middle of it.

Stay Connected Beyond the Podcast

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]]> full 94 Ted and Ashleigh Slater f4ce101c-3672-45a4-86e6-b3450104b1aa f4ce101c-3672-45a4-86e6-b3450104b1aa Tue, 02 Sep 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1156 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-ways-to-keep-your-marriage-strong-when-life-changes How to Divide Chores Without Dividing Your Marriage How to Divide Chores Without Dividing Your Marriage Your marriage isn’t built on dishes and laundry, but how you handle them matters. What if splitting chores wasn’t just about being fair but about truly serving each other?

In this episode, we share 3 simple ways to divide household responsibilities that make life at home smoother and strengthen your marriage.

You’ll Learn:

  • How to divide and conquer based on strengths
  • Why volunteering for a dreaded chore shows love in action
  • The power of covering for each other when life gets hectic

“Us Time” Challenge: Take on a chore your spouse hates this week. Small sacrifice, big connection.

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]]> Your marriage isn’t built on dishes and laundry, but how you handle them matters. What if splitting chores wasn’t just about being fair but about truly serving each other?

In this episode, we share 3 simple ways to divide household responsibilities that make life at home smoother and strengthen your marriage.

You’ll Learn:

  • How to divide and conquer based on strengths
  • Why volunteering for a dreaded chore shows love in action
  • The power of covering for each other when life gets hectic

“Us Time” Challenge: Take on a chore your spouse hates this week. Small sacrifice, big connection.

RESOURCES & FREEBIES

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]]> full 93 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 9c778169-7afc-41ab-bb3c-b34100ed4fd9 9c778169-7afc-41ab-bb3c-b34100ed4fd9 Tue, 26 Aug 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1440 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-divide-chores-without-dividing-your-marriage Why Shared Purpose Can Help Protect Your Marriage Why Shared Purpose Can Help Protect Your Marriage Did you know that 85% of affairs start at work, and one in five employees admit to being unfaithful with a coworker? In today’s episode, we’re not just talking about temptation, though. We’re talking about prevention. One of the best ways to protect your marriage is to build something meaningful inside it. We’re diving into three shared purposes that can shift your relationship from just managing life together to truly living it as a team.

3 SHARED PURPOSES TO HELP PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE

  1. Grow more Christlike together
  2. Be dream-makers together
  3. Battle common enemies together

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Set aside twenty minutes to ask each other this question:

“What’s a dream—big or small—you’ve been holding onto lately?”

Then just listen and hear each other’s heart. Be a dream-maker with your spouse, not a dream-taker. Or, if you want to start smaller, do the dishes or fold laundry together and make it a regular habit.

CONNECT WITH US

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TEAM US RESOURCES

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]]> Did you know that 85% of affairs start at work, and one in five employees admit to being unfaithful with a coworker? In today’s episode, we’re not just talking about temptation, though. We’re talking about prevention. One of the best ways to protect your marriage is to build something meaningful inside it. We’re diving into three shared purposes that can shift your relationship from just managing life together to truly living it as a team.

3 SHARED PURPOSES TO HELP PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE

  1. Grow more Christlike together
  2. Be dream-makers together
  3. Battle common enemies together

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Set aside twenty minutes to ask each other this question:

“What’s a dream—big or small—you’ve been holding onto lately?”

Then just listen and hear each other’s heart. Be a dream-maker with your spouse, not a dream-taker. Or, if you want to start smaller, do the dishes or fold laundry together and make it a regular habit.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

TEAM US RESOURCES

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]]> full 92 Ted and Ashleigh Slater fca6781e-6619-4ea9-bca0-b336018a5e4b fca6781e-6619-4ea9-bca0-b336018a5e4b Tue, 19 Aug 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1251 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-shared-purpose-can-help-protect-your-marriage 3 Ways to Transform Kitchen Disagreements into Deeper Connection 3 Ways to Transform Kitchen Disagreements into Deeper Connection Is the kitchen a battleground in your marriage? In this episode, we’re dishing out three attitudes you can bring to the kitchen to turn tension over tacos into love over lasagna. If “I love you, but step away from the stove” sounds familiar, tune in to discover how to make shared cooking time a recipe for deeper intimacy.

3 ATTITUDES TO BRING TO THE KITCHEN

  1. Respect
  2. Curiosity
  3. Humility

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Next time you cook together—or even just prep a quick lunch—try this: pick one of these three attitudes to intentionally practice. Whether it’s showing respect by biting your tongue, asking a curious question, or stepping back with humility, try it out. Then talk about how it went.

CONNECT WITH US

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TEAM US RESOURCES

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]]> Is the kitchen a battleground in your marriage? In this episode, we’re dishing out three attitudes you can bring to the kitchen to turn tension over tacos into love over lasagna. If “I love you, but step away from the stove” sounds familiar, tune in to discover how to make shared cooking time a recipe for deeper intimacy.

3 ATTITUDES TO BRING TO THE KITCHEN

  1. Respect
  2. Curiosity
  3. Humility

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Next time you cook together—or even just prep a quick lunch—try this: pick one of these three attitudes to intentionally practice. Whether it’s showing respect by biting your tongue, asking a curious question, or stepping back with humility, try it out. Then talk about how it went.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

TEAM US RESOURCES

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]]> full 91 Ted and Ashleigh Slater a95647d3-4091-4019-bcb7-b33601881e39 a95647d3-4091-4019-bcb7-b33601881e39 Tue, 12 Aug 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1321 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-ways-to-transform-kitchen-disagreements-into-deeper-connection How to Turn Back-to-School Chaos into Calm as a Couple How to Turn Back-to-School Chaos into Calm as a Couple The school year is back in full swing. If you're a parent, that probably means your calendar just got a whole lot crazier. In today’s episode, we’re tackling three common back-to-school stressors and sharing practical ways you and your spouse can turn chaos into calm.

3 BACK-TO-SCHOOL CHALLENGES COUPLES FACE

  1. Syncing family schedules
  2. Emotional exhaustion
  3. Parenting style conflicts

PRACTICAL WAYS TO TURN CHAOS INTO CALM

  1. Have a calendar white board and daily check ins
  2. Give each other time alone for self-care and also take breaks together
  3. Stop, ask, and listen, and use the 49/51 percent rule

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Talk with your spouse about what the top challenges are for you as we head into this new school year. Then, brainstorm some practical ways you can turn that chaos into calm as a team.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

TEAM US RESOURCES 

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]]> The school year is back in full swing. If you're a parent, that probably means your calendar just got a whole lot crazier. In today’s episode, we’re tackling three common back-to-school stressors and sharing practical ways you and your spouse can turn chaos into calm.

3 BACK-TO-SCHOOL CHALLENGES COUPLES FACE

  1. Syncing family schedules
  2. Emotional exhaustion
  3. Parenting style conflicts

PRACTICAL WAYS TO TURN CHAOS INTO CALM

  1. Have a calendar white board and daily check ins
  2. Give each other time alone for self-care and also take breaks together
  3. Stop, ask, and listen, and use the 49/51 percent rule

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Talk with your spouse about what the top challenges are for you as we head into this new school year. Then, brainstorm some practical ways you can turn that chaos into calm as a team.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

TEAM US RESOURCES 

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]]> full 90 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 77e7beea-8913-4a56-b598-b32500d9dfc0 77e7beea-8913-4a56-b598-b32500d9dfc0 Tue, 05 Aug 2025 11:00:00 +0000 1459 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-turn-back-to-school-chaos-into-calm-as-a-couple Why We Go to Bed Mad (And How It's Helped Our Marriage) Why We Go to Bed Mad (And How It's Helped Our Marriage) Within the Christian community, “Do not let the sun go down on your anger” is often quoted as a hard-and-fast rule for married couples to follow whenever they experience conflict. But sometimes Ted and I do go to bed mad—and surprisingly, it’s been good for our marriage. In today’s episode, we’ll tell you why.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think of another hard-and-fast rule couples are often told. Do you practice it in your marriage? How has it been helpful? If not, what do you do instead and why?

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]]> Within the Christian community, “Do not let the sun go down on your anger” is often quoted as a hard-and-fast rule for married couples to follow whenever they experience conflict. But sometimes Ted and I do go to bed mad—and surprisingly, it’s been good for our marriage. In today’s episode, we’ll tell you why.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think of another hard-and-fast rule couples are often told. Do you practice it in your marriage? How has it been helpful? If not, what do you do instead and why?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater ac87354e-bd42-49b9-be63-b30800fb475b ac87354e-bd42-49b9-be63-b30800fb475b Tue, 29 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1360 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-we-go-to-bed-mad-and-how-its-helped-our-marriage The 3 Key Things Found in Every Strong Marriage The 3 Key Things Found in Every Strong Marriage What’s the secret to a strong marriage? Listen in as we talk about the importance of consistent follow through in three specific areas.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one idea from each of the areas to put into practice this week.

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]]> What’s the secret to a strong marriage? Listen in as we talk about the importance of consistent follow through in three specific areas.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one idea from each of the areas to put into practice this week.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 48bc0719-50d5-4dd1-8333-b30800fa28fd 48bc0719-50d5-4dd1-8333-b30800fa28fd Tue, 22 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1509 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/the-3-key-things-found-in-every-strong-marriage 5 Ways to Stop Your Differences from Dividing You as a Couple 5 Ways to Stop Your Differences from Dividing You as a Couple Have you ever looked at your spouse and asked, “What do we have in common?” Maybe there have been times when you’ve even felt like you have more differences than similarities.

In marriage, there’s always the potential for our differences to eat away at our unity—especially if that’s what we focus on. Today, we’re sharing five practical ways you and your spouse can stop your differences from dividing you.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Identify one difference that’s been dividing you and your spouse lately. Take some time to think about what you can appreciate and respect about that difference. Then, tell your spouse—and be sure to keep it all positive!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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  • For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn and For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage by Robert Paul and Greg Smalley

 

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]]> Have you ever looked at your spouse and asked, “What do we have in common?” Maybe there have been times when you’ve even felt like you have more differences than similarities.

In marriage, there’s always the potential for our differences to eat away at our unity—especially if that’s what we focus on. Today, we’re sharing five practical ways you and your spouse can stop your differences from dividing you.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Identify one difference that’s been dividing you and your spouse lately. Take some time to think about what you can appreciate and respect about that difference. Then, tell your spouse—and be sure to keep it all positive!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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  • Loving Him Well by Gary Thomas
  • For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn and For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage by Robert Paul and Greg Smalley

 

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]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater d545192d-1fce-499b-ad9c-b30800f983f4 d545192d-1fce-499b-ad9c-b30800f983f4 Tue, 15 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1425 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-ways-to-stop-your-differences-from-dividing-you-as-a-couple 4 Truths about Marriage Every Couple Needs to Remember 4 Truths about Marriage Every Couple Needs to Remember No matter how long you’ve been married, reminding yourself of fundamental marriage truths is helpful. In this episode, we’ll share four truths about marriage every couple needs to remember.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Talk about which of these truths you needed to be reminded of most. Ask yourselves: How can we live it out in our marriage this week?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> No matter how long you’ve been married, reminding yourself of fundamental marriage truths is helpful. In this episode, we’ll share four truths about marriage every couple needs to remember.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Talk about which of these truths you needed to be reminded of most. Ask yourselves: How can we live it out in our marriage this week?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 1cda5585-c77a-41e5-b3bd-b30800f93a1b 1cda5585-c77a-41e5-b3bd-b30800f93a1b Tue, 08 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1516 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/4-truths-about-marriage-every-couple-needs-to-remember Why Summer Is a Great Time to Make Your Marriage Fun Again Why Summer Is a Great Time to Make Your Marriage Fun Again Do you and your spouse have fun together? As couples, sometimes we can get in a rut and feel like life — and marriage — are all work and no play. In this episode, we’re exploring how we can make marriage fun again. This month, we are reairing our favorite episodes, and this is definitely at the top of our list!

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If fun is lacking from your marriage, try one of our suggestions.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> Do you and your spouse have fun together? As couples, sometimes we can get in a rut and feel like life — and marriage — are all work and no play. In this episode, we’re exploring how we can make marriage fun again. This month, we are reairing our favorite episodes, and this is definitely at the top of our list!

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If fun is lacking from your marriage, try one of our suggestions.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 586c1166-e645-425e-ad5b-b30800f89549 586c1166-e645-425e-ad5b-b30800f89549 Tue, 01 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1517 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-summer-is-a-great-time-to-make-your-marriage-fun-again How Couples Can Tackle Stress as a Team How Couples Can Tackle Stress as a Team We don’t have a choice on whether we will experience stress. However, we do have a choice on how we will face it. Today, we share three practical ways you and your spouse can tackle stress as a team.

3 WAYS COUPLES CAN TACKLE STRESS AS A TEAM

  1. Reaffirm your team mentality
  2. Stay open and stay communicating
  3. Laugh, cry, or eat your equivalent of ice cream

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Reaffirm your team mentality. Whether the stress you are experiencing is big or small, remind each other that you are on the same team.

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]]> We don’t have a choice on whether we will experience stress. However, we do have a choice on how we will face it. Today, we share three practical ways you and your spouse can tackle stress as a team.

3 WAYS COUPLES CAN TACKLE STRESS AS A TEAM

  1. Reaffirm your team mentality
  2. Stay open and stay communicating
  3. Laugh, cry, or eat your equivalent of ice cream

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Reaffirm your team mentality. Whether the stress you are experiencing is big or small, remind each other that you are on the same team.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/

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]]> full 89 Ted and Ashleigh Slater ac2f6e7a-16b2-41e3-a910-b30101379a79 ac2f6e7a-16b2-41e3-a910-b30101379a79 Tue, 24 Jun 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1133 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-couples-can-tackle-stress-as-a-team 5 Key Strategies for Teamwork in Marriage 5 Key Strategies for Teamwork in Marriage We share five of our favorite strategies for teamwork in marriage. So, if you and your spouse are feeling out of synch lately, don’t miss this episode!

5 KEY STRATEGIES FOR TEAMWORK

  1. Get on the same page
  2. Enjoy something new
  3. Choose lightheartedness
  4. Make peace with the past
  5. Fight as allies

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Think about what you and your spouse do that makes you most feel like a team and why.

CONNECT WITH US

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]]> We share five of our favorite strategies for teamwork in marriage. So, if you and your spouse are feeling out of synch lately, don’t miss this episode!

5 KEY STRATEGIES FOR TEAMWORK

  1. Get on the same page
  2. Enjoy something new
  3. Choose lightheartedness
  4. Make peace with the past
  5. Fight as allies

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Think about what you and your spouse do that makes you most feel like a team and why.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

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]]> full 88 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 9c5c832f-d46d-48b1-8db6-b2fb01163b38 9c5c832f-d46d-48b1-8db6-b2fb01163b38 Tue, 17 Jun 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1121 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-key-strategies-for-teamwork-in-marriage How Wedding Planning Together Builds Your Team How Wedding Planning Together Builds Your Team In this episode, we focus on engaged couples and those contemplating marriage. A wedding marks the beginning of a marriage — and that marriage is the joining of two people. So, a wedding should be the joint ideas, preferences, and efforts of those two people. Listen in as we share three skills couples can practice when they approach wedding planning as a team.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

We have two this week. First, for the already-married couples who listened, look back at your wedding planning and reminisce on how you may have practiced one or more of these skills. Second, for engaged couples, pick one of these three skills and apply it to something you either still need to plan or an area where you are having a hard time agreeing.

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]]> In this episode, we focus on engaged couples and those contemplating marriage. A wedding marks the beginning of a marriage — and that marriage is the joining of two people. So, a wedding should be the joint ideas, preferences, and efforts of those two people. Listen in as we share three skills couples can practice when they approach wedding planning as a team.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

We have two this week. First, for the already-married couples who listened, look back at your wedding planning and reminisce on how you may have practiced one or more of these skills. Second, for engaged couples, pick one of these three skills and apply it to something you either still need to plan or an area where you are having a hard time agreeing.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

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]]> full 87 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 4bee249c-249a-4934-8f34-b2f701173e2a 4bee249c-249a-4934-8f34-b2f701173e2a Tue, 10 Jun 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1299 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-wedding-planning-together-builds-your-team 5 Essential Tips for Traveling Together 5 Essential Tips for Traveling Together Do you and your spouse have summer travel plans? Whether it’s a family vacation, a couple’s getaway, or a trip to spend time with extended family, we have five travel tips for you in today’s episode.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Talk with your spouse about your travel styles. And, if you plan to travel this summer, spend time making the plans together and anticipating and preparing for triggers.

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]]> Do you and your spouse have summer travel plans? Whether it’s a family vacation, a couple’s getaway, or a trip to spend time with extended family, we have five travel tips for you in today’s episode.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Talk with your spouse about your travel styles. And, if you plan to travel this summer, spend time making the plans together and anticipating and preparing for triggers.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

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]]> full 86 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 86a94915-318a-47d3-81f4-b2eb012ce1f3 86a94915-318a-47d3-81f4-b2eb012ce1f3 Tue, 03 Jun 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1460 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-essential-tips-for-traveling-together How to Prepare Your Marriage for the Empty Nest with Mike and Kate Battistelli How to Prepare Your Marriage for the Empty Nest with Mike and Kate Battistelli Author, speaker, and podcaster Kate Battistelli and her husband Mike are back on the podcast to give us practical wisdom on why preparing for the empty nest starts while the nest is still full.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Invest in your relationship this week by watching either the sunrise or the sunset together.

ABOUT MIKE AND KATE BATTISTELLI

Mike and Kate met as active professionals in the NYC Music and Broadway Theatre world. But when God called them to follow Him and lay down those dreams, they did! They’ve now been married forty-one years. Today, Mike is a realtor in the Nashville area, and Kate is a speaker, podcaster, and the author of Growing Great Kids, The God Dare, and The After Party of the Empty Nest. They are also the parents of Grammy and Dove Award-winning singer/songwriter and Contemporary Christian recording artist Francesca Battistelli and grandparents to seven grandkids.

CONNECT WITH MIKE AND KATE BATTISTELLI

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]]> Author, speaker, and podcaster Kate Battistelli and her husband Mike are back on the podcast to give us practical wisdom on why preparing for the empty nest starts while the nest is still full.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Invest in your relationship this week by watching either the sunrise or the sunset together.

ABOUT MIKE AND KATE BATTISTELLI

Mike and Kate met as active professionals in the NYC Music and Broadway Theatre world. But when God called them to follow Him and lay down those dreams, they did! They’ve now been married forty-one years. Today, Mike is a realtor in the Nashville area, and Kate is a speaker, podcaster, and the author of Growing Great Kids, The God Dare, and The After Party of the Empty Nest. They are also the parents of Grammy and Dove Award-winning singer/songwriter and Contemporary Christian recording artist Francesca Battistelli and grandparents to seven grandkids.

CONNECT WITH MIKE AND KATE BATTISTELLI

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]]> full 85 Ted and Ashleigh Slater f0afb159-3f07-4d8e-ab86-b2e4012b76d4 f0afb159-3f07-4d8e-ab86-b2e4012b76d4 Tue, 27 May 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1426 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-prepare-your-marriage-for-the-empty-nest-with-mike-and-kate-battistelli 10 Budget-Friendly Date Ideas for Couples 10 Budget-Friendly Date Ideas for Couples Dating your spouse is vital for a thriving marriage. While dates can sometimes be pricey, they don’t have to be. We’re sharing ten fun, budget-friendly date ideas for you and your spouse.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pick one of the date ideas we shared and try it, or come up with your own. Let us know what you did by sharing on social media and tagging us. If you subscribe to my email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com, you can also respond to it and let us know what you did.

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]]> Dating your spouse is vital for a thriving marriage. While dates can sometimes be pricey, they don’t have to be. We’re sharing ten fun, budget-friendly date ideas for you and your spouse.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pick one of the date ideas we shared and try it, or come up with your own. Let us know what you did by sharing on social media and tagging us. If you subscribe to my email newsletter at AshleighSlater.com, you can also respond to it and let us know what you did.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

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]]> full 84 Ted and Ashleigh Slater b9a525e8-6fa3-453e-8802-b2db0114dfb6 b9a525e8-6fa3-453e-8802-b2db0114dfb6 Tue, 20 May 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1128 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/10-budget-friendly-date-ideas-for-couples How to Speak Your Spouse’s Love Language How to Speak Your Spouse’s Love Language How do you and your spouse give and receive love? In this episode, we talk about the five love languages. We unpack each one and give you practical ideas on how to express them.

FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES

  1. Words of Affirmation
  2. Quality Time
  3. Receiving Gifts
  4. Acts of Service
  5. Physical Touch

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pick a practical way to speak your spouse’s love language this week. It doesn’t have to be one of our suggestions. If you don’t know your spouse’s love language, either get them to take the quiz or observe them and see what builds them up the most.

CONNECT WITH US

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]]> How do you and your spouse give and receive love? In this episode, we talk about the five love languages. We unpack each one and give you practical ideas on how to express them.

FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES

  1. Words of Affirmation
  2. Quality Time
  3. Receiving Gifts
  4. Acts of Service
  5. Physical Touch

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pick a practical way to speak your spouse’s love language this week. It doesn’t have to be one of our suggestions. If you don’t know your spouse’s love language, either get them to take the quiz or observe them and see what builds them up the most.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/     

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]]> full 83 Ted and Ashleigh Slater e4da20be-97e8-4e98-b0a5-b2d4017e34e0 e4da20be-97e8-4e98-b0a5-b2d4017e34e0 Tue, 13 May 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1215 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-speak-your-spouse-s-love-language Why Happily Ever After Starts in Your Head with Dan and Danielle Macaulay Why Happily Ever After Starts in Your Head with Dan and Danielle Macaulay Do you want a happier marriage? Then, it’s time to start thinking about what you think about! We have marriage and family speakers, podcasters, and authors Dan and Danielle Macaulay on the podcast. They share why the happiness of your marriage starts in your head.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Make a positive adjective list as Danielle talked about. Then, as Dan mentioned, share at least one of those list items with your spouse.

CONNECT WITH US

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ABOUT DAN AND DANIELLE MACAULAY

Dan and Danielle Macaulay have been married for twenty-three years and travel across Canada and the U.S. wearing multiple “hats” in ministry spanning singing, speaking, family, worship, and marriage ministries. Dan is a GMA Music Canada Award winner and nine-time nominee, with songs used around the world in churches and radio. Danielle is an author of five books centered on relationships, families, and ministering to women. Dan and Danielle have a marriage podcast called Married Up, now in its fourth season (marriedup.net) and are regulars on the marriage TV show, A Better Us.

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]]> Do you want a happier marriage? Then, it’s time to start thinking about what you think about! We have marriage and family speakers, podcasters, and authors Dan and Danielle Macaulay on the podcast. They share why the happiness of your marriage starts in your head.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Make a positive adjective list as Danielle talked about. Then, as Dan mentioned, share at least one of those list items with your spouse.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for our weekly email newsletter and get the FREE resource Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/      

ABOUT DAN AND DANIELLE MACAULAY

Dan and Danielle Macaulay have been married for twenty-three years and travel across Canada and the U.S. wearing multiple “hats” in ministry spanning singing, speaking, family, worship, and marriage ministries. Dan is a GMA Music Canada Award winner and nine-time nominee, with songs used around the world in churches and radio. Danielle is an author of five books centered on relationships, families, and ministering to women. Dan and Danielle have a marriage podcast called Married Up, now in its fourth season (marriedup.net) and are regulars on the marriage TV show, A Better Us.

CONNECT WITH DAN AND DANIELLE MACAULAY

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]]> full 82 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 0daa1616-4ccc-4cf0-a939-b2d0015d2adf 0daa1616-4ccc-4cf0-a939-b2d0015d2adf Tue, 06 May 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1282 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-happily-ever-after-starts-in-your-head-with-dan-and-danielle-macaulay 5 Books to Enrich Your Marriage 5 Books to Enrich Your Marriage Are you a reader? In this episode, we share five super practical, must-read marriage books that will encourage, challenge, and inspire you and your spouse.

5 Books to Enrich Your Marriage

  1. The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman
  2. For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn and For Men Only by Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn
  3. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver
  4. The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages by Shaunti Feldhahn
  5. The Marriage Course with Nicky and Sila Lee

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Start reading one of the books we recommended or start the Marriage Course, and let us know either via Instagram, Facebook, or email one way it’s helping you and your spouse.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for Ashleigh's weekly email newsletter and get our FREE resource "Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know." You can do that here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/ 

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]]> Are you a reader? In this episode, we share five super practical, must-read marriage books that will encourage, challenge, and inspire you and your spouse.

5 Books to Enrich Your Marriage

  1. The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman
  2. For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn and For Men Only by Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn
  3. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver
  4. The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages by Shaunti Feldhahn
  5. The Marriage Course with Nicky and Sila Lee

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Start reading one of the books we recommended or start the Marriage Course, and let us know either via Instagram, Facebook, or email one way it’s helping you and your spouse.

CONNECT WITH US

Sign up for Ashleigh's weekly email newsletter and get our FREE resource "Five Simple Marriage Tools You Should Know." You can do that here: ashleighslater.com/5-simple-marriage-tools-you-should-know/ 

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]]> full 81 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 38df1974-fdaf-46c0-9a0e-b2c8015af475 38df1974-fdaf-46c0-9a0e-b2c8015af475 Tue, 29 Apr 2025 11:30:00 +0000 943 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-books-to-enrich-your-marriage How Pets Make You Better Partners How Pets Make You Better Partners Do you have a pet? We have three! Today, we share how having pets has benefited our marriage, and we believe they can make your relationship better, too.

3 WAYS PETS MAKE YOU BETTER PARTNERS

  1. Pets bring us together
  2. Pets help us laugh together more
  3. Pets offer opportunities for teamwork

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

If you have a pet, talk about how your pet has benefited your marriage. If you don’t have a pet, maybe visit a park this week and watch the dogs and other wildlife. See how it sparks conversation or helps you laugh more.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> Do you have a pet? We have three! Today, we share how having pets has benefited our marriage, and we believe they can make your relationship better, too.

3 WAYS PETS MAKE YOU BETTER PARTNERS

  1. Pets bring us together
  2. Pets help us laugh together more
  3. Pets offer opportunities for teamwork

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

If you have a pet, talk about how your pet has benefited your marriage. If you don’t have a pet, maybe visit a park this week and watch the dogs and other wildlife. See how it sparks conversation or helps you laugh more.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 80 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 6e148f78-184b-4aad-9d1b-b2c4010421a1 6e148f78-184b-4aad-9d1b-b2c4010421a1 Tue, 22 Apr 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1053 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-pets-make-you-better-partners Why Nostalgia, Flirting, and Scripture Can Spark Conversation Why Nostalgia, Flirting, and Scripture Can Spark Conversation Do you and your spouse struggle to find things to talk about? We hope to help with that! We’ll share three practical ways to spark conversation in your marriage when you’ve run out of things to say.

3 WAYS TO SPARK CONVERSATION

  1. Through Scripture and stories
  2. By getting nostalgic
  3. With flirting

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pick one of these three ways to spark conversation with your spouse this week.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> Do you and your spouse struggle to find things to talk about? We hope to help with that! We’ll share three practical ways to spark conversation in your marriage when you’ve run out of things to say.

3 WAYS TO SPARK CONVERSATION

  1. Through Scripture and stories
  2. By getting nostalgic
  3. With flirting

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pick one of these three ways to spark conversation with your spouse this week.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 79 Ted and Ashleigh Slater f98e5c55-c5b0-42d4-92d1-b2bd017ee5b5 f98e5c55-c5b0-42d4-92d1-b2bd017ee5b5 Tue, 15 Apr 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1095 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-ways-to-spark-conversation-in-your-marriage 3 Ways to Embrace a Growth Mindset in Marriage 3 Ways to Embrace a Growth Mindset in Marriage Some relationship experts say that couples don’t grow apart. Instead, they stop growing together. Today, we share three practical ways you and your spouse can embrace a growth mindset and continue growing together. A couple of them may surprise you.

3 WAYS TO HAVE A GROWTH MINDSET

  1. Allow your spouse to live outside the box
  2. Get to know your spouse … continually
  3. Keep “under the rug” clean

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Grow together this week with online date night questions or Jon Gottman’s love map exercises.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> Some relationship experts say that couples don’t grow apart. Instead, they stop growing together. Today, we share three practical ways you and your spouse can embrace a growth mindset and continue growing together. A couple of them may surprise you.

3 WAYS TO HAVE A GROWTH MINDSET

  1. Allow your spouse to live outside the box
  2. Get to know your spouse … continually
  3. Keep “under the rug” clean

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Grow together this week with online date night questions or Jon Gottman’s love map exercises.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full 78 Ted and Ashleigh Slater cfa6214b-6cea-4156-8f6e-b2b801239911 cfa6214b-6cea-4156-8f6e-b2b801239911 Tue, 08 Apr 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1152 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/embracing-a-growth-mindset-in-marriage How Shared Humor Strengthens Marriage How Shared Humor Strengthens Marriage Do you and your spouse laugh together? Today, we talk about how shared humor and laughter can benefit your relationship.

3 WAYS SHARED HUMOR STRENGTHENS MARRIAGE

  1. Builds intimacy
  2. Helps defuse conflict and restore connection
  3. Makes the hard times more manageable

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Do something to feed your shared sense of humor. As one writer we quote in this episode recommends, “Collect experiences, look for the places where comedy shows up. Look for the ridiculous, the surprising, the awkward.”

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> Do you and your spouse laugh together? Today, we talk about how shared humor and laughter can benefit your relationship.

3 WAYS SHARED HUMOR STRENGTHENS MARRIAGE

  1. Builds intimacy
  2. Helps defuse conflict and restore connection
  3. Makes the hard times more manageable

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Do something to feed your shared sense of humor. As one writer we quote in this episode recommends, “Collect experiences, look for the places where comedy shows up. Look for the ridiculous, the surprising, the awkward.”

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full 77 Ted and Ashleigh Slater d0d3860c-9853-4ebd-9212-b2ad0122cf2d d0d3860c-9853-4ebd-9212-b2ad0122cf2d Tue, 01 Apr 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1547 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-shared-humor-strengthens-marriage What You Can Do to Brave Sorrow Together in Your Marriage What You Can Do to Brave Sorrow Together in Your Marriage Sometimes we sit back and wonder how we made it through our weeping years. But here we are, still married, still friends, and still liking each other. It wasn’t easy to remain united when miscarriage, multiple job losses, debt, and a house that wouldn’t sell desperately fought to pull us apart. While an attitude of “us vs. the problem” helped, we realized we couldn’t stop with the idea of us against the world. We needed more.

Today, we’re discussing how to walk together through the really hard situations, seasons, and losses that we experience as couples and how to remain a strong team during them. So, listen in as we share three practical things you can do to better brave sorrow together in your marriage.

While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives! 

 4 Ways to Brave Sorrow Together:

1. Refuse to play the blame game
2. Face defeat together
3. Allow freedom to grief differently from each other
4. Point each other back to God’s character

***
Us Time Challenge:
Make a list of the ways God has been faithful to you as a couple. Tape it to your fridge or bathroom mirror as a reminder of His goodness even in difficulty.

***
Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Braving Sorrow Together: The Transformative Power of Faith and Community When Life Is Hard

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]]> Sometimes we sit back and wonder how we made it through our weeping years. But here we are, still married, still friends, and still liking each other. It wasn’t easy to remain united when miscarriage, multiple job losses, debt, and a house that wouldn’t sell desperately fought to pull us apart. While an attitude of “us vs. the problem” helped, we realized we couldn’t stop with the idea of us against the world. We needed more.

Today, we’re discussing how to walk together through the really hard situations, seasons, and losses that we experience as couples and how to remain a strong team during them. So, listen in as we share three practical things you can do to better brave sorrow together in your marriage.

While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives! 

 4 Ways to Brave Sorrow Together:

1. Refuse to play the blame game
2. Face defeat together
3. Allow freedom to grief differently from each other
4. Point each other back to God’s character

***
Us Time Challenge:
Make a list of the ways God has been faithful to you as a couple. Tape it to your fridge or bathroom mirror as a reminder of His goodness even in difficulty.

***
Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Braving Sorrow Together: The Transformative Power of Faith and Community When Life Is Hard

***
Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/Rudzhan Nagiev

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]]> Sometimes we sit back and wonder how we made it through our weeping years. But here we are, still married, still friends, and still liking each other. It wasn’t easy to remain united when miscarriage, multiple job losses, debt, and a house that... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 9f0d9458-5346-43d1-9d98-b29600ddb3bf 9f0d9458-5346-43d1-9d98-b29600ddb3bf Tue, 25 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1472 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/what-you-can-do-to-brave-sorrow-together-in-your-1 clean 3 Simple Ways to Feed Your Spouse More Praise 3 Simple Ways to Feed Your Spouse More Praise How often do you intentionally stop to praise your spouse? To recognize and affirm their character or actions? Many of us probably cringe at answering these questions because we know we could do better!

If you struggle to feed your spouse praise regularly, this episode is for you. Listen in as we share some practical steps we all can take to criticize less and affirm and build up our spouse more.

While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives! 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Make it your goal to praise your spouse more this week!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> How often do you intentionally stop to praise your spouse? To recognize and affirm their character or actions? Many of us probably cringe at answering these questions because we know we could do better!

If you struggle to feed your spouse praise regularly, this episode is for you. Listen in as we share some practical steps we all can take to criticize less and affirm and build up our spouse more.

While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives! 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Make it your goal to praise your spouse more this week!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full 32 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 77313356-e5dd-491f-82c1-b295016f2cc5 77313356-e5dd-491f-82c1-b295016f2cc5 Tue, 18 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1413 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-simple-ways-to-feed-your-spouse-more-praise-1 How to Have a Date-Night Conversation That’s Not about Work, Bills, Schedules, or Kids How to Have a Date-Night Conversation That’s Not about Work, Bills, Schedules, or Kids What if every time you go out on a date with your spouse, all you talk about is work, bills, schedules, and — if you have them — kids? As vitally important as those things are to discuss, we chat about how you can have a date-night conversation that’s NOT about work, bills, schedules, or kids. Listen in as we share four steps you can put into practice.

While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives!

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Go on a date night and practice these steps. Make sure you and your spouse each pick out a conversation starter or two that you want to ask the other.

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> What if every time you go out on a date with your spouse, all you talk about is work, bills, schedules, and — if you have them — kids? As vitally important as those things are to discuss, we chat about how you can have a date-night conversation that’s NOT about work, bills, schedules, or kids. Listen in as we share four steps you can put into practice.

While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives!

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Go on a date night and practice these steps. Make sure you and your spouse each pick out a conversation starter or two that you want to ask the other.

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 26 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 353bb2d7-9dc4-4001-aaef-b295016c609e 353bb2d7-9dc4-4001-aaef-b295016c609e Tue, 11 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000 1065 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-have-a-date-night-conversation-that-s-not-1 Why Becoming a Team Takes Time... and That’s Okay Why Becoming a Team Takes Time... and That’s Okay While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives! From its inconceivable R.O.U.Ses to its iconic lines, the 1987 film The Princess Bride is a favorite at our house. For us, one of the most memorable characters is Inigo Montoya. His patience and persistence as he hunts for the six-fingered man remind us that it takes time to execute a “death wish.” But what does a “death wish” have to do with marriage?

While we joined a new team when we promised, “I do,” that doesn’t mean the unity and cooperation we talked about in episode 1 are going to be easy or automatic. It takes time after we get married to make that transition from “me” to “us.”

One reason is that all of us come to marriage with ingrained habits. These are the things that steal joy from our relationship, keep us from walking in unity and practicing cooperation, and can even weaken our resolve to stay committed. Listen in as we share three practical ways you can practice patience for the old as you and your spouse work together toward the new.

3 Ways to Practice Patience, Persistence, and Grace:

1. Pick your battles (recognize the difference between our spouse sinning and our spouse just annoying us).
2. Make a Communication Sandwich
3. Focus on progress, not perfection

Us Time Challenge:
Take some time to make a list of a few ways you’ve noticed that the other has made progress in an area. Figure out a fun and creative way to affirm each other for their growth.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Princess Bride

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

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]]> While Ted and Ashleigh are taking a break, we're thrilled to bring back this popular episode from the archives! From its inconceivable R.O.U.Ses to its iconic lines, the 1987 film The Princess Bride is a favorite at our house. For us, one of the most memorable characters is Inigo Montoya. His patience and persistence as he hunts for the six-fingered man remind us that it takes time to execute a “death wish.” But what does a “death wish” have to do with marriage?

While we joined a new team when we promised, “I do,” that doesn’t mean the unity and cooperation we talked about in episode 1 are going to be easy or automatic. It takes time after we get married to make that transition from “me” to “us.”

One reason is that all of us come to marriage with ingrained habits. These are the things that steal joy from our relationship, keep us from walking in unity and practicing cooperation, and can even weaken our resolve to stay committed. Listen in as we share three practical ways you can practice patience for the old as you and your spouse work together toward the new.

3 Ways to Practice Patience, Persistence, and Grace:

1. Pick your battles (recognize the difference between our spouse sinning and our spouse just annoying us).
2. Make a Communication Sandwich
3. Focus on progress, not perfection

Us Time Challenge:
Take some time to make a list of a few ways you’ve noticed that the other has made progress in an area. Figure out a fun and creative way to affirm each other for their growth.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Princess Bride

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> From its inconceivable R.O.U.Ses to its iconic lines, the 1987 film The Princess Bride is a favorite at our house. For us, one of the most memorable characters is Inigo Montoya. His patience and persistence as he hunts for the six-fingered man remind... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 18889e45-844c-42b8-984a-b295016b8332 18889e45-844c-42b8-984a-b295016b8332 Tue, 04 Mar 2025 11:00:00 +0000 1150 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-becoming-a-team-takes-time-and-that-s-okay-1 clean 3 Simple Steps to Pray Together as a Couple 3 Simple Steps to Pray Together as a Couple If you and your spouse struggle to pray together daily, listen in as we share easy three steps you can take to start.

3 EASY STEPS TO PRAY TOGETHER

  1. Schedule Prayer Time Together
  2. Follow Established Prayer Patterns
  3. Keep Each Other Accountable

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Give these steps a try this week and see if they help you and your spouse pray together more consistently.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> If you and your spouse struggle to pray together daily, listen in as we share easy three steps you can take to start.

3 EASY STEPS TO PRAY TOGETHER

  1. Schedule Prayer Time Together
  2. Follow Established Prayer Patterns
  3. Keep Each Other Accountable

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Give these steps a try this week and see if they help you and your spouse pray together more consistently.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full 76 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 34c67aac-63cd-4f19-a84b-b281011b394a 34c67aac-63cd-4f19-a84b-b281011b394a Tue, 25 Feb 2025 11:30:00 +0000 618 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-simple-steps-to-pray-together-as-a-couple 3 Benefits of Praying Together as a Couple 3 Benefits of Praying Together as a Couple Do you and your spouse pray together consistently? Listen in as we share three ways praying together as a couple benefits your marriage.

3 BENEFITS TO PRAYING TOGETHER

  1. Fosters greater unity
  2. Builds trust and intimacy
  3. Deepens communication

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Brainstorm with your spouse some additional ways praying together consistently will benefit your marriage.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> Do you and your spouse pray together consistently? Listen in as we share three ways praying together as a couple benefits your marriage.

3 BENEFITS TO PRAYING TOGETHER

  1. Fosters greater unity
  2. Builds trust and intimacy
  3. Deepens communication

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Brainstorm with your spouse some additional ways praying together consistently will benefit your marriage.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> full 75 Ted and Ashleigh Slater b030584a-8292-4455-999e-b281011a69b7 b030584a-8292-4455-999e-b281011a69b7 Tue, 18 Feb 2025 11:30:00 +0000 444 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-benefits-of-praying-together-as-a-couple Bids for Connection: Strengthening Your Marriage One Invitation at a Time Bids for Connection: Strengthening Your Marriage One Invitation at a Time As couples, we aren’t bidding millions on artwork, movie props, or sports memorabilia. But we do regularly make emotional bids in marriage. Bids are invitations from and to our spouse for connection. Today, we talk about bids and how we can respond to them.

WAYS TO TURN TOWARD YOUR SPOUSE

  1. Pay attention.
  2. Practice active listening, validate feelings, and show interest
  3. Prioritize Responding

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pay attention to your spouse’s bids for connection this week. Make it a priority to turn toward them.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

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]]> As couples, we aren’t bidding millions on artwork, movie props, or sports memorabilia. But we do regularly make emotional bids in marriage. Bids are invitations from and to our spouse for connection. Today, we talk about bids and how we can respond to them.

WAYS TO TURN TOWARD YOUR SPOUSE

  1. Pay attention.
  2. Practice active listening, validate feelings, and show interest
  3. Prioritize Responding

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Pay attention to your spouse’s bids for connection this week. Make it a priority to turn toward them.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

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]]> full 74 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 1c437151-d4f5-4587-9b6b-b27c01295693 1c437151-d4f5-4587-9b6b-b27c01295693 Tue, 11 Feb 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1214 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/bids-for-connection-strengthening-your-marriage-on No Pressure Valentine's Day: 4 Steps to Celebrate Love No Pressure Valentine's Day: 4 Steps to Celebrate Love Valentine's Day is often viewed and marketed as a holiday of grand gestures. But it doesn't have to be. Listen in as we share four steps to help you have a no-pressure Valentine's Day this year.

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Discuss your expectations for Valentine's Day and develop a shared plan.

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]]> Valentine's Day is often viewed and marketed as a holiday of grand gestures. But it doesn't have to be. Listen in as we share four steps to help you have a no-pressure Valentine's Day this year.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Discuss your expectations for Valentine's Day and develop a shared plan.

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]]> full 73 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 8b1fcbb6-7bea-4acb-a137-b27401170bd0 8b1fcbb6-7bea-4acb-a137-b27401170bd0 Tue, 04 Feb 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1389 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-have-a-no-pressure-valentine-s-day Why Believing the Soulmate Myth Can Harm Your Marriage Why Believing the Soulmate Myth Can Harm Your Marriage The idea of a soulmate is a myth that has been around for thousands of years. It may seem like a concept only for non-married people looking for “the one.” But here’s the thing. If you are married and subscribe to this idea of soulmates, it can be harmful to your marriage. Listen in as we share why!

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Make a list of other marriage myths and reflect on whether they are impacting your marriage. If so, how can you replace them with truth?

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]]> The idea of a soulmate is a myth that has been around for thousands of years. It may seem like a concept only for non-married people looking for “the one.” But here’s the thing. If you are married and subscribe to this idea of soulmates, it can be harmful to your marriage. Listen in as we share why!

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Make a list of other marriage myths and reflect on whether they are impacting your marriage. If so, how can you replace them with truth?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 72 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 1a497fe5-afbc-4c71-a102-b271017a0738 1a497fe5-afbc-4c71-a102-b271017a0738 Tue, 28 Jan 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1323 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-believing-the-soulmate-myth-can-harm-your-marr Why Marriage Isn’t 50/50 or 100/100 Why Marriage Isn’t 50/50 or 100/100 We unpack the popular myth that marriage is a 50/50 relationship. But we aren’t stopping there. We’ll also talk about how the counter to this 50/50 myth — that marriage needs to be 100/100 — isn’t always realistic either.

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Ask your spouse practical ways you can encourage them when they aren’t able to give 100 percent.

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]]> We unpack the popular myth that marriage is a 50/50 relationship. But we aren’t stopping there. We’ll also talk about how the counter to this 50/50 myth — that marriage needs to be 100/100 — isn’t always realistic either.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Ask your spouse practical ways you can encourage them when they aren’t able to give 100 percent.

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]]> full 71 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 1c6c820b-6f9c-4cbc-901d-b2660122f0c3 1c6c820b-6f9c-4cbc-901d-b2660122f0c3 Tue, 21 Jan 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1058 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-marriage-isn-t-50-50-or-100-100 Why "No Conflict Marriages" Don't Exist Why "No Conflict Marriages" Don't Exist What do you believe about conflict in marriage? There’s a popular marriage myth that says healthy marriages are conflict-free marriages, yet this couldn’t be further from the truth. Listen in as we debunk this myth and share why couples in healthy marriages do experience conflict.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Spend some time searching conflict styles. There are five primary ones (competing, collaborating, compromising, accommodating, and avoiding). Reflect on which ones you and your spouse best fit and have a conversation about them.

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]]> What do you believe about conflict in marriage? There’s a popular marriage myth that says healthy marriages are conflict-free marriages, yet this couldn’t be further from the truth. Listen in as we debunk this myth and share why couples in healthy marriages do experience conflict.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Spend some time searching conflict styles. There are five primary ones (competing, collaborating, compromising, accommodating, and avoiding). Reflect on which ones you and your spouse best fit and have a conversation about them.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 70 Ted and Ashleigh Slater c91ac016-c351-4157-813f-b25f001d9bad c91ac016-c351-4157-813f-b25f001d9bad Tue, 14 Jan 2025 11:30:00 +0000 1140 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-no-conflict-marriages-dont-exist-the-marriage Why “Love Is All You Need” Falls Short Why “Love Is All You Need” Falls Short Have you heard that love is all you need to make a marriage work? This marriage myth couldn’t be further from the truth. Today, we debunk this myth and talk about how you need more than love if you want your marriage to go the distance.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Revisit your vows. Remind yourselves of what you promised when those “in love” feelings were at their newest and strongest.

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]]> Have you heard that love is all you need to make a marriage work? This marriage myth couldn’t be further from the truth. Today, we debunk this myth and talk about how you need more than love if you want your marriage to go the distance.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Revisit your vows. Remind yourselves of what you promised when those “in love” feelings were at their newest and strongest.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 69 Ted and Ashleigh Slater f69c2890-ace1-4dca-927d-b25701632953 f69c2890-ace1-4dca-927d-b25701632953 Tue, 07 Jan 2025 11:30:00 +0000 861 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-love-is-all-you-need-falls-short-the-marriage 4 Ways to Encourage Your Spouse's Aspirations and Goals 4 Ways to Encourage Your Spouse's Aspirations and Goals We all bring individual talents, abilities, and ambitions into marriage. On today’s episode, we share four ways to encourage and support your spouse in pursuing and accomplishing their personal aspirations and goals.

4 PRACTICAL WAYS TO ENCOURAGE YOUR SPOUSE'S ASPIRATIONS AND GOALS

  1. Ask your spouse what their aspirations and goals are and what tools or resources they may need to achieve them.
  2. Help your spouse make the time to pursue and accomplish their aspirations and goals.
  3. Encourage your spouse to take risks and step out of their comfort zone and support them in practical ways when they do.
  4. Celebrate your spouse’s milestones both big and small.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Think of one personal goal or aspiration you have for 2025. Share it with your spouse and give them ideas on how they can encourage and support you. Then, ask them what they aspire to and ask how you can encourage and support them.

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]]> We all bring individual talents, abilities, and ambitions into marriage. On today’s episode, we share four ways to encourage and support your spouse in pursuing and accomplishing their personal aspirations and goals.

4 PRACTICAL WAYS TO ENCOURAGE YOUR SPOUSE'S ASPIRATIONS AND GOALS

  1. Ask your spouse what their aspirations and goals are and what tools or resources they may need to achieve them.
  2. Help your spouse make the time to pursue and accomplish their aspirations and goals.
  3. Encourage your spouse to take risks and step out of their comfort zone and support them in practical ways when they do.
  4. Celebrate your spouse’s milestones both big and small.

TAKE THE “US TIME” CHALLENGE

Think of one personal goal or aspiration you have for 2025. Share it with your spouse and give them ideas on how they can encourage and support you. Then, ask them what they aspire to and ask how you can encourage and support them.

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]]> full 68 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 72d77601-750b-409d-a523-b24f017d0ac5 72d77601-750b-409d-a523-b24f017d0ac5 Tue, 31 Dec 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1033 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/supporting-each-others-dreams-4-ways-to-encourage Reflecting on Christmas Past, Present, and Future as a Couple Reflecting on Christmas Past, Present, and Future as a Couple We don't have to be Scrooges to benefit from reflecting on Christmas past, present, and future. In this episode, we talk about how looking back, living now, and planning ahead together can enrich our marriages.

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If you’ve been married five years or more, practice nostalgia with your spouse. Ask each other about your favorite Christmas you’ve spent together and why it stands out to you. If you have been married less than five years, plan ahead on where you want to be relationally next Christmas.

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]]> We don't have to be Scrooges to benefit from reflecting on Christmas past, present, and future. In this episode, we talk about how looking back, living now, and planning ahead together can enrich our marriages.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you’ve been married five years or more, practice nostalgia with your spouse. Ask each other about your favorite Christmas you’ve spent together and why it stands out to you. If you have been married less than five years, plan ahead on where you want to be relationally next Christmas.

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]]> full 67 Ted and Ashleigh Slater e812b0e1-e6e1-4d00-978e-b242010cebcf e812b0e1-e6e1-4d00-978e-b242010cebcf Tue, 24 Dec 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1262 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/christmas-past-present-and-future-looking-back-liv The Art of Venting: 3 Key Questions for Couples The Art of Venting: 3 Key Questions for Couples Should you vent to your spouse? Today, we talk about what venting is and share three key questions to ask yourself before you dive into an emotionally-charged vent.

3 KEY QUESTIONS TO ASK

  1. What fuels my desire to vent about this particular frustration, situation, or person?
  2. If I vent in my emotional-charged state, will we be reacting or responding to whatever has upset me?
  3. Will what I share be beneficial to my spouse and our relationship?

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you find yourself ready to vent about something this week, pause first. Ask yourself these three questions and determine if you need to calm down before sharing.

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]]> Should you vent to your spouse? Today, we talk about what venting is and share three key questions to ask yourself before you dive into an emotionally-charged vent.

3 KEY QUESTIONS TO ASK

  1. What fuels my desire to vent about this particular frustration, situation, or person?
  2. If I vent in my emotional-charged state, will we be reacting or responding to whatever has upset me?
  3. Will what I share be beneficial to my spouse and our relationship?

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you find yourself ready to vent about something this week, pause first. Ask yourself these three questions and determine if you need to calm down before sharing.

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]]> full 66 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 84a0eff9-02eb-44ba-af9d-b240012dc53d 84a0eff9-02eb-44ba-af9d-b240012dc53d Tue, 17 Dec 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1573 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-key-questions-to-ask-before-venting-to-your-spou Every Marriage Can Get Better with Mark and Jill Savage Every Marriage Can Get Better with Mark and Jill Savage Have you been striving for the perfect marriage? Today, that striving stops. Our guests, Mark and Jill Savage, say that no marriage is perfect, but the good news is that every marriage can get better. Listen in as Mark and Jill share their story and the fundamentals they’ve learned to grow a healthy marriage.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Put into the practice the tool of grace that Mark and Jill talked about. Maybe even think of a creative way you can practice it — for example, how Mark took Jill sunglass shopping at the Dollar Store.

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]]> Have you been striving for the perfect marriage? Today, that striving stops. Our guests, Mark and Jill Savage, say that no marriage is perfect, but the good news is that every marriage can get better. Listen in as Mark and Jill share their story and the fundamentals they’ve learned to grow a healthy marriage.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Put into the practice the tool of grace that Mark and Jill talked about. Maybe even think of a creative way you can practice it — for example, how Mark took Jill sunglass shopping at the Dollar Store.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 65 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 12f95554-e8bb-494c-82f1-b23c00048f35 12f95554-e8bb-494c-82f1-b23c00048f35 Tue, 10 Dec 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1624 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/no-more-perfect-marriages-with-mark-and-jill-savag 3 Tools for Tackling Everyday Conflicts in Your Marriage 3 Tools for Tackling Everyday Conflicts in Your Marriage How do you and your spouse tackle everyday conflicts? Today, we share three of our favorite tools for working through those smaller disagreements or disputes.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one of the tools we shared to try this week when you face conflict with your spouse.

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]]> How do you and your spouse tackle everyday conflicts? Today, we share three of our favorite tools for working through those smaller disagreements or disputes.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one of the tools we shared to try this week when you face conflict with your spouse.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 64 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 49e04fd7-4821-4655-a670-b234017f35b3 49e04fd7-4821-4655-a670-b234017f35b3 Tue, 03 Dec 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1374 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-tools-for-tackling-everyday-conflicts Work-Love Balance for Couples with Kyle and Ariel Tresch Work-Love Balance for Couples with Kyle and Ariel Tresch Do you and your spouse struggle to move from work mode to romance mode? Kyle and Ariel Tresch join us to talk about work-love balance for couples. They share practical tips you can start using today.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Try one of Kyle and Ariel’s three suggestions for transitioning from work mode to romance mode. As a reminder, they are: Nostalgic transitions, treasure hunt, and mortality frame.

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]]> Do you and your spouse struggle to move from work mode to romance mode? Kyle and Ariel Tresch join us to talk about work-love balance for couples. They share practical tips you can start using today.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Try one of Kyle and Ariel’s three suggestions for transitioning from work mode to romance mode. As a reminder, they are: Nostalgic transitions, treasure hunt, and mortality frame.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 63 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 4f9c69b4-843f-4c55-8452-b22a00fe7a9d 4f9c69b4-843f-4c55-8452-b22a00fe7a9d Tue, 26 Nov 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1418 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/work-love-balance-for-couples-with-kyle-and-ariel Timeless Relationship Insights from Modern Musicals Timeless Relationship Insights from Modern Musicals As couples, we can look for insight into how to improve our marriages in a variety of places. In this episode, we’re turning to the modern musical. We share some timeless relationship insights we can take away from three of them.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Have a date night and watch or listen to one of these musicals and talk through some of the insights we’ve shared.

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]]> As couples, we can look for insight into how to improve our marriages in a variety of places. In this episode, we’re turning to the modern musical. We share some timeless relationship insights we can take away from three of them.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Have a date night and watch or listen to one of these musicals and talk through some of the insights we’ve shared.

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]]> full 62 Ted and Ashleigh Slater e74952ce-0534-453b-84a2-b2230188c117 e74952ce-0534-453b-84a2-b2230188c117 Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1375 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/timeless-relationship-insights-from-modern-musical 5 Ways to Face the Holidays Together 5 Ways to Face the Holidays Together When it comes to the joy and the stress of the holidays, how do you and your spouse approach it? As a united team? Or do turkeys, tinsel, and extended family get-togethers tend to turn you against each other? If you aren’t sure how to face the holidays together, we share five ways you can navigate the season hand-in-hand rather than back-to-back.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Set expectations together for your holiday season. Determine what you want this holiday season to be like and then come up with some plans to accomplish that.

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]]> When it comes to the joy and the stress of the holidays, how do you and your spouse approach it? As a united team? Or do turkeys, tinsel, and extended family get-togethers tend to turn you against each other? If you aren’t sure how to face the holidays together, we share five ways you can navigate the season hand-in-hand rather than back-to-back.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Set expectations together for your holiday season. Determine what you want this holiday season to be like and then come up with some plans to accomplish that.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 61 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 71c22caa-0540-4b60-906c-b2200124363a 71c22caa-0540-4b60-906c-b2200124363a Tue, 12 Nov 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1486 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-ways-to-face-the-holidays-together From NPCs to Real Players: Why Engaging with Others as a Couple Matters From NPCs to Real Players: Why Engaging with Others as a Couple Matters When you go out as a couple, do you and your spouse engage the people God puts in your path? Or are you so focused on yourselves that you miss out on impacting others and allowing others to affect you? Today, we share three reasons to engage others as a couple.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Look for opportunities to engage others the next time you’re out as a couple.

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]]> When you go out as a couple, do you and your spouse engage the people God puts in your path? Or are you so focused on yourselves that you miss out on impacting others and allowing others to affect you? Today, we share three reasons to engage others as a couple.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Look for opportunities to engage others the next time you’re out as a couple.

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]]> full 60 Ted and Ashleigh Slater e8f47dfb-8bd4-4e58-9299-b21800e0243f e8f47dfb-8bd4-4e58-9299-b21800e0243f Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1700 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/from-npcs-to-real-players-why-engaging-with-others The 3 Key Things Found in Every Strong Marriage The 3 Key Things Found in Every Strong Marriage What’s the secret to a strong marriage? Listen in as we talk about the importance of consistent follow through in three specific areas.

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Pick one idea from each of the areas to put into practice this week.

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]]> What’s the secret to a strong marriage? Listen in as we talk about the importance of consistent follow through in three specific areas.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one idea from each of the areas to put into practice this week.

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]]> full 59 Ted and Ashleigh Slater cb892732-9711-44b5-abe3-b2080166cf3e cb892732-9711-44b5-abe3-b2080166cf3e Tue, 29 Oct 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1480 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/the-secret-to-a-strong-marriage How to Navigate Grief Together How to Navigate Grief Together Are you and your spouse in a season of grief? When we face loss, sometimes it’s hard to walk through it hand-in-hand. We share two practical things we have done to navigate grief together over the years.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think about how you grieve and consider how your spouse does. What are some ways you can better understand and respect the way your spouse experiences grief?

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]]> Are you and your spouse in a season of grief? When we face loss, sometimes it’s hard to walk through it hand-in-hand. We share two practical things we have done to navigate grief together over the years.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think about how you grieve and consider how your spouse does. What are some ways you can better understand and respect the way your spouse experiences grief?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 58 Ted and Ashleigh Slater c87f3d23-2ba4-45d1-a851-b20100dc1513 c87f3d23-2ba4-45d1-a851-b20100dc1513 Tue, 22 Oct 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1290 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-navigate-grief-together What You Remember in Marriage Matters What You Remember in Marriage Matters Does what you choose to remember about your spouse impact your marriage? Absolutely. In today’s episode, we share three reasons why what you remember in your marriage matters.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you don’t already have your vows framed and hung in your house, do that this week. Read them regularly. As you do, remind yourself that what you remember about your spouse and your marriage matters.

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]]> Does what you choose to remember about your spouse impact your marriage? Absolutely. In today’s episode, we share three reasons why what you remember in your marriage matters.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you don’t already have your vows framed and hung in your house, do that this week. Read them regularly. As you do, remind yourself that what you remember about your spouse and your marriage matters.

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]]> full 57 Ted and Ashleigh Slater de68102a-c621-4fa7-aa79-b1f9011334d3 de68102a-c621-4fa7-aa79-b1f9011334d3 Tue, 15 Oct 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1531 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/what-you-remember-in-marriage-matters How to Leave and Cleave in Marriage How to Leave and Cleave in Marriage We talk about how getting married requires us to realign our relational loyalties and priorities. We’ll share three practical ways we’ve learned to “leave and cleave” in marriage. We hope you will find them helpful, too.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Write down one specific thing you struggle with when it comes to leaving and cleaving. Share it with your spouse and see if they agree it’s an issue. Brainstorm together two or three ideas on how you can improve in this area.

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]]> We talk about how getting married requires us to realign our relational loyalties and priorities. We’ll share three practical ways we’ve learned to “leave and cleave” in marriage. We hope you will find them helpful, too.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Write down one specific thing you struggle with when it comes to leaving and cleaving. Share it with your spouse and see if they agree it’s an issue. Brainstorm together two or three ideas on how you can improve in this area.

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]]> full 56 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 267bc729-6ee3-49da-b4e4-b1f10173177d 267bc729-6ee3-49da-b4e4-b1f10173177d Tue, 08 Oct 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1209 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-better-leave-and-cleave-in-marriage 3 Ways to Stay Connected as You Parent 3 Ways to Stay Connected as You Parent If you are parents or hope to be in the future, this episode is for you. We’re sharing three practical ways you can stay connected as a couple while you raise kids.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you are currently parents, talk about what phase of parenting you are in and brainstorm ways you can stay connected. You can use the suggestions we’ve offered or come up with your own. If you don’t have kids yet, talk to friends with children and learn practical ways they stay connected while parenting.

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]]> If you are parents or hope to be in the future, this episode is for you. We’re sharing three practical ways you can stay connected as a couple while you raise kids.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If you are currently parents, talk about what phase of parenting you are in and brainstorm ways you can stay connected. You can use the suggestions we’ve offered or come up with your own. If you don’t have kids yet, talk to friends with children and learn practical ways they stay connected while parenting.

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]]> full 55 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 7630807a-ea57-4f93-ac67-b1ed00fdc347 7630807a-ea57-4f93-ac67-b1ed00fdc347 Tue, 01 Oct 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1549 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-ways-to-stay-connected-as-you-parent How to Encourage Your Discouraged Spouse How to Encourage Your Discouraged Spouse We all feel discouraged sometimes. But what about when our spouse feels beaten down or weary? On this episode, we share some practical ways you can encourage your discouraged spouse.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Ask your spouse what most encourages them when they’re discouraged.

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]]> We all feel discouraged sometimes. But what about when our spouse feels beaten down or weary? On this episode, we share some practical ways you can encourage your discouraged spouse.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Ask your spouse what most encourages them when they’re discouraged.

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]]> full 54 Ted and Ashleigh Slater c1f9bb0e-4218-491e-8ed5-b1e3017115b4 c1f9bb0e-4218-491e-8ed5-b1e3017115b4 Tue, 24 Sep 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1526 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-encourage-your-discouraged-spouse Strategies for Safeguarding Your Marriage from Affairs Strategies for Safeguarding Your Marriage from Affairs Among married couples, sometimes there’s this belief that “an affair could never happen to us!” As a result, safeguards are often not set in place. In this episode, we share four strategies we use to safeguard our marriage from affairs. Perhaps they’ll also be helpful to you.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Sit down and talk through what safeguards you have in place. If you don’t have any, establish and agree on some.

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]]> Among married couples, sometimes there’s this belief that “an affair could never happen to us!” As a result, safeguards are often not set in place. In this episode, we share four strategies we use to safeguard our marriage from affairs. Perhaps they’ll also be helpful to you.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Sit down and talk through what safeguards you have in place. If you don’t have any, establish and agree on some.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 53 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 5cdfa1d0-5fd3-4b79-a66a-b1e3016e514a 5cdfa1d0-5fd3-4b79-a66a-b1e3016e514a Tue, 17 Sep 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1366 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/strategies-for-safeguarding-your-marriage-from-aff Fun Conversation Starters for Couples in a Rut Fun Conversation Starters for Couples in a Rut Do you ever run out of things to talk about with your spouse? After almost twenty-two years of marriage, we do! In this episode, we share some fun conversation starters we found online and model for you how to use them to connect with your spouse.

CONVERSATION STARTERS WE ANSWER

  • If you could have any job, whether serious or silly, and money was not a factor, what would it be?
  • If time travel existed, when and where would you like to visit first?
  • Who are three famous people, dead or alive, you would want to have lunch with?
  • If you could only listen to two albums for the rest of your life, which ones would you choose, and why?
  • What do you think our biggest strength as a couple is? What about our biggest weakness?
  • What’s a "little thing" in our relationship that you really love?
  • If our life was a reality TV series, what do you think would be the most appropriate title?
  • What is one date we have not done you would like to do?

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Ask each other the conversation starters we used or find additional ones online.

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]]> Do you ever run out of things to talk about with your spouse? After almost twenty-two years of marriage, we do! In this episode, we share some fun conversation starters we found online and model for you how to use them to connect with your spouse.

CONVERSATION STARTERS WE ANSWER

  • If you could have any job, whether serious or silly, and money was not a factor, what would it be?
  • If time travel existed, when and where would you like to visit first?
  • Who are three famous people, dead or alive, you would want to have lunch with?
  • If you could only listen to two albums for the rest of your life, which ones would you choose, and why?
  • What do you think our biggest strength as a couple is? What about our biggest weakness?
  • What’s a "little thing" in our relationship that you really love?
  • If our life was a reality TV series, what do you think would be the most appropriate title?
  • What is one date we have not done you would like to do?

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Ask each other the conversation starters we used or find additional ones online.

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]]> full 52 Ted and Ashleigh Slater d72b64b1-8f33-41b6-b951-b1d801859a20 d72b64b1-8f33-41b6-b951-b1d801859a20 Tue, 10 Sep 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1900 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/fun-conversation-starters-for-couples-in-a-rut How to Dream Together as a Couple with Mike and Kate Battistelli How to Dream Together as a Couple with Mike and Kate Battistelli When was the last time you and your spouse took the time to dream together? In this episode, Mike and Kate Battistelli join us and share what it looks like to trust God with everything and bravely step into His dreams for us. You don’t want to miss this interview!

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Talk about your dreams and goals as a couple. Is there a God Dare you need to answer together?

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]]> When was the last time you and your spouse took the time to dream together? In this episode, Mike and Kate Battistelli join us and share what it looks like to trust God with everything and bravely step into His dreams for us. You don’t want to miss this interview!

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Talk about your dreams and goals as a couple. Is there a God Dare you need to answer together?

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]]> full 51 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 5a7c8c04-e5c7-459e-8a8c-b1be0146b8ed 5a7c8c04-e5c7-459e-8a8c-b1be0146b8ed Tue, 03 Sep 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1445 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-dream-together-as-a-couple-with-mike-and-ka Why Celebrating Together Matters Why Celebrating Together Matters It’s our 50th episode! To celebrate, today, we’re talking about celebrations. We’ll explore why celebrating together as a couple matters and share practical ways you can mark both the big and the small milestones, victories, and occasions as a couple.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Find something to celebrate this week.

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]]> It’s our 50th episode! To celebrate, today, we’re talking about celebrations. We’ll explore why celebrating together as a couple matters and share practical ways you can mark both the big and the small milestones, victories, and occasions as a couple.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Find something to celebrate this week.

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]]> full 50 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 0b83e3a0-b6b6-4fad-b185-b1be014584fb 0b83e3a0-b6b6-4fad-b185-b1be014584fb Tue, 27 Aug 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1312 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-celebrating-together-matters Encouraging Military Couples with Mike and Carlie Kercheval Encouraging Military Couples with Mike and Carlie Kercheval Are you or your spouse in the military? Or do you have friends or family members who are? If so, you don’t want to miss this episode. Mike and Carlie Kercheval join us. They’re trained Christian marriage counselors, certified marriage coaches and mentors, best-selling authors, and more. Mike and Carlie spent years of their marriage as a military couple. Listen in as they share encouragement for other military couples and offer ideas on how those not serving in the armed forces can support those who are.

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]]> Are you or your spouse in the military? Or do you have friends or family members who are? If so, you don’t want to miss this episode. Mike and Carlie Kercheval join us. They’re trained Christian marriage counselors, certified marriage coaches and mentors, best-selling authors, and more. Mike and Carlie spent years of their marriage as a military couple. Listen in as they share encouragement for other military couples and offer ideas on how those not serving in the armed forces can support those who are.

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]]> full 49 Ted and Ashleigh Slater df84007e-2ac6-44de-9a46-b1ae0179de9a df84007e-2ac6-44de-9a46-b1ae0179de9a Tue, 20 Aug 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1724 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/encouraging-military-couples-with-mike-and-carlie How to Make Your Marriage Fun Again How to Make Your Marriage Fun Again Do you and your spouse have fun together? As couples, sometimes we can get in a rut and feel like life — and marriage — are all work and no play. In this episode, we’re exploring how we can make marriage fun again.

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If fun is lacking from your marriage, try one of our suggestions.

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]]> Do you and your spouse have fun together? As couples, sometimes we can get in a rut and feel like life — and marriage — are all work and no play. In this episode, we’re exploring how we can make marriage fun again.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

If fun is lacking from your marriage, try one of our suggestions.

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]]> full 48 Ted and Ashleigh Slater f46fcb9c-abac-44c3-831e-b1a2016e3926 f46fcb9c-abac-44c3-831e-b1a2016e3926 Tue, 13 Aug 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1488 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-make-your-marriage-fun-again Marriage Survival Tips for the School Year Marriage Survival Tips for the School Year In many places, the school year has started. How can you stay connected as a couple when the fall schedule threatens to pull you apart? Today, we’re sharing some marriage survival tips for the school year.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pull out your calendar and create a plan for connecting daily and dating weekly.

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]]> In many places, the school year has started. How can you stay connected as a couple when the fall schedule threatens to pull you apart? Today, we’re sharing some marriage survival tips for the school year.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pull out your calendar and create a plan for connecting daily and dating weekly.

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]]> full 47 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 007a5150-c7d2-4c95-b270-b1a10143c2c7 007a5150-c7d2-4c95-b270-b1a10143c2c7 Tue, 06 Aug 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1115 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/marriage-survival-tips-for-the-school-year How to Team Up in All Seasons of Life with Phil and Jennifer Rothschild How to Team Up in All Seasons of Life with Phil and Jennifer Rothschild We talk with author, speaker, Bible teacher, and podcaster Jennifer Rothschild and her husband Phil about how to team up in all seasons of life.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Find a couple you know who has been married for thirty years or more. Ask them what they’ve done to remain a team, and then put some of their advice into practice in your marriage.

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]]> We talk with author, speaker, Bible teacher, and podcaster Jennifer Rothschild and her husband Phil about how to team up in all seasons of life.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Find a couple you know who has been married for thirty years or more. Ask them what they’ve done to remain a team, and then put some of their advice into practice in your marriage.

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]]> full 46 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 6adfc1ce-cd51-4042-b3cc-b1a1001793f3 6adfc1ce-cd51-4042-b3cc-b1a1001793f3 Tue, 30 Jul 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1380 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-team-up-in-all-seasons-of-life-with-phil-an 5 Habits to Improve Your Marriage 5 Habits to Improve Your Marriage What relationship-building habits do you and your spouse have? Listen in as we share five practices that, if made a habit, can potentially improve your marriage.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one of these practices to make a habit.

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]]> What relationship-building habits do you and your spouse have? Listen in as we share five practices that, if made a habit, can potentially improve your marriage.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pick one of these practices to make a habit.

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]]> full 45 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 315e4538-d9f9-4b73-a696-b19a015944ee 315e4538-d9f9-4b73-a696-b19a015944ee Tue, 23 Jul 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1580 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-habits-to-improve-your-marriage How to Make Couple Friends How to Make Couple Friends Do you and your spouse have couple friends? In this episode, we discuss why making them can sometimes be challenging, offer you some practical tips on how to find and connect with other married couples, and share three types of couple friends we all need.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think about your couple friends. Do you have some? If so, schedule a time to go on a double date or hang out. If you don’t, come up with a strategy for making some.

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]]> Do you and your spouse have couple friends? In this episode, we discuss why making them can sometimes be challenging, offer you some practical tips on how to find and connect with other married couples, and share three types of couple friends we all need.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think about your couple friends. Do you have some? If so, schedule a time to go on a double date or hang out. If you don’t, come up with a strategy for making some.

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]]> full 44 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 75807182-8143-4a92-b6a2-b19a001f4506 75807182-8143-4a92-b6a2-b19a001f4506 Tue, 16 Jul 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1638 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-make-couple-friends 4 Truths About Marriage Every Couple Needs to Remember 4 Truths About Marriage Every Couple Needs to Remember No matter how long you’ve been married, reminding yourself of fundamental marriage truths is helpful. In this episode, we’ll share four truths about marriage every couple needs to remember.

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Talk about which of these truths you needed to be reminded of most. Ask yourselves: How can we live it out in our marriage this week?

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]]> No matter how long you’ve been married, reminding yourself of fundamental marriage truths is helpful. In this episode, we’ll share four truths about marriage every couple needs to remember.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Talk about which of these truths you needed to be reminded of most. Ask yourselves: How can we live it out in our marriage this week?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 43 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 1da88bb5-9a75-451f-8691-b19500026b82 1da88bb5-9a75-451f-8691-b19500026b82 Tue, 09 Jul 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1487 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/4-truths-about-marriage-every-couple-needs-to-reme How to Be a Couple of Influence How to Be a Couple of Influence Did you know that you and your spouse are a couple of influence? It’s true! Even if you don’t have a platform, television show, or a large online following, you are daily influencing — for better or for worse — how those around you think about marriage. Today, we share three ways you can use your influence for good.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think about a couple you know who influences you to see marriage in a positive light. What is it about what they do, say, and live that makes you view marriage well? How can you practice some of the same things in your relationship?

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]]> Did you know that you and your spouse are a couple of influence? It’s true! Even if you don’t have a platform, television show, or a large online following, you are daily influencing — for better or for worse — how those around you think about marriage. Today, we share three ways you can use your influence for good.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think about a couple you know who influences you to see marriage in a positive light. What is it about what they do, say, and live that makes you view marriage well? How can you practice some of the same things in your relationship?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 43 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 73771c03-dac3-483f-a43f-b193016951d7 73771c03-dac3-483f-a43f-b193016951d7 Tue, 02 Jul 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1552 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-be-a-couple-of-influence Why We Go to Bed Mad (And How It's Helped Our Marriage) Why We Go to Bed Mad (And How It's Helped Our Marriage) Within the Christian community, “Do not let the sun go down on your anger” is often quoted as a hard-and-fast rule for married couples to follow whenever they experience conflict. But sometimes Ted and I do go to bed mad—and surprisingly, it’s been good for our marriage. In today’s episode, we’ll tell you why.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think of another hard-and-fast rule couples are often told. Do you practice it in your marriage? How has it been helpful? If not, what do you do instead and why?

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]]> Within the Christian community, “Do not let the sun go down on your anger” is often quoted as a hard-and-fast rule for married couples to follow whenever they experience conflict. But sometimes Ted and I do go to bed mad—and surprisingly, it’s been good for our marriage. In today’s episode, we’ll tell you why.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think of another hard-and-fast rule couples are often told. Do you practice it in your marriage? How has it been helpful? If not, what do you do instead and why?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 43 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 23e1bfc5-28ac-4505-a7b0-b192015c3235 23e1bfc5-28ac-4505-a7b0-b192015c3235 Tue, 25 Jun 2024 11:30:00 +0000 1332 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-we-go-to-bed-mad How to Respond When Your Spouse Loads the Dishwasher Wrong How to Respond When Your Spouse Loads the Dishwasher Wrong Do you and your spouse approach daily tasks or responsibilities differently? Maybe it’s how you load the dishwasher, fold laundry, or even where you cut your toenails. As couples, sometimes, it’s easy for us to assume our way is the right way and seek to change each other. In this episode, we discuss how to work through the annoyance and loss of control you may feel when your spouse’s way of doing things differs from yours. 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think of a task or responsibility your spouse tackles very differently from you. What can you appreciate from the way they approach it? What’s one way you can express that appreciation to them?

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]]> Do you and your spouse approach daily tasks or responsibilities differently? Maybe it’s how you load the dishwasher, fold laundry, or even where you cut your toenails. As couples, sometimes, it’s easy for us to assume our way is the right way and seek to change each other. In this episode, we discuss how to work through the annoyance and loss of control you may feel when your spouse’s way of doing things differs from yours. 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Think of a task or responsibility your spouse tackles very differently from you. What can you appreciate from the way they approach it? What’s one way you can express that appreciation to them?

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 42 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 1cee0e1d-74e6-4c41-8f34-b1920107d8cd 1cee0e1d-74e6-4c41-8f34-b1920107d8cd Tue, 18 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000 1295 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-respond-when-your-spouse-loads-the-dishwash How to Have a Front-Seat Marriage with James and Arlene Pellicane How to Have a Front-Seat Marriage with James and Arlene Pellicane Has your marriage taken a backseat to your parenting? Today, we have author and speaker Arlene Pellicane and her husband James on the podcast. They share practical tips on how your marriage can take a front seat!

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Connect daily this week by taking walks around the block.

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]]> Has your marriage taken a backseat to your parenting? Today, we have author and speaker Arlene Pellicane and her husband James on the podcast. They share practical tips on how your marriage can take a front seat!

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Connect daily this week by taking walks around the block.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 41 Ted and Ashleigh Slater e655e3c6-97b1-4682-baa0-b18b0139b06d e655e3c6-97b1-4682-baa0-b18b0139b06d Tue, 11 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000 1419 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-have-a-front-seat-marriage-with-james-and-a The Best Marriage Advice We Ever Received The Best Marriage Advice We Ever Received When you got married, you probably received a lot of advice. I know we did! Well, today, we’re talking about the best marriage advice we’ve ever received. We’ll also share with you some favorite words of wisdom our friends were given.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Talk with your spouse about the best marriage advice you received. Ask yourselves if you are regularly putting it into practice.

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]]> When you got married, you probably received a lot of advice. I know we did! Well, today, we’re talking about the best marriage advice we’ve ever received. We’ll also share with you some favorite words of wisdom our friends were given.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Talk with your spouse about the best marriage advice you received. Ask yourselves if you are regularly putting it into practice.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 40 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 86210f17-c81a-4569-9907-b18400b09757 86210f17-c81a-4569-9907-b18400b09757 Tue, 04 Jun 2024 14:00:03 +0000 1328 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/the-best-marriage-advice-we-ever-received Navigating Sickness as a Team with Jon and Brett Seidl Navigating Sickness as a Team with Jon and Brett Seidl Did you recite traditional vows at your wedding? We did! One thing we promised was, “in sickness and in health.” But what does it look like to walk together as a team through sickness? Best-selling author Jon Seidl and his wife Brett—who is an award-winning interior designer—join us to talk about how they have been navigating debilitating health issues. It’s Part 2 of our interview with them. 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

When we’re going through hard stuff, there is a lot of opportunity for conflict, misunderstandings, and hurting one another. Talk about what forgiveness looks like in these situations. 

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]]> Did you recite traditional vows at your wedding? We did! One thing we promised was, “in sickness and in health.” But what does it look like to walk together as a team through sickness? Best-selling author Jon Seidl and his wife Brett—who is an award-winning interior designer—join us to talk about how they have been navigating debilitating health issues. It’s Part 2 of our interview with them. 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

When we’re going through hard stuff, there is a lot of opportunity for conflict, misunderstandings, and hurting one another. Talk about what forgiveness looks like in these situations. 

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 39 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 87b66b16-abde-465f-a770-b17700e36ca1 87b66b16-abde-465f-a770-b17700e36ca1 Tue, 28 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000 1516 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/navigating-sickness-as-a-team-with-jon-and-brett-s Navigating Mental Health as a Team with Jon and Brett Seidl Navigating Mental Health as a Team with Jon and Brett Seidl Has your marriage been impacted by mental health issues? If so, today’s episode is for you. Best-selling author Jon Seidl and his wife Brett—who is an award-winning interior designer—join us to talk about how they’ve navigated the valleys of anxiety and OCD as a team. It’s Part 1 of two episodes with them. Jon and Brett are open, vulnerable, and wise. You don’t want to miss this interview! 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Take time to do a weekly check-in with your spouse. Ask if they are feeling any stress or anxiety, and pray together about it.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> Has your marriage been impacted by mental health issues? If so, today’s episode is for you. Best-selling author Jon Seidl and his wife Brett—who is an award-winning interior designer—join us to talk about how they’ve navigated the valleys of anxiety and OCD as a team. It’s Part 1 of two episodes with them. Jon and Brett are open, vulnerable, and wise. You don’t want to miss this interview! 

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Take time to do a weekly check-in with your spouse. Ask if they are feeling any stress or anxiety, and pray together about it.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 38 Ted and Ashleigh Slater c3feb3f9-0ac4-4954-8fb3-b17200ef0c4d c3feb3f9-0ac4-4954-8fb3-b17200ef0c4d Tue, 21 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000 1674 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/navigating-mental-health-as-a-team-with-jon-and-br Why Staying a Team Takes Time... and Is Worth the Investment Why Staying a Team Takes Time... and Is Worth the Investment Sometimes, we forget in marriage that staying a team takes time. As a result, we can find ourselves slowly drifting away from one another. However, research shows that couples who spend time together regularly and consistently are happier and have a better relationship. Listen in as we discuss why staying a team takes time … and is worth the investment.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pull out the calendar and schedule a date this week. It doesn’t have to be super special, extra romantic, or even well-planned. Go on an evening walk, do your Costco shopping together, or maybe visit a local food truck. 

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]]> Sometimes, we forget in marriage that staying a team takes time. As a result, we can find ourselves slowly drifting away from one another. However, research shows that couples who spend time together regularly and consistently are happier and have a better relationship. Listen in as we discuss why staying a team takes time … and is worth the investment.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Pull out the calendar and schedule a date this week. It doesn’t have to be super special, extra romantic, or even well-planned. Go on an evening walk, do your Costco shopping together, or maybe visit a local food truck. 

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 37 Ted and Ashleigh Slater d1c3e361-92e2-43aa-b118-b16f00a3f0f6 d1c3e361-92e2-43aa-b118-b16f00a3f0f6 Tue, 14 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000 1585 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-staying-a-team-takes-time-and-is-worth-the-inv How to Face Anxiety as a Team When It Impacts Your Marriage How to Face Anxiety as a Team When It Impacts Your Marriage We’ve all had situations or experiences where we’ve felt anxious. Maybe before a job interview, during a move or the house-buying process, or when faced with a daunting project or deadline. For some of us, though, anxiousness isn’t limited to a situation or experience. It can be a daily struggle.

Listen in as we share our story and give you some practical suggestions on how you can support, encourage, and stay united when anxiety impacts marriage.

TAKE THE "US TIME CHALLENGE"

Talk to your spouse about a time when you felt anxious. What triggered it, and what did you need? How can you prepare to face anxiety as a team in the future.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> We’ve all had situations or experiences where we’ve felt anxious. Maybe before a job interview, during a move or the house-buying process, or when faced with a daunting project or deadline. For some of us, though, anxiousness isn’t limited to a situation or experience. It can be a daily struggle.

Listen in as we share our story and give you some practical suggestions on how you can support, encourage, and stay united when anxiety impacts marriage.

TAKE THE "US TIME CHALLENGE"

Talk to your spouse about a time when you felt anxious. What triggered it, and what did you need? How can you prepare to face anxiety as a team in the future.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 36 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 7c2add6c-3be2-4b38-bc54-b05700b80bbf 7c2add6c-3be2-4b38-bc54-b05700b80bbf Tue, 08 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000 1500 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-face-anxiety-as-a-team-when-it-impacts-your Why Being Right in Marriage Can Be Wrong Why Being Right in Marriage Can Be Wrong How often do you need to be right? And how do you respond when you’re not right, and your spouse is? We’re digging into all that today and discussing why being right in marriage can be wrong. Listen in as we chat about how we can help maintain the peace, not by hoping that our spouse, if ever asked, applaud us as always right. But instead, by actively practicing humility.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Identify if there are any little areas where you insist on being right. We all have them. Then, figure out how you can practice both/and in this area.

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]]> How often do you need to be right? And how do you respond when you’re not right, and your spouse is? We’re digging into all that today and discussing why being right in marriage can be wrong. Listen in as we chat about how we can help maintain the peace, not by hoping that our spouse, if ever asked, applaud us as always right. But instead, by actively practicing humility.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Identify if there are any little areas where you insist on being right. We all have them. Then, figure out how you can practice both/and in this area.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 35 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 4afe24bb-a7c1-4b82-8440-b05100b0d893 4afe24bb-a7c1-4b82-8440-b05100b0d893 Tue, 01 Aug 2023 10:45:52 +0000 1428 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-being-right-in-marriage-can-be-wrong Money Talk in Marriage Money Talk in Marriage We’re talking about something that’s in every marriage—and that’s money! We’ll be the first to admit that finances aren’t an area we have all figured out. But a recent message from our pastor got us freshly contemplating how much trust and dependence we put in it.

Listen in as we reflect on his sermon and share our results from a money personality assessment. We also discuss how we aren’t 100% on the same page in every area regarding money, but we’ve learned not to let it divide us.

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Take the 5 Money Personalities Assessment at 5moneypersonalities.com this week with your spouse. Share your results with each other—and with us on social media.

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]]> We’re talking about something that’s in every marriage—and that’s money! We’ll be the first to admit that finances aren’t an area we have all figured out. But a recent message from our pastor got us freshly contemplating how much trust and dependence we put in it.

Listen in as we reflect on his sermon and share our results from a money personality assessment. We also discuss how we aren’t 100% on the same page in every area regarding money, but we’ve learned not to let it divide us.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Take the 5 Money Personalities Assessment at 5moneypersonalities.com this week with your spouse. Share your results with each other—and with us on social media.

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> full 34 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 1734f4c5-6ac5-45b0-a562-b026011e52f1 1734f4c5-6ac5-45b0-a562-b026011e52f1 Tue, 20 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000 1537 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/money-talk-in-marriage 5 Ways to Stop Your Differences from Dividing You as a Couple 5 Ways to Stop Your Differences from Dividing You as a Couple Have you ever looked at your spouse and asked, “What do we have in common?” Maybe there have been times when you’ve even felt like you have more differences than similarities.

In marriage, there’s always the potential for our differences to eat away at our unity—especially if that’s what we focus on. Today, we’re sharing five practical ways you and your spouse can stop your differences from dividing you.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Identify one difference that’s been dividing you and your spouse lately. Take some time to think about what you can appreciate and respect about that difference. Then, tell your spouse—and be sure to keep it all positive!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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]]> Have you ever looked at your spouse and asked, “What do we have in common?” Maybe there have been times when you’ve even felt like you have more differences than similarities.

In marriage, there’s always the potential for our differences to eat away at our unity—especially if that’s what we focus on. Today, we’re sharing five practical ways you and your spouse can stop your differences from dividing you.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Identify one difference that’s been dividing you and your spouse lately. Take some time to think about what you can appreciate and respect about that difference. Then, tell your spouse—and be sure to keep it all positive!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

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  • 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage by Robert Paul and Greg Smalley

 

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]]> full 33 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 43c812cd-12dd-4849-9903-b00a014b585b 43c812cd-12dd-4849-9903-b00a014b585b Tue, 23 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000 1396 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/5-ways-to-stop-your-differences-from-dividing-you 3 Simple Ways to Feed Your Spouse More Praise 3 Simple Ways to Feed Your Spouse More Praise How often do you intentionally stop to praise your spouse? To recognize and affirm their character or actions? Many of us probably cringe at answering these questions because we know we could do better!

If you struggle to feed your spouse praise regularly, this episode is for you. Listen in as we share some practical steps we all can take to criticize less and affirm and build up our spouse more.

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Make it your goal to praise your spouse more this week!

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]]> How often do you intentionally stop to praise your spouse? To recognize and affirm their character or actions? Many of us probably cringe at answering these questions because we know we could do better!

If you struggle to feed your spouse praise regularly, this episode is for you. Listen in as we share some practical steps we all can take to criticize less and affirm and build up our spouse more.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Make it your goal to praise your spouse more this week!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 32 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 6018b760-c74b-41de-b8d6-b00400a5f002 6018b760-c74b-41de-b8d6-b00400a5f002 Tue, 16 May 2023 10:09:18 +0000 1413 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/3-simple-ways-to-feed-your-spouse-more-praise How Podcasting Can Strengthen Your Marriage How Podcasting Can Strengthen Your Marriage Do you remember the “Anyone can cook” catchphrase from the film Ratatouille? Well, we believe anyone can record a podcast—including you and your spouse. Listen in as we share some ways podcasting together has strengthened our marriage, and we think it can strengthen your relationship too.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Record a podcast together! It doesn’t have to be long, fancy, focused on marriage, or even distributed on iTunes. You can record it for family and friends and simply post it on your social media feed. And be sure to tag us when you do!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> Do you remember the “Anyone can cook” catchphrase from the film Ratatouille? Well, we believe anyone can record a podcast—including you and your spouse. Listen in as we share some ways podcasting together has strengthened our marriage, and we think it can strengthen your relationship too.

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Record a podcast together! It doesn’t have to be long, fancy, focused on marriage, or even distributed on iTunes. You can record it for family and friends and simply post it on your social media feed. And be sure to tag us when you do!

LET US KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/team-us/id1565819107)

TEAM US RESOURCES

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 31 Ted and Ashleigh Slater bd04bf6e-457e-432b-a428-affd00a3b4f2 bd04bf6e-457e-432b-a428-affd00a3b4f2 Tue, 09 May 2023 09:57:06 +0000 1143 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-podcasting-can-strengthen-your-marriage Why Your Spouse Comes Before Your Kids Why Your Spouse Comes Before Your Kids Parenting can be wonderful, but it is also demanding and exhausting. We have four kids—we get it! It can be easy to put our spouse and marriage on the back burner. But today, we’re encouraging you not to do that!

Listen in as we share three practical reasons why your marriage relationship needs to take the highest priority after your relationship with God. (And know, this is a conversation full of grace for whatever parenting season you are in!)

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Spend time together! If your schedule and current parenting stage don’t easily allow for a date, find time together at home. Sit on the couch or back porch and talk. Take a walk, or have a fun conversation while you drive. The point is not to put your relationship on the backburner!

TEAM US RESOURCES

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

CONNECT WITH TED AND Ashleigh

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]]> Parenting can be wonderful, but it is also demanding and exhausting. We have four kids—we get it! It can be easy to put our spouse and marriage on the back burner. But today, we’re encouraging you not to do that!

Listen in as we share three practical reasons why your marriage relationship needs to take the highest priority after your relationship with God. (And know, this is a conversation full of grace for whatever parenting season you are in!)

TAKE THE "US TIME" CHALLENGE

Spend time together! If your schedule and current parenting stage don’t easily allow for a date, find time together at home. Sit on the couch or back porch and talk. Take a walk, or have a fun conversation while you drive. The point is not to put your relationship on the backburner!

TEAM US RESOURCES

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

CONNECT WITH TED AND Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 30 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 8a7ebc1a-e57b-412a-98e7-afe100c86561 8a7ebc1a-e57b-412a-98e7-afe100c86561 Tue, 11 Apr 2023 12:11:10 +0000 1308 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/why-your-spouse-comes-before-your-kids How to Grow Older and Love the Couple You Become How to Grow Older and Love the Couple You Become What kind of couple do you want to be 5, 10, or 20 years from now? We recently spent a week surrounded by couples who are older than us, and we asked ourselves this exact question. Listen in as we share our thoughts on how you can grow older together and love the couple you become.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Ask yourself: What kind of couple do we want to be in 5, 10, or even 20 years. Then come up with a game plan to start becoming that couple. 

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> What kind of couple do you want to be 5, 10, or 20 years from now? We recently spent a week surrounded by couples who are older than us, and we asked ourselves this exact question. Listen in as we share our thoughts on how you can grow older together and love the couple you become.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Ask yourself: What kind of couple do we want to be in 5, 10, or even 20 years. Then come up with a game plan to start becoming that couple. 

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 29 Ted and Ashleigh Slater a9543447-c7ba-4ade-a711-afd900ea8147 a9543447-c7ba-4ade-a711-afd900ea8147 Tue, 04 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000 1417 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-grow-older-and-love-the-couple-you-become What to Do When Your Spouse’s Personality Drives You Nuts What to Do When Your Spouse’s Personality Drives You Nuts Have you ever thought, “My marriage would be a lot easier if my spouse had a personality more like mine”? If so, you’re not alone. We’ve all had moments where something about our spouse’s unique wiring annoys us. Listen in as we talk about what you can do in those moments when your spouse’s personality drives you nuts.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Pick one of the popular personality tests out there and take it with your spouse. Then talk about your results and share something positive about your spouse’s personality that now makes more sense to you.

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> Have you ever thought, “My marriage would be a lot easier if my spouse had a personality more like mine”? If so, you’re not alone. We’ve all had moments where something about our spouse’s unique wiring annoys us. Listen in as we talk about what you can do in those moments when your spouse’s personality drives you nuts.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Pick one of the popular personality tests out there and take it with your spouse. Then talk about your results and share something positive about your spouse’s personality that now makes more sense to you.

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 28 Ted and Ashleigh Slater c8c4ab0a-1d63-437a-bc2f-afcb00e76abb c8c4ab0a-1d63-437a-bc2f-afcb00e76abb Tue, 21 Mar 2023 10:00:00 +0000 1387 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/what-to-do-when-your-spouse-s-personality-drives-y How to Vacation-Proof Your Marriage How to Vacation-Proof Your Marriage Have you and your spouse ever been on a getaway together or a family vacation and it didn’t go so well? We can relate! Today we’ll share a few of our stories, list some reasons you might be experiencing conflict away from home, and give you five marriage survival tips to help you vacation-proof your marriage. 

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

This week, look back at a previous vacation that maybe didn’t go so well. Talk and laugh about what you could have done differently. Focus on your own behavior and attitudes, not your spouse’s.   

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

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]]> Have you and your spouse ever been on a getaway together or a family vacation and it didn’t go so well? We can relate! Today we’ll share a few of our stories, list some reasons you might be experiencing conflict away from home, and give you five marriage survival tips to help you vacation-proof your marriage. 

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

This week, look back at a previous vacation that maybe didn’t go so well. Talk and laugh about what you could have done differently. Focus on your own behavior and attitudes, not your spouse’s.   

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 27 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 4396703f-9c09-4764-96bb-afc500a69304 4396703f-9c09-4764-96bb-afc500a69304 Tue, 14 Mar 2023 10:09:15 +0000 1725 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-vacation-proof-your-marriage How to Have a Date-Night Conversation That’s Not About Work, Bills, Schedules, or Kids How to Have a Date-Night Conversation That’s Not About Work, Bills, Schedules, or Kids What if every time you go out on a date with your spouse, all you talk about is work, bills, schedules, and — if you have them — kids? As vitally important as those things are to discuss, we chat about how you can have a date-night conversation that’s NOT about work, bills, schedules, or kids. Listen in as we share four steps you can put into practice.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Go on a date night and practice these steps. Make sure you and your spouse each pick out a conversation starter or two that you want to ask the other.

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> What if every time you go out on a date with your spouse, all you talk about is work, bills, schedules, and — if you have them — kids? As vitally important as those things are to discuss, we chat about how you can have a date-night conversation that’s NOT about work, bills, schedules, or kids. Listen in as we share four steps you can put into practice.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Go on a date night and practice these steps. Make sure you and your spouse each pick out a conversation starter or two that you want to ask the other.

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 26 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 87aa3f7b-dae9-44ff-9fdc-afbd00e8f0be 87aa3f7b-dae9-44ff-9fdc-afbd00e8f0be Tue, 07 Mar 2023 11:00:00 +0000 1065 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-have-a-date-night-conversation-that-s-not-a How Your Marriage Can Go the Distance with Todd and Brooke Tilghman How Your Marriage Can Go the Distance with Todd and Brooke Tilghman On this episode, we’re doing something a little different! Instead of hearing from us, you’ll listen in on a conversation we had with Todd and Brooke Tilghman. Todd is best known as the Season 18 winner of NBC’s The Voice, and what we really love about their story is that if it hadn’t been for Brooke, Todd would have never auditioned for the show. Talk about teamwork!

Todd and Brooke are high school sweethearts who have been married for 24 years and are the parents of eight kids. They wrote a book called Every Little Win, and Todd recently released a new single called “Dig My Grave.” Join us as we talk with Todd and Brooke about practical ways your marriage can go the distance.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

This week, look for small opportunities to spend time connecting with your spouse. Maybe it’s on a ride to the grocery store, taking a walk together in your neighborhood, or doing the dishes.

More from Todd and Brooke Tilghman

Team Us Resources 

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> On this episode, we’re doing something a little different! Instead of hearing from us, you’ll listen in on a conversation we had with Todd and Brooke Tilghman. Todd is best known as the Season 18 winner of NBC’s The Voice, and what we really love about their story is that if it hadn’t been for Brooke, Todd would have never auditioned for the show. Talk about teamwork!

Todd and Brooke are high school sweethearts who have been married for 24 years and are the parents of eight kids. They wrote a book called Every Little Win, and Todd recently released a new single called “Dig My Grave.” Join us as we talk with Todd and Brooke about practical ways your marriage can go the distance.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

This week, look for small opportunities to spend time connecting with your spouse. Maybe it’s on a ride to the grocery store, taking a walk together in your neighborhood, or doing the dishes.

More from Todd and Brooke Tilghman

Team Us Resources 

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 25 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 4018fc2d-e3cd-45df-b248-afb700b38672 4018fc2d-e3cd-45df-b248-afb700b38672 Tue, 28 Feb 2023 10:56:43 +0000 1602 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-your-marriage-can-go-the-distance-with-todd-an What to Do When Communication Is Frustrating What to Do When Communication Is Frustrating Have you ever heard of the game “In So Many Words”? We play it to kick off this episode on communication. But while word games can be fun, sometimes communication in marriage is frustrating. We’ve all felt it! So, how do we navigate it?

Listen in as we talk about communication killers that might be frustrating conversations. We also share three steps you can take when talking to your spouse is a challenge.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Google communication games for team-building. Pick one to play with your spouse.

Links Mentioned in This Episode

“5 Communication Killers and How to Avoid Them” (https://www.altaredmarriage.com/5-communication-killers-and-how-to-avoid-them/)

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> Have you ever heard of the game “In So Many Words”? We play it to kick off this episode on communication. But while word games can be fun, sometimes communication in marriage is frustrating. We’ve all felt it! So, how do we navigate it?

Listen in as we talk about communication killers that might be frustrating conversations. We also share three steps you can take when talking to your spouse is a challenge.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Google communication games for team-building. Pick one to play with your spouse.

Links Mentioned in This Episode

“5 Communication Killers and How to Avoid Them” (https://www.altaredmarriage.com/5-communication-killers-and-how-to-avoid-them/)

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 24 Ted and Ashleigh Slater d38beae6-c367-43be-9304-afb000b04ae0 d38beae6-c367-43be-9304-afb000b04ae0 Tue, 21 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000 929 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/what-to-do-when-communication-is-frustrating What You Can Do to Ruin Your Marriage (We Don't Recommend It) What You Can Do to Ruin Your Marriage (We Don't Recommend It) On this episode, we originally planned to share with you safeguards you can put in place to protect your marriage. But, as Ted says, that’s been done—a lot! So instead, we turn the topic on its head and discuss what you can do to ruin your marriage.

Listen in as we share four things you might be doing to hurt your relationship. You’ll hear why each of these is destructive and why we definitely don’t recommend doing them!

4 Ways You Can Ruin Your Marriage {We Don’t Recommend Them}

  1. Have close friends of the opposite sex
  2. Stop communicating and start burying issues
  3. Focus on the negative
  4. Stop connecting

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Focus on the positive in your spouse, and be sure to share with them what you see!

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> On this episode, we originally planned to share with you safeguards you can put in place to protect your marriage. But, as Ted says, that’s been done—a lot! So instead, we turn the topic on its head and discuss what you can do to ruin your marriage.

Listen in as we share four things you might be doing to hurt your relationship. You’ll hear why each of these is destructive and why we definitely don’t recommend doing them!

4 Ways You Can Ruin Your Marriage {We Don’t Recommend Them}

  1. Have close friends of the opposite sex
  2. Stop communicating and start burying issues
  3. Focus on the negative
  4. Stop connecting

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Focus on the positive in your spouse, and be sure to share with them what you see!

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

Team Us Resources

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 23 Ted and Ashleigh Slater d06b57c5-0730-4e01-8534-afa900b8c3a6 d06b57c5-0730-4e01-8534-afa900b8c3a6 Tue, 14 Feb 2023 11:30:00 +0000 1130 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/what-you-can-do-to-ruin-your-marriage How to Rescue a Valentine’s Day Gone Wrong How to Rescue a Valentine’s Day Gone Wrong Have you ever had a Valentine’s Day go wrong? We have! During our first year as a married couple, we ended up fighting over what we now realize was just a big misunderstanding. We learned that how we respond to each other’s words and actions on Valentine’s Day and any day makes a difference in our relationship.

Listen in as we share how that first Valentine’s Day went wrong and what we wish we’d known then that we know now. We also share three practical things you can do to rescue a day gone bad.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Use this week’s challenge to help you avoid even having a Valentine’s Day gone wrong. Take some time to sit down and share expectations for the day. Come up with a plan on how to celebrate that you are both happy with.

Team Us Resources 

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> Have you ever had a Valentine’s Day go wrong? We have! During our first year as a married couple, we ended up fighting over what we now realize was just a big misunderstanding. We learned that how we respond to each other’s words and actions on Valentine’s Day and any day makes a difference in our relationship.

Listen in as we share how that first Valentine’s Day went wrong and what we wish we’d known then that we know now. We also share three practical things you can do to rescue a day gone bad.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge 

Use this week’s challenge to help you avoid even having a Valentine’s Day gone wrong. Take some time to sit down and share expectations for the day. Come up with a plan on how to celebrate that you are both happy with.

Team Us Resources 

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 22 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 7e627594-795e-413f-8604-afa200bbfe37 7e627594-795e-413f-8604-afa200bbfe37 Tue, 07 Feb 2023 11:26:40 +0000 1022 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-rescue-a-valentine-s-day-gone-wrong How to Team Up for a New Day, Week, Month, and Year How to Team Up for a New Day, Week, Month, and Year We’re about a month into the new year, and we’re back with brand-new episodes! Maybe your new year has started off strong. Or, like us, you’ve faced some challenges.

Today, we’re talking about how you can team up not just for the new year, but for every minute, hour, day, week, and month of the year! Listen in as we share three practical ways you can walk in unity. We also talk about spiritual warfare in marriage, what that might look like, and share thoughts on how to navigate it hand-in-hand.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Pick one of today’s ways to team up and try it this week.

Team Us Resources

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> We’re about a month into the new year, and we’re back with brand-new episodes! Maybe your new year has started off strong. Or, like us, you’ve faced some challenges.

Today, we’re talking about how you can team up not just for the new year, but for every minute, hour, day, week, and month of the year! Listen in as we share three practical ways you can walk in unity. We also talk about spiritual warfare in marriage, what that might look like, and share thoughts on how to navigate it hand-in-hand.

Take the "Us Time" Challenge

Pick one of today’s ways to team up and try it this week.

Team Us Resources

Links Mentioned in This Episode

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full 21 Ted and Ashleigh Slater 66e859f0-4f9f-4738-ae39-af9a01585690 66e859f0-4f9f-4738-ae39-af9a01585690 Tue, 31 Jan 2023 11:30:00 +0000 1348 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-team-up-for-a-new-day-week-month-and-year Faith Over Fear Faith Over Fear If you love listening to "Team Us," we want to introduce you to another LifeAudio podcast we think you'll enjoy: "Faith Over Fear."

 

Scripture assures us that God does not want us to live enslaved to fear, weighed down by stress, and overpowered by personal weakness. Christ promised us joy, peace, and inexpressible freedom. He also promised to give us the power to experience each of those supernatural gifts. In this special episode of Faith Over Fear, prolific speaker Max Lucado shares a time when, attempting to carry his ministry in his own strength, the burden became nearly crippling and how he found fresh hope and strength through the Holy Spirit.

 

If you like what you hear and want to continue listening to more episodes, just search "Faith Over Fear" on your favorite podcast app, or click on any of the links below!

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/faith-over-fear/id1500408829  

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5GCj0NnLVrkEqeSraSxJYx  

LifeAudio: https://www.lifeaudio.com/faith-over-fear 

We will be back soon with a brand new episode of Team Us. Thanks for listening.

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> If you love listening to "Team Us," we want to introduce you to another LifeAudio podcast we think you'll enjoy: "Faith Over Fear."

 

Scripture assures us that God does not want us to live enslaved to fear, weighed down by stress, and overpowered by personal weakness. Christ promised us joy, peace, and inexpressible freedom. He also promised to give us the power to experience each of those supernatural gifts. In this special episode of Faith Over Fear, prolific speaker Max Lucado shares a time when, attempting to carry his ministry in his own strength, the burden became nearly crippling and how he found fresh hope and strength through the Holy Spirit.

 

If you like what you hear and want to continue listening to more episodes, just search "Faith Over Fear" on your favorite podcast app, or click on any of the links below!

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/faith-over-fear/id1500408829  

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5GCj0NnLVrkEqeSraSxJYx  

LifeAudio: https://www.lifeaudio.com/faith-over-fear 

We will be back soon with a brand new episode of Team Us. Thanks for listening.

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 74b8fb9a-bf20-4d2b-9410-af9501442d13 74b8fb9a-bf20-4d2b-9410-af9501442d13 Fri, 27 Jan 2023 10:30:00 +0000 1475 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/faith-over-fear How to Navigate Stressful Decisions Together How to Navigate Stressful Decisions Together We’ve made a lot of stressful decisions together over the years. Some have related to job loss, challenges with our kids, financial pressures, and, most recently, our cross-country move. It would be easy for these decisions to pull us apart and turn us against each other instead of drawing us closer. That’s why we are always determined in advance to stay united.

Perhaps you and your spouse are currently facing your own stressful decisions. Join us as we share three team-building strategies you can practice when faced with difficult choices. They’ll help you navigate stressful decisions together as a team!

3 Ways to Navigate Stressful Decisions Together

1.    Remember that it’s “us,” not “you and me.”
2.    Rather than focus on the stress, dream about the possibilities.
3.    Try to come to full agreement before making a big decision.

Us Time Challenge

Pick a stressful decision you have to make and spend some time dreaming about the possibilities. Maybe even make a list of what good may come out of what you’re facing.

Team Us Resources

•    Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
•    FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)  

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

•    Website (https://ashleighslater.com/) 
•    Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/) 
•    Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor) 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> We’ve made a lot of stressful decisions together over the years. Some have related to job loss, challenges with our kids, financial pressures, and, most recently, our cross-country move. It would be easy for these decisions to pull us apart and turn us against each other instead of drawing us closer. That’s why we are always determined in advance to stay united.

Perhaps you and your spouse are currently facing your own stressful decisions. Join us as we share three team-building strategies you can practice when faced with difficult choices. They’ll help you navigate stressful decisions together as a team!

3 Ways to Navigate Stressful Decisions Together

1.    Remember that it’s “us,” not “you and me.”
2.    Rather than focus on the stress, dream about the possibilities.
3.    Try to come to full agreement before making a big decision.

Us Time Challenge

Pick a stressful decision you have to make and spend some time dreaming about the possibilities. Maybe even make a list of what good may come out of what you’re facing.

Team Us Resources

•    Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
•    FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)  

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

•    Website (https://ashleighslater.com/) 
•    Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/) 
•    Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor) 

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 247f6388-5005-40de-b826-af7100c993df 247f6388-5005-40de-b826-af7100c993df Tue, 20 Dec 2022 12:16:12 +0000 1160 https://omny.fm/shows/team-us/how-to-navigate-stressful-decisions-together Why Church Can Be Good for Your Marriage Why Church Can Be Good for Your Marriage We believe church can be good for your marriage too. Listen in as we start by sharing why going to church matters. We’ll then give you five reasons church attendance and involvement can help you and your spouse grow closer.

5 Reasons Church Can Be Good for Your Marriage

1. It provides shared experiences.
2. It sparks conversation.
3. It provides opportunities to serve together.
4. It offers support and accountability.
5. It fosters spiritual unity.

Us Time Challenge

This week, go to church together — whether it’s mid-week, small group, or Sunday morning — and notice specific ways it brings you closer together.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

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5 Reasons Church Can Be Good for Your Marriage

1. It provides shared experiences.
2. It sparks conversation.
3. It provides opportunities to serve together.
4. It offers support and accountability.
5. It fosters spiritual unity.

Us Time Challenge

This week, go to church together — whether it’s mid-week, small group, or Sunday morning — and notice specific ways it brings you closer together.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> If you ask us why church is good for our marriage, Ted will most likely quip, “I met my wife at church. That was good for my marriage.” Wit aside, though, we take being an active member of our local church seriously. In the two decades since we first... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52172981 88f38f27-a692-4cb0-bd21-af6a00f70bda Tue, 13 Dec 2022 11:30:02 +0000 1228 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/team-us-podcast-episode-7-00-30-11-03 clean How to Work Together to Resolve Disagreements How to Work Together to Resolve Disagreements
Listen in as we talk about practical ways to work together as a team to resolve disagreements. We’ll share how you learn to face conflict as allies, agree not to bury issues, and commit to respond rather than react.

3 Ways to Work Together to Resolve Disagreements

1. Face discouragements as allies.
2. Agree not to bury issues.
3. Commit to respond, not react.

Us Time Challenge

Do a team-building activity together that has the potential to be frustrating at times. Maybe it’s an escape room or paddling a rowboat. Come up with something creative, fun, and relationship-strengthening!

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Listen in as we talk about practical ways to work together as a team to resolve disagreements. We’ll share how you learn to face conflict as allies, agree not to bury issues, and commit to respond rather than react.

3 Ways to Work Together to Resolve Disagreements

1. Face discouragements as allies.
2. Agree not to bury issues.
3. Commit to respond, not react.

Us Time Challenge

Do a team-building activity together that has the potential to be frustrating at times. Maybe it’s an escape room or paddling a rowboat. Come up with something creative, fun, and relationship-strengthening!

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> What do conflict, birthdays, Nehemiah, and buried issues have in common? We talk about them all in this episode! As we’ve said before, conflict in marriage is inevitable. And for us, disagreements have never been about whether or not we’ll have them,... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52108478 de239a6c-0751-4a53-addf-af6a00f70cc7 Tue, 06 Dec 2022 11:22:45 +0000 1696 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/team-us-how-to-work-together-resolve-disagreements clean How to Better Communicate as a Team How to Better Communicate as a Team
Join us as we share some tools, tips, and techniques we’ve discovered. Listen in as we talk about how putting them into practice has helped us better communicate like a team. Hopefully, they’ll do the same for you!

4 Steps to Better Communicating as a Team

1. Slow down.
2. Listen well.
3. Repeat often.
4. Respond rather than react.

Us Time Challenge

Practice the four steps to better communicating as a team. Pick a moment where you might normally rush through communication, and instead, slow down, listen well, repeat often, and respond rather than react.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Join us as we share some tools, tips, and techniques we’ve discovered. Listen in as we talk about how putting them into practice has helped us better communicate like a team. Hopefully, they’ll do the same for you!

4 Steps to Better Communicating as a Team

1. Slow down.
2. Listen well.
3. Repeat often.
4. Respond rather than react.

Us Time Challenge

Practice the four steps to better communicating as a team. Pick a moment where you might normally rush through communication, and instead, slow down, listen well, repeat often, and respond rather than react.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> Some people might assume we’re some sort of communication experts because we both have master’s degrees in communication. But today we’re going to let you in on a not-so-secret truth. We aren’t. We studied communication because we knew we needed help.... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52042760 414b9ed3-840d-4b16-ab13-af6a00f70c43 Tue, 29 Nov 2022 11:30:02 +0000 1174 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/team-us-how-to-communicate-better-as-a-team clean Why Love Isn’t Enough to Keep You Together Why Love Isn’t Enough to Keep You Together
Listen in as we talk about marital culture shock and how obligation isn’t a dirty word. We share how it’s a true-to-our-promise commitment that serves as the best foundation for a healthy marriage and give you three things to remember when you don’t feel “in love.”

The 4 Stages of Marital Culture Shock

1. The Honeymoon Stage
2. The Frustration Stage
3. The Adjustment Stage
4. The Acceptance Stage

3 Things to Remember When You Don’t “Feel” In-Love

1. You won’t break if you bend.
2. Compatible couples have conflict.
3. Bad habits take time to break.

Us Time Challenge

Figure out an area you can bend in this week. Don’t share it with your spouse. Instead, put it into practice and see if your spouse notices.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Listen in as we talk about marital culture shock and how obligation isn’t a dirty word. We share how it’s a true-to-our-promise commitment that serves as the best foundation for a healthy marriage and give you three things to remember when you don’t feel “in love.”

The 4 Stages of Marital Culture Shock

1. The Honeymoon Stage
2. The Frustration Stage
3. The Adjustment Stage
4. The Acceptance Stage

3 Things to Remember When You Don’t “Feel” In-Love

1. You won’t break if you bend.
2. Compatible couples have conflict.
3. Bad habits take time to break.

Us Time Challenge

Figure out an area you can bend in this week. Don’t share it with your spouse. Instead, put it into practice and see if your spouse notices.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> Many couples believe that the intense romantic love that brings them together will keep them together long-term. And, while it’s true that these in-love emotions are exhilarating and worth savoring, you need more than feelings for your marriage to go... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51978265 793d1299-5834-4c43-a1b6-af6a00f74ad1 Tue, 22 Nov 2022 10:59:17 +0000 1149 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/team-us-love-isnt-enough-to-keep-you-together clean Why a Boring Marriage Can Be a Good Marriage Why a Boring Marriage Can Be a Good Marriage
Listen in as we share three things that characterize a boring marriage. You’ll also hear some practical ways you can have one. By the time we’re done, we hope you’ll see why boring marriages are underrated!

3 Characteristics of a Boring Marriage

1. It’s a drama-free zone
2. Commitment outweighs personal fulfillment
3. No power-couple status required

3 Ways to Have a Boring Marriage

1. Pick your “yeses” wisely
2. Pick your comparisons wisely
3. Pick your friends and advisors wisely

Us Time Challenge

Listen to Ben Rector’s song, “Crazy.” Plan an afternoon or evening together based on one of the “crazy” marriage moments he sings about.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Listen in as we share three things that characterize a boring marriage. You’ll also hear some practical ways you can have one. By the time we’re done, we hope you’ll see why boring marriages are underrated!

3 Characteristics of a Boring Marriage

1. It’s a drama-free zone
2. Commitment outweighs personal fulfillment
3. No power-couple status required

3 Ways to Have a Boring Marriage

1. Pick your “yeses” wisely
2. Pick your comparisons wisely
3. Pick your friends and advisors wisely

Us Time Challenge

Listen to Ben Rector’s song, “Crazy.” Plan an afternoon or evening together based on one of the “crazy” marriage moments he sings about.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> We often look at each other and say, “We’re so glad we have a boring marriage.” You might think that sounds crazy—and maybe it does! After all, boring isn’t the adjective most of us want to describe our marriages. But we’re not talking about boring as... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51896980 b9b435c6-8e79-4bfe-b348-af6a00f74ddb Tue, 15 Nov 2022 11:30:02 +0000 1195 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/team-us-podcast-episode-3-00-35-12-38 clean Why Date Night Matters and How to Make It Happen Why Date Night Matters and How to Make It Happen
Even though we’ve made it a priority over the years to date each other, we know that in certain seasons of life, it can be challenging to make date night a reality. Sometimes as couples, we can even wonder, “What’s the point? We’re already married!” But date night isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity! Hear why we believe date night matters and learn creative and practical ways to make it a consistent reality in your marriage.

4 Practical Ways to Make Date Night a Reality:

1. Determine together that date night is a necessity
2. Be flexible on the when and how long of date night
3. Adjust expectations to fit your current season of life
4. Schedule weeknight dates to break up the monotony

Us Time Challenge

Plan a date for this week! Put it on the calendar and make it happen. If you’re not sure what to do or where to go, plan your date based on one of these categories we shared:

• Dinner Date
• Outdoor Date
• Special Occasion Date
• Event Date
• Home Date

Team Us Resources:

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Links Mentioned in This Episode:

• “Better Decisions” message from Chad Moore at Sun Valley Community Church (https://www.sunvalleycc.com/sermons/in-everything-you-do/better-decisions)

• 15 Fun Date Night Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank from Darlene Schacht (https://timewarpwife.com/20-date-night-ideas-dont-break-bank/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Even though we’ve made it a priority over the years to date each other, we know that in certain seasons of life, it can be challenging to make date night a reality. Sometimes as couples, we can even wonder, “What’s the point? We’re already married!” But date night isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity! Hear why we believe date night matters and learn creative and practical ways to make it a consistent reality in your marriage.

4 Practical Ways to Make Date Night a Reality:

1. Determine together that date night is a necessity
2. Be flexible on the when and how long of date night
3. Adjust expectations to fit your current season of life
4. Schedule weeknight dates to break up the monotony

Us Time Challenge

Plan a date for this week! Put it on the calendar and make it happen. If you’re not sure what to do or where to go, plan your date based on one of these categories we shared:

• Dinner Date
• Outdoor Date
• Special Occasion Date
• Event Date
• Home Date

Team Us Resources:

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Links Mentioned in This Episode:

• “Better Decisions” message from Chad Moore at Sun Valley Community Church (https://www.sunvalleycc.com/sermons/in-everything-you-do/better-decisions)

• 15 Fun Date Night Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank from Darlene Schacht (https://timewarpwife.com/20-date-night-ideas-dont-break-bank/)

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> We’ve gone on many fun dates in our twenty years of marriage! Listen in as we do a not-so-rapid-fire Q&A round sharing highlights from our top dates over the years. You’ll hear about our unplanned convertible ride through the desert, the time we flew... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51811045 facc2e05-3f7b-472c-b9a3-af6a00f755a9 Tue, 08 Nov 2022 11:30:02 +0000 1725 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/team-us-date-night-matters clean How to Reconnect When Life Pulls You Apart (New Season Starts Today!) How to Reconnect When Life Pulls You Apart (New Season Starts Today!)
We’re not just reconnecting with you, though. We’re also sharing practical ways you can reconnect with your spouse. The busyness of life often leaves us as couples feeling disconnected or like we’re growing apart. But it doesn’t have to be this way! Learn four ways you can reconnect when life pulls you apart.

4 Practical Steps to Help You Reconnect

1.Check in
2.Course correct
3.Date each other
4.Go back to the beginning

Us Time Challenge:

This week, go back to the beginning. Rediscover something you enjoyed doing together when you first got married, and make time for it.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Links Mentioned in This Episode

• What You Can Learn from History’s Most Infamous Couple: https://bit.ly/3Nmpghf

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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We’re not just reconnecting with you, though. We’re also sharing practical ways you can reconnect with your spouse. The busyness of life often leaves us as couples feeling disconnected or like we’re growing apart. But it doesn’t have to be this way! Learn four ways you can reconnect when life pulls you apart.

4 Practical Steps to Help You Reconnect

1.Check in
2.Course correct
3.Date each other
4.Go back to the beginning

Us Time Challenge:

This week, go back to the beginning. Rediscover something you enjoyed doing together when you first got married, and make time for it.

Team Us Resources

• Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/)
• FREE Team Us Study Guide (https://ashleighslater.com/team-us/free-team-us-study-guide/)

Links Mentioned in This Episode

• What You Can Learn from History’s Most Infamous Couple: https://bit.ly/3Nmpghf

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh

• Website (https://ashleighslater.com/)
• Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ashleighslater_author/)
• Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ashleighslaterauthor)

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> It's taken us over a year to bring you season two of the Team Us podcast. But we’re finally back behind the mics, and we have a lot of good reasons why it’s taken us so long. Listen in as we share about our cross-country move, road-trip stops,... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51747322 6012f39d-a3b9-4a69-b040-af6a00f772ce Tue, 01 Nov 2022 10:45:46 +0000 1299 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/edited-team-us-podcast-episode-1-00-35-1 clean Why Right Now Matters to the Long-term of Your Marriage Why Right Now Matters to the Long-term of Your Marriage
Well, it’s the daily decisions we make individually and together that influence how our marriages fare in the long run. Because of this, it’s important to be purposeful to live out the day-to-day in a way that positively affects the years to come.

So how can we keep moving toward the finish line united? Listen in as we share why right now matters to the long-term of your marriage. You’ll hear how the choices you make today affect your relationship tomorrow, next year, and even a decade from now.

2 Ways to Help You Finish Well
1. Make today’s decisions with a long-term perspective
2. Have a realistic view of your own weaknesses

Us Time Challenge
Visit a cemetery this week. Walk slowly through it and read the epitaphs. Think about your marriage as you do. What do you want those closest to you to say about your marriage when it’s wrapped up? What can you do now to help make that legacy a reality?

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Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/Tanya St

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Well, it’s the daily decisions we make individually and together that influence how our marriages fare in the long run. Because of this, it’s important to be purposeful to live out the day-to-day in a way that positively affects the years to come.

So how can we keep moving toward the finish line united? Listen in as we share why right now matters to the long-term of your marriage. You’ll hear how the choices you make today affect your relationship tomorrow, next year, and even a decade from now.

2 Ways to Help You Finish Well
1. Make today’s decisions with a long-term perspective
2. Have a realistic view of your own weaknesses

Us Time Challenge
Visit a cemetery this week. Walk slowly through it and read the epitaphs. Think about your marriage as you do. What do you want those closest to you to say about your marriage when it’s wrapped up? What can you do now to help make that legacy a reality?

***
Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/Tanya St

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> We all want to finish well as couples, right? We sure do! Well, it’s the daily decisions we make individually and together that influence how our marriages fare in the long run. Because of this, it’s important to be purposeful to live out the... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2544 2f2ba057-d82b-465b-9d35-af6a00f7813e Tue, 29 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1130 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/why-right-now-matters-to-the-long-term-o clean What a Friendship Inventory Is and Why Your Marriage Needs One What a Friendship Inventory Is and Why Your Marriage Needs One
So, we’re going to share what we call a “friendship inventory” you can do to make sure you’re confiding in the right people. It’s also a helpful tool to determine whether you’re being this kind of friend to others.

Plus, if you’re struggling to even have the right people in your life, we’ll share some ways you can seek out these kinds of friendships.

Friendship Inventory Questions:

1.Does this friend esteem marriage?
2.Does this friend view the opposite sex with respect?
3.Does this friend build up my marriage and not just me?

Ways to Develop Godly Friendships:

1.Join a church that values marriage
2.Get involved in that church
3.Become members of a small group

Us Time Challenge

Take the friendship inventory to see how you’re doing at being a friend who esteems marriage, respects the opposite sex, and builds up your friends’ marriages. Think about ways you can do better.

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Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/Nadya Ustyuzhantseva

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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So, we’re going to share what we call a “friendship inventory” you can do to make sure you’re confiding in the right people. It’s also a helpful tool to determine whether you’re being this kind of friend to others.

Plus, if you’re struggling to even have the right people in your life, we’ll share some ways you can seek out these kinds of friendships.

Friendship Inventory Questions:

1.Does this friend esteem marriage?
2.Does this friend view the opposite sex with respect?
3.Does this friend build up my marriage and not just me?

Ways to Develop Godly Friendships:

1.Join a church that values marriage
2.Get involved in that church
3.Become members of a small group

Us Time Challenge

Take the friendship inventory to see how you’re doing at being a friend who esteems marriage, respects the opposite sex, and builds up your friends’ marriages. Think about ways you can do better.

***
Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/Nadya Ustyuzhantseva

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Sometimes the different upbringings and different personalities we’ve brought to our marriage complicate rather than contribute to and enrich our parenting. We’ve had to work hard not to allow these areas of difference to divide us.

While we’re definitely not parenting experts, we’ve learned a few things along the way about how to parent together. So, listen in as we share three things you can do to better parent as a team.

3 Ways to Better Parent as a Team:
1. Appreciate each other’s perspectives
2. Learn from each other’s approaches
3. Actively support one another’s parenting choices

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Us Time Challenge:

We know that we don’t want to use our words to tear each other down. The thing is, we can actually speak words of life. Think of some specific ways you can encourage your spouse as a parent, and build them up in the eyes of your children.

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Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/Oleksandra-Bezverkha

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Sometimes the different upbringings and different personalities we’ve brought to our marriage complicate rather than contribute to and enrich our parenting. We’ve had to work hard not to allow these areas of difference to divide us.

While we’re definitely not parenting experts, we’ve learned a few things along the way about how to parent together. So, listen in as we share three things you can do to better parent as a team.

3 Ways to Better Parent as a Team:
1. Appreciate each other’s perspectives
2. Learn from each other’s approaches
3. Actively support one another’s parenting choices

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Us Time Challenge:

We know that we don’t want to use our words to tear each other down. The thing is, we can actually speak words of life. Think of some specific ways you can encourage your spouse as a parent, and build them up in the eyes of your children.

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Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

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]]> We’ll tell you that having kids is well worth the effort. There’s nothing like it. We’ve found that God uses parenting to refine and change us in a way other things can’t. That said, parenting has been one of our most challenging team efforts yet.... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2514 98f46088-9379-4434-b32a-af6a00f7db9b Tue, 15 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1448 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/how-you-and-your-spouse-can-better-paren clean What You Can Do to Brave Sorrow Together in Your Marriage What You Can Do to Brave Sorrow Together in Your Marriage
Today, we’re talking about how to walk together through the really hard situations, seasons, and losses that we experience as couples. We’re looking at what we can do to remain a strong team during them. So, listen in as we share three practical things you can do to better brave sorrow together in your marriage.

4 Ways to Brave Sorrow Together:

1. Refuse to play the blame game
2. Face defeat together
3. Allow freedom to grief differently from each other
4. Point each other back to God’s character

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Us Time Challenge:
Make a list of the ways God has been faithful to you as a couple. Tape it to your fridge or bathroom mirror as a reminder of His goodness even in difficulty.

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Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Braving Sorrow Together: The Transformative Power of Faith and Community When Life Is Hard

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Today, we’re talking about how to walk together through the really hard situations, seasons, and losses that we experience as couples. We’re looking at what we can do to remain a strong team during them. So, listen in as we share three practical things you can do to better brave sorrow together in your marriage.

4 Ways to Brave Sorrow Together:

1. Refuse to play the blame game
2. Face defeat together
3. Allow freedom to grief differently from each other
4. Point each other back to God’s character

***
Us Time Challenge:
Make a list of the ways God has been faithful to you as a couple. Tape it to your fridge or bathroom mirror as a reminder of His goodness even in difficulty.

***
Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Braving Sorrow Together: The Transformative Power of Faith and Community When Life Is Hard

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Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
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]]> Sometimes we sit back and wonder how we made it through our weeping years. But here we are, still married, still friends, and still liking each other. It wasn’t easy to remain united when miscarriage, multiple job losses, debt, and a house that... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2501 db14201f-5488-48ca-a534-af6a00f7fa6d Tue, 08 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1472 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/what-you-can-do-to-brave-sorrow-together clean Why You Need a Lighthearted Marriage and How to Get It Why You Need a Lighthearted Marriage and How to Get It
While we’re not experts on why other couples struggle to laugh together, we do know one of the reasons we can. It’s because we make intentional efforts to live out our marriage with unburdened hearts.

An unburdened heart is a lighthearted heart. Why? Because it’s one that’s not weighed down by grudges. It’s challenging to feel lighthearted and at ease in a marriage, if we’re keeping tallies on each other. If you want a lighthearted marriage, too, listen in as we share three guiding principles that we’ve found helpful.

3 Ways to Have a Lighthearted Marriage:

1. Practice the 49 percent/51 percent policy
2. Serve with no strings attached
3. Have a common enemy

Us Time Challenge:
Actively look for an opportunity this week to give in on something small with your spouse. Put into practice our 49 percent/51 percent policy and see what happens.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Benefits of Laughter article from Psychology Today

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While we’re not experts on why other couples struggle to laugh together, we do know one of the reasons we can. It’s because we make intentional efforts to live out our marriage with unburdened hearts.

An unburdened heart is a lighthearted heart. Why? Because it’s one that’s not weighed down by grudges. It’s challenging to feel lighthearted and at ease in a marriage, if we’re keeping tallies on each other. If you want a lighthearted marriage, too, listen in as we share three guiding principles that we’ve found helpful.

3 Ways to Have a Lighthearted Marriage:

1. Practice the 49 percent/51 percent policy
2. Serve with no strings attached
3. Have a common enemy

Us Time Challenge:
Actively look for an opportunity this week to give in on something small with your spouse. Put into practice our 49 percent/51 percent policy and see what happens.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Benefits of Laughter article from Psychology Today

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/Cosmaa

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]]> For us, laughter and a sense of levity or lightheartedness has carried us through the years. Laughter has been, as Proverbs 17:22 says, “good medicine” for us. But laughter isn’t something that comes easily for all couples. While we’re not experts on... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2483 bdfe8911-b8a5-4365-80bc-af6a00f80d91 Tue, 01 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1522 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/why-you-need-a-lighthearted-marriage-and clean How to Embrace Conflict in Your Marriage as an Adventure, Not a Threat How to Embrace Conflict in Your Marriage as an Adventure, Not a Threat
What does this have to do with conflict in marriage? Conflict is often uncomfortable and inconvenient. It disturbs our status quo and can even disrupt dinner plans…or gasp!…date nights. We often react like Bilbo and think, “Sorry, I don’t want any conflict, thank you. Not today.”

But it’s important that we work through conflict in healthy, team-building ways. When we choose to put our marriage’s long-term health and mission ahead of our individual agendas, it’s well worth the effort. Not only are we strengthening and deepening our relationship, but we’re also ultimately choosing to reflect Christ.

Listen in as we talk about conflict as an adventure, how to face your disagreements with a team-first perspective, and why your timing in resolving issues matters.

Strategies for Facing Conflict as a Team
1. Embrace conflict as an adventure
2. Trade a me-first perspective for a team-first perspective
3. Choose carefully how and when to work through conflict

Us Time Challenge
Think back to when you went on an adventure together. Talk about what was hard, but how you worked together to overcome the challenges. Discuss how that brought you together. Then talk about how you can apply some of the things you did to how you face conflict now.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode: The Hobbit

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What does this have to do with conflict in marriage? Conflict is often uncomfortable and inconvenient. It disturbs our status quo and can even disrupt dinner plans…or gasp!…date nights. We often react like Bilbo and think, “Sorry, I don’t want any conflict, thank you. Not today.”

But it’s important that we work through conflict in healthy, team-building ways. When we choose to put our marriage’s long-term health and mission ahead of our individual agendas, it’s well worth the effort. Not only are we strengthening and deepening our relationship, but we’re also ultimately choosing to reflect Christ.

Listen in as we talk about conflict as an adventure, how to face your disagreements with a team-first perspective, and why your timing in resolving issues matters.

Strategies for Facing Conflict as a Team
1. Embrace conflict as an adventure
2. Trade a me-first perspective for a team-first perspective
3. Choose carefully how and when to work through conflict

Us Time Challenge
Think back to when you went on an adventure together. Talk about what was hard, but how you worked together to overcome the challenges. Discuss how that brought you together. Then talk about how you can apply some of the things you did to how you face conflict now.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode: The Hobbit

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
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]]> Bilbo Baggins once referred to adventures as “nasty disturbing comfortable things that make you late for dinner.” In some ways, he’s right. Adventures aren’t simply exciting, thrill-seeking activities. They stretch us in ways that force us to change.... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2473 9a892298-5b3d-4635-b4f1-af6a00f821df Tue, 25 May 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1628 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/how-to-embrace-conflict-in-your-marriage clean How Your Individual Differences Can Help You Grow Together How Your Individual Differences Can Help You Grow Together
As a couple, our differences can serve as a great reminder that we need teamwork. We need unity, cooperation, and commitment. And, as we band together for the common good of our relationship, instead of focusing on the places where we feel disappointed or our likes rejected, it becomes easier for us to appreciate, and not despise, the other’s uniqueness.

What are some practical ways you can do this in your marriage? Listen in as we share three things we do so that our differences help us grow together and not apart.

3 Ways to Grow Together and Not Apart
1. Build on common interests
2. Don’t force change
3. Learn to stretch by trying new things

Us Time Challenge
Go on a date. You can either pick your favorite common interest that you share, or one of you can decide to try something the other enjoys. Plan this week’s date around it.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Princess Bride

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As a couple, our differences can serve as a great reminder that we need teamwork. We need unity, cooperation, and commitment. And, as we band together for the common good of our relationship, instead of focusing on the places where we feel disappointed or our likes rejected, it becomes easier for us to appreciate, and not despise, the other’s uniqueness.

What are some practical ways you can do this in your marriage? Listen in as we share three things we do so that our differences help us grow together and not apart.

3 Ways to Grow Together and Not Apart
1. Build on common interests
2. Don’t force change
3. Learn to stretch by trying new things

Us Time Challenge
Go on a date. You can either pick your favorite common interest that you share, or one of you can decide to try something the other enjoys. Plan this week’s date around it.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Princess Bride

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> After we got married, we were surprised by how differently we celebrated holidays and birthdays. One of us loved to go big, while the other preferred to treat them like any other day. But, as we’ve slowly learned over the years, differences like that... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2457 2dc14388-b3e9-460d-9a06-af6a00f83215 Tue, 18 May 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1072 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/how-your-individual-differences-can-help clean Why Becoming a Team Takes Time... and That’s Okay Why Becoming a Team Takes Time... and That’s Okay
While we joined a new team when we promised, “I do,” that doesn’t mean the unity and cooperation we talked about in episode 1 are going to be easy or automatic. It takes time after we get married to make that transition from “me” to “us.”

One reason is that all of us come to marriage with ingrained habits. These are the things that steal joy from our relationship, keep us from walking in unity and practicing cooperation, and can even weaken our resolve to stay committed. Listen in as we share three practical ways you can practice patience for the old as you and your spouse work together toward the new.

3 Ways to Practice Patience, Persistence, and Grace:

1. Pick your battles (recognize the difference between our spouse sinning and our spouse just annoying us).
2. Make a Communication Sandwich
3. Focus on progress, not perfection

Us Time Challenge:
Take some time to make a list of a few ways you’ve noticed that the other has made progress in an area. Figure out a fun and creative way to affirm each other for their growth.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Princess Bride

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

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While we joined a new team when we promised, “I do,” that doesn’t mean the unity and cooperation we talked about in episode 1 are going to be easy or automatic. It takes time after we get married to make that transition from “me” to “us.”

One reason is that all of us come to marriage with ingrained habits. These are the things that steal joy from our relationship, keep us from walking in unity and practicing cooperation, and can even weaken our resolve to stay committed. Listen in as we share three practical ways you can practice patience for the old as you and your spouse work together toward the new.

3 Ways to Practice Patience, Persistence, and Grace:

1. Pick your battles (recognize the difference between our spouse sinning and our spouse just annoying us).
2. Make a Communication Sandwich
3. Focus on progress, not perfection

Us Time Challenge:
Take some time to make a list of a few ways you’ve noticed that the other has made progress in an area. Figure out a fun and creative way to affirm each other for their growth.

Team Us Resources:
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode:
The Princess Bride

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> From its inconceivable R.O.U.Ses to its iconic lines, the 1987 film The Princess Bride is a favorite at our house. For us, one of the most memorable characters is Inigo Montoya. His patience and persistence as he hunts for the six-fingered man remind... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2439 3c8537c8-85b8-40ba-b98a-af6a00f84e0a Tue, 11 May 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1150 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/why-becoming-a-team-takes-time-and-that- clean How to Create a Game Plan for Your Marriage How to Create a Game Plan for Your Marriage
One year, we found ourselves hooked on this sport that’s nicknamed “chess on ice!” And, as we observed the strategy, intentionality, and sweeping that curling requires, we couldn’t help but compare it to marriage!

Every team, whether it’s in curling or in marriage, does better with a game plan. Yet, it’s the sweeping—or grace—that helps us as couples bring home the gold. Grace is to marriage what sweepers are to curling.

So, if you’re not sure what sweeping even is, listen in as we explain the basics of curling. We also chat about anime volleyball, and give you practical ways you can create a game plan for your marriage.

5 Game Plan Strategies for Your Team Us:
1. Literally get on the same page
2. Have a shared understanding of grace
3. Believe the best about each other
4. Play to each other’s strengths
5. Celebrate the victories, not the defeats

Take the "Us Time Challenge":

Like we did, schedule a time and place to literally get on the same page. Grab paper and pens and go to a park, a coffee shop, or sit down together at your dining room table. Spend some time writing down qualities you’d like to see better characterize your marriage. Talk about specific ways you can work toward each ideal.

Team Us Resources
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode
Haikyu!!
Curling for Dummies Cheat Sheet

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One year, we found ourselves hooked on this sport that’s nicknamed “chess on ice!” And, as we observed the strategy, intentionality, and sweeping that curling requires, we couldn’t help but compare it to marriage!

Every team, whether it’s in curling or in marriage, does better with a game plan. Yet, it’s the sweeping—or grace—that helps us as couples bring home the gold. Grace is to marriage what sweepers are to curling.

So, if you’re not sure what sweeping even is, listen in as we explain the basics of curling. We also chat about anime volleyball, and give you practical ways you can create a game plan for your marriage.

5 Game Plan Strategies for Your Team Us:
1. Literally get on the same page
2. Have a shared understanding of grace
3. Believe the best about each other
4. Play to each other’s strengths
5. Celebrate the victories, not the defeats

Take the "Us Time Challenge":

Like we did, schedule a time and place to literally get on the same page. Grab paper and pens and go to a park, a coffee shop, or sit down together at your dining room table. Spend some time writing down qualities you’d like to see better characterize your marriage. Talk about specific ways you can work toward each ideal.

Team Us Resources
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode
Haikyu!!
Curling for Dummies Cheat Sheet

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Episode Image Credit: Getty/artbesouro

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Yet we don’t stop there! We also talk about the very first human team—Adam and Eve.

They’re a duo we consider history’s most infamous couple. Because, as we all know, they really messed up. But here’s where our conversation might be different from a lot of what you usually hear about Adam and Eve. Our primary focus isn’t on how they messed up.

Listen in as we talk about them pre-fall and lay a foundation for what makes a good team. You’ll discover three “team us” qualities that characterized Adam and Eve’s marriage that you can practice too!

3 Qualities Every Team Us Needs:
1.Unity
2.Cooperation
3.Commitment

Us Time Challenge:
Set aside some time as a couple to enjoy a few episodes of The Amazing Race on your streaming service. Think about and discuss the following:
• Which teams are most successful?
• What qualities set them apart?
• Which teams do you find yourself cheering on the most? Why?
• How can you become more like the teams you admire?

Team Us Resources
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode
The Amazing Race

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Yet we don’t stop there! We also talk about the very first human team—Adam and Eve.

They’re a duo we consider history’s most infamous couple. Because, as we all know, they really messed up. But here’s where our conversation might be different from a lot of what you usually hear about Adam and Eve. Our primary focus isn’t on how they messed up.

Listen in as we talk about them pre-fall and lay a foundation for what makes a good team. You’ll discover three “team us” qualities that characterized Adam and Eve’s marriage that you can practice too!

3 Qualities Every Team Us Needs:
1.Unity
2.Cooperation
3.Commitment

Us Time Challenge:
Set aside some time as a couple to enjoy a few episodes of The Amazing Race on your streaming service. Think about and discuss the following:
• Which teams are most successful?
• What qualities set them apart?
• Which teams do you find yourself cheering on the most? Why?
• How can you become more like the teams you admire?

Team Us Resources
Team Us: The Unifying Power of Grace, Commitment, and Cooperation in Marriage
FREE Team Us Study Guide

Links Mentioned in This Episode
The Amazing Race

Connect with Ted and Ashleigh:
Website | Instagram | Facebook

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

]]> As a couple, we’ve had a lot of firsts! From the first time we met over 19 years ago to our first kind-of date to the first time we held hands. So, on this very first episode of the Team Us podcast, we share some of those firsts with you. Yet we... full Ted and Ashleigh Slater 2390 b8cca641-7bdc-4bb7-9b0f-af6a00f86150 Mon, 19 Apr 2021 04:00:00 +0000 1515 https://www.spreaker.com/user/15345404/what-you-can-learn-from-history-s-most-i clean