GayBCD with Farhad & Sunetro

C for Century!

Tue, 14 Dec 2021 00:35:14 +0000

A pandemic, multiple changes in the law, ups and downs in our lives, numerous online recordings, interesting guests and just so much life in general later, Farhad & Sunetro have arrived! At their 100th Episode. And they are super stoked about it. It has quite the ride but the podcast has been such a major part of life.

In this episode, they talk about the suicide pod in the news segment, discuss their journey so far and what the podcast means to them, and leave us with some amazing recommendations before going for a short break for a few days.

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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ft. Sonica Aron, Managing Partner, Marching Sheep

Tue, 07 Dec 2021 00:35:39 +0000

The future is inclusive. And to build that, we need the present to consider it. How many of us have a person from the queer community as colleagues? Maybe the media sector has more people as it is comparatively quite inclusive but then again policies rarely include them. Introducing a third check box in the gender section is not enough, and just having a PR exercise or rainbow-ing the logos in Pride month is just show-off.

To talk about all this and more, we had Sonica Aron, Managing Partner at Marching Sheep- an HR Consultancy that helps businesses be more inclusive. We cover important issues- to begin with- identifying the lack of diversity, to training staff to be more more accommodating and understanding of the queer folks, implementing policies and including them in existing policies, etc.

We also discuss inclusion with reference to persons with disability, special needs, learning disabilities, etc as well.

Find out more about Marching Sheep on their website

(https://marchingsheep.com/)

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S for Sexlessness

Tue, 23 Nov 2021 00:35:09 +0000

There are phases of cravings, and fulfilling them; and then there are days of aversion when you just want to avoid any indulgence. It can be many things but here we talk with reference to sex and how there are days and phases of feeling sexless; when touch is not comforting, when closeness is not cozy, and comfort is in space.

In this episode, Farhad & Sunetro discuss these feelings, some possible causes for the same, and how it is okay to feel so occasionally.

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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F for Family Burdens

Tue, 16 Nov 2021 03:56:49 +0000

This week, Farhad & Sunetro discuss the perks and quirks of having family around, the good and the bad, living out of home and those moments when you are reunited with family, the conversations that happen, acceptance, bonding with parents, ageing folks and a lot more.

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F for Feeling Festive

Tue, 09 Nov 2021 00:35:33 +0000

Festivities might not be for everyone. To each is own. And sometimes, as you grow up, festivals might feel like holidays when you take a break, or a getaway, or just be with yourself. It's Diwali, some of them partied while some of them decided to stay low.

Two most cherished things about festivals are food and memories and this week, let Farhad & Sunetro take you on a trip down the memory lane that's lined with great food, and discuss some general stuff about being out of office, the concern for pets as they are terrified of firecrackers, how festivals feel different as adults, they joyful moments and favorite times of the year, and much more.

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ft. Sybil Shiddel, Communications Manager, Gleeden

Tue, 02 Nov 2021 00:35:09 +0000

An app for extramarital relationships, mainly marketed to women. Sounds interesting? Well, it exists. And is booming. Which shows the diverse nature of relationships, and people prioritising their happiness and pleasure. It might sound culturally blasphemous but stats prove unhappiness in many relationships with reasons ranging from snoring to abuse, and here is an app offering a way out.

This week, Farhad & Sunetro are accompanied by Sybil Shiddel, the Communications Manager of the Gleeden App. Gleeden is a French online dating community and social networking service primarily marketed to women, specifically those who are already in a relationship. And it's a company made and run entirely by women.

Sybil talks about the ethos of the app, the need for it; how were cultures, morals and laws navigated, how have people responded to it, safety measures taken by the app to keep uphold privacy, etc. They also discuss cheating, monogamy, adultery and the likes.

Find the app's official website.

(https://en.gleeden.com/)

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GayBCD with Farhad & Sunetro: R for Rejection

Tue, 26 Oct 2021 02:35:15 +0000

It's a part of life, very common but not acknowledged so much. Rejection. By friends, family, jobs, crushes; and even your autowala. And they vary so much in nature, emotion and management.

Tune in to Farhad & Sunetro sharing their experiences and coping mechanisms with reference to rejection in personal and professional lives.

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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Q for Queer Icons

Tue, 12 Oct 2021 00:35:24 +0000

On this episode, Farhad & Sunetro talk about their favourite and most inspiring Queer icons from pop culture- Indian and Foreign. They share the amazing work done by these icons and their contribution to empowering the lives of the queer community. Top ones include Madonna, Lil Nas, Lady Gaga, RuPaul, Sridevi, Usha Uthup, and some more. Listen in!

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ft. Manish Vyas, Entrepreneur

Tue, 05 Oct 2021 00:35:27 +0000

If you have ever wondered about saving money, had second thoughts about starting a business, or were low on confidence lately, then this episode is for you. We have an entrepreneur, visiting faculty, consultant and writer on board who shares their experiences, and gives us some inside information into the world of queer person owned businesses and the challenges.

They also talk about the various projects undertaken in the heartlands of the country that posed very different challenges- the solutions to which weren't taught in BSchool, and how they navigated through it.

Manish is the Founder/CEO of their consulting firm AUM Konglomerate. They're also associated with Oppia Foundation, and have been visiting faculty with various colleges across India.

Find Manish on Instagram: @pocketmoneysh

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ft. Unnati Bhardwaj, Mental Health Practitioner

Tue, 28 Sep 2021 00:35:14 +0000

Joining us on the pod, is Unnati Bhardwaj- an independent mental health practitioner. They highlight the loopholes in the mental health industry especially when it comes for queer individuals, and potential dangers to mental health by people and practitioners who might do more harm instead of offering solutions. They discuss various situations that are tricky to deal with- community politics, social media activism, working for unsupportive brands while being queer/ ally, maintaining boundaries, productivity guilt, etc and shares tips on coming out safely.

Unnati is a Queer Affirmative Mental Health Practitioner with a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. They have experience working with children and young adults of various socio-economic backgrounds, and also volunteered for a Suicide Prevention Helpline – Samaritans Mumbai. Unnati believes in the mind-body connection, and integrates it into their practice to create more intuitive mental healthcare strategies. They have previously managed a Mental Health project that provided free counseling to about 10,000 underprivileged school children across the suburbs of Mumbai. They are currently running their independent practice and can be reached at @therapywithunnati on Instagram.

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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C for Complexes

Tue, 14 Sep 2021 00:35:15 +0000

Stepping into a room full of people knowing you are different, is an act of courage. In a world where each one is unique, being different in terms of societal labels, makes the world a bit more complicated for them and navigating the imposter syndrome can be tough. In this episode, Farhad and Sunetro discuss the inferiority and superiority complexes that we deal with on a daily basis.

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Q for Queer Sex in Pop Culture

Tue, 07 Sep 2021 00:35:18 +0000

Pop Culture has been very inclusive and welcoming of beautiful stories from the Queer community and it is a breath of fresh air to see those heart-warming moments light up the screen! And in today's episode, we have a look at the portrayal of sex in these stories, on screen. Which shows/movies get them right? What are Farhad & Sunetro's favourite picks?

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L for Living Alone

Tue, 31 Aug 2021 00:35:13 +0000

It's your little nest. You might not own it but at the moment you live in it. You've made it up according to your personality and that's where you thrive. Your own little world in a big city.

How is it to live alone? Cooking, Cleaning, Work, Pets, Bills, Maintenance...a whole bunch of things to manage single handed. Like a one-person army in training.

In this episode, Farhad & Sunetro talk about their experiences of living alone in the big cities.

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Ft. Francis Fernandes, Co-founder and Chairman of Goa Rainbow Trust & Chris Fernandes, CEO & Founder of Goa Rainbow Trust

Tue, 24 Aug 2021 00:35:08 +0000

Our guests today have been empowering fellow queer persons via their organisation and they speak to Farhad & Sunetro about the trust, their personal journey, experiences faced and heard of along the way, pronouns, how can the world be more inclusive, what is right and what is wrong with reference to the laws and narratives, and much more.

Francis Fernandes is the Co-founder and Chairman of Goa Rainbow Trust. He is a 26 year old openly gay man residing in Borim, Goa for the last nine years. He also identifies as androgynous (in terms of gender expression) and homoromantic demi sexual (an identity that lies on the asexuality spectrum). We'd mostly hear him belting out songs as he loves to sing, and also enjoy reading books (depending on the mood) and writing poetry, both of which were fairly recent discoveries. He is currently pursuing writing, and until now, has published a book in the poetry genre titled Music To My Poetry.

He likes to believe that as human beings, we are all an integral part of a rainbow which has such a relatable symbolism — we are all a shade of colour; and when we come together, we become that beautiful band that stands for “unity in diversity.”

Chris Fernandes is the CEO & Founder of Goa Rainbow Trust. They are 39 years old and identify as a trans man residing in Mapusa.

They did a diploma in the hotel industry and then nursing too. They love music, nature and animals. They believe that every human should "live and let live" irrespective of caste, culture, rich, poor, orientation, colour and religion. Respect is very important. And that's the reason why Goa Rainbow Trust is formed "Fight towards humanity embracing diversity".

Find Goa Rainbow trust: Website | Instagram

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Ep 86: H for Hang Ups

Tue, 03 Aug 2021 00:35:20 +0000

We are all little control freak when it comes to our personal lives. And sometimes it leads to unpleasant situations, and sometimes even funny ones. Listen in to Farhad & Sunetro talk about their experiences.

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Ep 85: R for Re Entering a post-Covid World

Tue, 27 Jul 2021 00:35:24 +0000

There are 2 kinds of people in the world. One, who are looking forward to getting back to social life once things open up, and the other, who just want it to stay in the lockdown life forever. What do hosts Farhad & Sunetro think? Tune in to find out!

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Ep 84: O for Oops Moments

Tue, 20 Jul 2021 00:35:04 +0000

To err is human and there is no escape to awkward and oops moments. Tune in to this episode where Farhad & Sunetro talk about things that went wrong, things that could go wrong, when you and your partner get cozy.

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Ep. 83: ft. Kavish Sinha, Casting Director, & Owner, On-My-Kayroll

Tue, 13 Jul 2021 00:35:13 +0000

We often talk about representation and pop culture. One major contribution that works behind the scenes here is that of the casting department. Them deciding to look for queer actors, actually considering them for the role, training them and respectfully treating them throughout the process. In India, casting has been known in a not so good light but the scenario is changing.

To shed more light on this, we invited one of the top casting directors of India- Kavish Sinha. He owns an agency named On My Kayroll and has credits in works like The Office India, Laakhon Mein Ek, Apharan, Kaafir, Hasmukh, Undekhi, Out Of Love, etc.

He talks to hosts Farhad & Sunetro about his journey into casting, an actor's life, the casting process, typecasting, the struggles of aspiring actors, and a lot more.

You can follow Kavish on Instagram:

@kavishsinha | @onmyayroll

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Ep. 82: S for Sex Based Addictions

Tue, 06 Jul 2021 00:35:11 +0000

We all have our vices in life. Some give us comfort, some give pleasure, and some are a result of influence. Tune in to listen to hosts Farhad & Sunetro discuss some of their sex based addictions.

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Ep. 81: S for Support Systems

Tue, 29 Jun 2021 00:35:15 +0000

One of the main reasons why we get through most things in life is our little circle of friends and well-wishers, and therapists. Some, whom we talk to every day, some who check on us occasionally, and some whom we might not speak to regularly but when we do, it is like we have been together forever. They empower us, accept us the way we are, let us be the way we are, support us in endeavors, and their presence just makes life better.

Our hosts Farhad & Sunetro talk about some of their best people- friends, family, well-wishers; company to pop champagne with when it's a joyful time and a dependable entity to rest the head upon when things got tough.

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Ep.80: ft. Raqeeb Raza, Artist

Tue, 22 Jun 2021 00:35:07 +0000

It is said that art comforts the disturbed and disturbs the comfortable. And we are so used to seeing photoshopped faces and bodies, and that has disturbed the idea of perfect for us so we feel uncomfortable in our own skin, always chasing that prescribed idea of perfect.

In order to bust this myth and take a step towards empowerment via photography, Raqeeb Raza- an artist wearing many hats including photographer, researcher, reporter, writer, scholar-takes us through his journey of finding art in the real, unfiltered, normal faces and bodies. He talks about shedding the self-conscious feeling and feeling like art with whatever accessories we might be blessed with-abs, flabs, dimples, pimples, jawline, double chin, etc.

Hosts Farhad & Sunetro also discuss with him the censorship issues across social media platforms and Raqeeb highlights some of the biases that companies have while taking down/ retaining reported posts.

And make sure to stay till the end because we have a longer list of amazing recommendations for the upcoming weekend!

You can find Raqeeb on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/daintystrangerphotos/

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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Ep. 79 ft. Sulagna Chatterjee, Screenwriter

Tue, 15 Jun 2021 00:35:19 +0000

Reel life is inspired by real life. But then why is there so much discrepancy in queer representation? Butch female characters for lesbians, effeminate male characters for gays- how inaccurate is that! And why are they given stories that revolve around their 'queerness' and not around the person they are or their other traits? And why almost always do they have unhappy endings? And what are some of the best examples of representation? (btw, Schitt's Creek is a major favorite!)

To talk about all this and more, we have Sulagna Chatterji- writer and film-maker, someone who has been in the creator circle for enough time to understand how queer stories are looked at by fellow people in the industry. Tune in as she shares her experiences with Farhad & Sunetro.

Sulagna has worked on Alt Balaji's shows- Code M & The Verdict, is the writer of Dice Media's 'Firsts' Season 3, and has a Netflix show coming up next.

You can find Sulagna on Social Media as @beingchatterjee on Twitter & Instagram.

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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Ep. 78: ft. Suresh Ramdas, Mr. Gay India 2019 & LGBTQIA Corporate Inclusion Specialist

Tue, 08 Jun 2021 00:35:19 +0000

In this episode, Farhad & Sunetro discuss the new normal in Queer relationships and their life in general with Suresh Ramdas. They talk about the fight against Article 377, the struggle to legalize marriages within the community, finding a house to live in with a partner and not have landlords or neighbors get judgemental, pressures and repercussions of coming out, workplace inclusivity, Pinkwashing by brands, and above all accepting yourself as an ocean in the drop.

Our guest for the episode, Suresh Ramdas is the Global Training Lead with HP. He is Mr Gay India 2019 and an LGBTQ workplace advocate.

You can find Suresh Ramas on Social Media:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suresh_r81/

Twitter: (https://twitter.com/sureshramdas)

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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Ep. 77: ft. Ashish Chopra, Co-Founder, Beunic India

Tue, 01 Jun 2021 00:35:06 +0000

Hola! It's that time of the year when companies share rainbow-themed social media posts, merchandise, and newsletters because it's Pride Month! But for us, it is that time of the year when we accept ourselves and hug our identity all the more and feel proud about it. It is that time of the year when people of the community come together in solidarity to share the joys and sorrows.

This week, as we flag off the pride month 2021, we have on board Ashish Chopra- a queer entrepreneur with an online showroom named Beunic where they sell shirts, shoes, and it also is a space for fellow entrepreneurs to showcase their stuff and put them up on sale.

Farhad & Sunetro discuss Pride Consumerism, the campaigns- good, bad & ugly; representation of the community in the marketing space, their favorite Queer artists, stuff we love, stuff we hate, exclusivity and inclusivity, and how they deserve to be the story and not the twist in the story.

Visit the Beunic website: https://beunic.in/ and you can find Ashish Chopra on Social Media:

Instagram: @thechopranextdoor

Twitter: @chopranextdoor

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

(https://www.instagram.com/theqr8r/?hl=en)

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Ep. 76: H for Homophobia

Tue, 25 May 2021 00:35:14 +0000

The dictionary meaning of Homophobia is the dislike of or prejudice against gay people. But here, the buck doesn't stop there. It is discrimination, hatred, lack of empathy, a third-grade treatment, and not accepting them as belonging to the same species. In a time and age where the good and the bad are called out and highlighted, it takes the form of casual teasing, and most of the time it is downright disrespectful. And Farhad & Sunetro are here to talk about it. They share experiences from their personal lives when it all started right from school (which implies the importance of education and empathy right from the tender ages) to now when they are adults navigating a more informed world, that still hasn't fully included them in crucial policies and laws btw.

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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(https://www.instagram.com/glitterbugged/?hl=en)

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Ep. 75: Ft. Palash Borah & Sanyam Sharma, Blued India

Tue, 18 May 2021 00:35:18 +0000

It's our 75th Episode and big hug to everyone who has been with us so far. We hope you'll continue listening to and cheering for us.

Dating, something we have spoken about before, and yet there are so many dimensions to it, obviously- it's the apparent pursuit of love and that can never be easy. Sitting at home, the only and best access we can have to people of the community are the various apps, and one of them, which clearly stands out, you'll know why, is Blued. It is one of the most popular gay social networking dating apps with 40 million users worldwide. We invited the insiders on the India side to share what it's like to work in an inclusive place, the various policies within, some usage insights, trends during the pandemic, dating and its side effects, and a chat about the community in general. Palash Borah and Sanyam Sharma from Blued India have an insightful conversation with our hosts that you'll max relate to if you are a queer individual trying to navigate the second most populated country that has an unpleasant gaze just because you have different preferences.

Love is love and we try our best to make your life better by bringing across things that matter and have honest conversations.

Visit the Blued India website:

https://www.blued.com/en/index.html

Find

Palash on Instagram (@Palsisan)

And Sanyam (@mua.sunny)

Check out Blued India (@blued_india)

You can follow Farhad on his Instagram handle: @theqr8r

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Ep. 74: C for Commitment Issues

Tue, 11 May 2021 00:35:14 +0000

Our hosts are back with another very relatable topic. And so, so relevant in the present times. Commitment- the act of belonging to someone completely, and the issues that come with it. Some are scared to commit, some want to explore and not be with one person. Some might not be scared to commit but an uncertain future might be a deterrent. Committing but not being able to take it forward in a society-approved manner (read: Marriage)- how is that affecting relationships? And what about partners being in love but having different plans in life? All this and more in this episode.

In TickTalk, they talk about the Madras HC Judge who decided to seek counselling to understand same-sex relationships.

On SmallTalk, Farhad recommends LetterBoxd while Sunetro talks about The Nevers!

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Ep. 73: R for RuPaul's Drag Race

Tue, 04 May 2021 00:35:15 +0000

It's a fun episode today with Farhad & Sunetro talking about RuPaul's Drag Race- a reality show spanning 13 seasons, searching for the next drag superstar. They share their favourite moments and contestants from the show. RuPaul's Drag Race has been nominated for thirty-nine Emmy Awards and won nineteen. It has also been nominated for nine Reality Television Awards, winning three, and nominated for six NewNowNext Awards, winning

three.

TickTalk, it was all about vaccination and in SmallTalk, Farhad praised two music artists- 'Jessie Ware' & 'Róisín Murphy' while Sunetro told us why we should catch 'The Mitchells vs. the Machines'.

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Ep. 72: S for Savings

Tue, 27 Apr 2021 00:35:13 +0000

When Money is not being converted into dresses or food, it is chilling in the bank account. And just like humans, money doing nothing will make it dormant. So we have ways to make the money work for ourselves- via investments, insurances, funds, bonds, and whatnot. Now, our hosts aren't experts on the subject matter but they do have an important underlying message for all of us- that saving is necessary. Whether you save for a rainy day metaphorically or to witness a beautiful rainy day in Costa Rica/Hawaii for real; putting aside a part of your earning is always beneficial.

Some of us, like Farhad, are scared to go to the bank. Some of us, like Sunetro, have a plan in place. And it's all okay as long as you seek help and figure out ways to manage money.

In TickTalk, the spotlight was upon the latest Bhima Jewellers

ad.

SmallTalk, Farhad got nostalgic and spoke about 'Waghle Ki Duniya' while Sunetro talks about 'Hereditary', streaming on Netflix.

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Ep. 71: Q for Quarantine Connections

Tue, 20 Apr 2021 00:35:16 +0000

These days, we are out of answers for 'How are you?' or 'How's it going? Making new connections IRL or on social media is backed by a major factor of loneliness. While it is good that people are there for each other, but don't we often run out of topics to talk about that go beyond discussing 'the new normal' or the apathy of the government or sharing pet pictures. Why does this happen? When it comes to making new connections, does a feeling of uncertainty creep up- will we meet, is there a future? Are romantic prospects all about sharing life in the first 2 weeks and fading out to seeing each others Instagram stories and occasionally reacting to them? Well, it's another year, another lockdown and Farhad & Sunetro talk about Quarantine Connections and how to sustain them.

On TickTalk, they discuss the latest on 'Drag Race' and on SmallTalk, Sunetro expresses his appreciation for the simple but delicious combo of 'Chutney & Papad', while Farhad is gushing over the 'Chocolate & Salt' combination.

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Ep. 70: G for Gay Superheroes

Tue, 13 Apr 2021 00:35:12 +0000

Superhero fans unite! This week Farhad and Sunetro talk all about superheroes- queer or otherwise. They revisit their (and our) childhood and their favourite cartoon superheroes, talk about the ones on the big screen and discuss them from a non-binary perspective.

On tick talk, they speak about the controversy around Lil Nas' music video.

On Small talk, Farhad recommends 'Shtisel' (Netflix) and Sunetro recommends 'Worn Stories' (Netflix).

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Ep. 69: H for High on Hygiene

Tue, 06 Apr 2021 02:11:53 +0000

This week our boys invoke their inner 'Monica Geller' as they dive into the discussion around cleanliness and hygiene. Whether it's a conference or a date, a person or a pet, maintaining basic hygiene is imperative. Listen up as Farhad and Sunetro discuss their personal experiences, good and bad; draw the line between finicky obsessions, OCDs and basic hygiene rules.
For TickTalk, they talk about the 'International Transgender Day of Visibility'; and on Small Talk- Farhad is all praises about 'Wanda Vision' while Sunetro recommends watching 'A Promising Girl'.

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Ep. 34: (Rebroadcast) S for Self Care

Tue, 30 Mar 2021 07:02:11 +0000

This is a rebroadcast episode.

'I' is an important word today, more than ever, while we all struggle with a sense of self under the lockdown. This week, Sunetro and Farhad talk about Self Care and its vital importance today, tomorrow and forever in keeping oneself feeling valued and uplifted.

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Ep. 68: P for Pets

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 04:16:39 +0000

Farhad has been a cat parent for almost 5 years and Sunetro recently embraced parenthood by adopting a puppy, and he has been on cloud nine ever since! So this week they decided to talk about their respective babies and about pets in general. How they add so much value to life, their adorable and annoying habits, working from home with them lurking around, the difference in the expressions of affection of cats and dogs, and how sometimes they are the only companion one has!

We also have special segments now:
In the beginning, it's a ‘Tick Talk' where THEY discuss fresh news from the queer world with a couple of hot takes.
The main discussion is 'Big Talk'.
Finally, to end on a happy note, we have ‘Small Talk' where they give a shout-out to a current obsession, find, discovery or inspiration or anything in that ambit!

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Ep. 67: B for Breaking the Top-Bottom Binary

Tue, 16 Mar 2021 00:35:05 +0000

In this episode, Farhad & Sunetro discuss the slow decay of the top-bottom dichotomy. In an age where gender and sex as constructs are being questioned, breaking this binary is something they ponder about.
While these terms may be elements of self-identity, is it may be time to either broaden this spectrum or abolish this altogether? Tune in to find out!

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Ep. 66: P for Pains of being Gay

Tue, 09 Mar 2021 00:35:10 +0000

Being queer, a lot of energy is spent giving explanations for the most basic things, often to the point of having to justify existence. Nope, we’re not being dramatic here (gasp)! If you live in India today, you’d know!

After a little sabbatical, our hosts Farhad & Sunetro are back. On this episode, they talk about the pains of being queer… right from nosey questions during house-hunting, unsolicited curiosity at work, or just a pure lack of role models overall!.

We also have 2 special segments starting this week:
In the beginning, it's a ‘Tick Talk' where THEY discuss fresh news from the queer world with a couple of hot takes.
Finally, to end on a happy note, we have ‘Small Talk' where they give a shout-out to a current obsession, find, discovery or inspiration or anything in that ambit!

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Ep. 65: B for Best Friends

Tue, 02 Feb 2021 00:35:00 +0000

Can a person have just one best friend? Does the concept of best friends stay relevant as we grow older? Also, don't we all know of that girl who has a gay best friend that she is super comfortable with and people are slightly jealous of her- ever wondered how that best friend feels? Farhad and Sunetro talk about all this and much more before going on a little break.

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Ep. 64: H for Health

Tue, 26 Jan 2021 00:35:02 +0000

In this episode, our hosts Farhad & Sunetro have a healthy conversation about workouts, diets, lifestyle and organic products. They talk about health in general, in the pandemic and for the queer fam.

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Ep. 63: P for Pop Culture Round Up 2020

Wed, 13 Jan 2021 05:55:58 +0000

It's time for another yearly binge report of all things Farhad and Sunetro have consumed in this godforsaken year. From the best films to everything pop culture related here's tons of things they discovered, loved and hated in 2020.

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Ep. 62: W for What If We Were Straight

Tue, 05 Jan 2021 00:35:11 +0000

Emoji: 🤔

Have you ever thought how different life would be if we were straight? Would we be a drastically opposed version of us? Or would we, at the core, still be the same? This week Sunetro and Farhad get a little existential with this question and go on a roller coaster of what ifs!

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Ep. 61: M for Manifesting 2021

Tue, 29 Dec 2020 04:35:03 +0000

Let’s end the year on a hopeful note, shall we? More than anything, this year has taught us the importance of looking forward and keeping hope alive. This week, Sunetro and Farhad manifest 2021 and what it can bring along with it in the last episode of the year!

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Ep. 60: Sibling Rivalry

Tue, 22 Dec 2020 06:10:37 +0000

Siblings, especially if not queer, can play an important role in the lives of queer folks. Sometimes proxy parents, sometimes proxy confidantes and sometimes proxy objectors even. Is there a guidebook to make it work with your sibling? This week Sunetro and Farhad try to find out!

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Ep. 59: S for Stereotypes

Tue, 15 Dec 2020 00:35:09 +0000

When it comes to queer folks and stereotypes, is it a case of no smoke without fire? In a light-hearted episode, Sunetro and Farhad toot, boot and shoot the most oft-used stereotypes within the community and investigate if there’s actually some truth to their basis.

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Ep. 58: E for Etiquette

Tue, 08 Dec 2020 00:35:06 +0000

Who pays for the bill on a date? How bad is it to ghost someone? Is there a polite way to ask your new fag hag to calm down? Join Sunetro and Farhad this week as they discuss the unspoken etiquettes and manners of being gay.

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Ep. 57: S for Starting Over

Tue, 01 Dec 2020 00:35:09 +0000

Why do we fear any kind of reset in our lives? What does it take for the positives of starting over to overcome this very fear? This week, Sunetro and Farhad talk about how starting over in any sphere of life, be it love, friendships, jobs, geographies etc, can be painful, necessary and often times the start of happiness.

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Ep. 56: S for Singlehood

Tue, 24 Nov 2020 00:35:09 +0000

In the midst of a raging pandemic, has singlehood and personal space taken on a new meaning? Have we entered a new era where company and companionship is craved more than ever? This week, Sunetro and Farhad talk about the post-pandemic definition of singlehood.

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Ep. 55: O for Online Hate

Tue, 17 Nov 2020 00:35:02 +0000

How does one, in a world pervaded by the digital experience, exclude and remove oneself from being a victim to online hate? How does one even begin to not let it control their lives, perceptions, mental health et al? This week, Sunetro and Farhad talk about the power and pitfalls of unchecked expression that social media allows.

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Ep. 54: F for Festival

Tue, 10 Nov 2020 00:35:06 +0000

What’s celebration looking like this year? Grim and subdued? Or a shifting sign of new beginnings? On this week’s episode, Sunetro and Farhad discuss how they plan to bring in the festive cheer the queer way with a heartfelt message for all the fans out there.

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Ep. 53: C for Checking Your Privilege

Tue, 03 Nov 2020 00:35:13 +0000

Where does the act of checking one’s privilege tip from necessary self awareness to self flagellation? This week, Sunetro and Farhad try and uncover the idea of privilege in its various forms and the power and problematics of that term.

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Ep. 52: S for Straight Obsession

Tue, 20 Oct 2020 02:50:07 +0000

Want to hear Sunetro and Farhad duke it out on a topic? Here’s your chance to hear multiple perspectives on what being attracted to straight individuals feels like. Is there a rough power dynamic in the works always? Is it denigrating to the cause of the queer movement? Find out on this week’s episode.

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Ep. 51: L for Looks

Tue, 13 Oct 2020 00:35:06 +0000

In the increasingly judgemental world of online dating, especially in the queer sphere, can we ever really be free of the impossible standards we expect people to adhere to? This week, Sunetro and Farhad unravel the idea of how important the concept of looks becomes in the process of choosing people we want to spend time with and how we can still have our likes but still make this process a less anxiety-ridden one, possibly free of shame.

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Ep. 50: D for Dating and Age Difference

Tue, 29 Sep 2020 00:35:05 +0000

What's better, dating someone younger or older? While there's never a definitive answer, hear Sunetro and Farhad talk about dating on both sides of the age pool. This week, let's unpack the idiosyncracies that unravel both dating someone younger and older!

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Ep. 49: M for Mr. Right

Tue, 22 Sep 2020 07:02:50 +0000

Are we too judgemental and too critical while setting up the foundation for our partners in today’s day and age? How realistic are we while we pick these yardsticks? This week, Sunetro and Farhad talk about what they look for in their partners, the non-negotiable traits, the absolute no-no’s and the massive changes they’ve seen in their criteria over the course of growing up.

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Ep. 48: C for Children

Tue, 15 Sep 2020 00:35:06 +0000

What does a child mean in today’s day and age for the queer community? Is it a dream that’s past reality for us or is it something we can still hope for? This week Sunetro and Farhad unspool the idea of what a child means to us, be it the idea of a continuation of our dreams and aspirations, or a limitation to our milestones, or a matter of debate in terms of its necessity.

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Ep. 47: C for Cool

Tue, 08 Sep 2020 00:35:05 +0000

What’s cool, what’s not? Are we cool or are we not? Much of growing up is figuring, building, and then dismantling the idea of ‘cool’. This week, Sunetro and Farhad dig deep into their journeys over the years grasping the spectrum of cool and uncool.

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Ep. 46: H for Hookups

Tue, 01 Sep 2020 00:35:01 +0000

Given the distancing we’ve experienced over months, what does the idea of a hookup mean to us now? This week Sunetro and Farhad chat about how their concept of hookups has undergone a tectonic shift over the lockdown.

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Ep. 45: C for Cynicism

Tue, 25 Aug 2020 00:35:04 +0000

When the world’s on fire, a little cynicism is a given. But at what point do we ‘become’ cynics. Is it an unavoidable phase of life that simply comes with clarity about the world or is it still a state of mind that we can fight and train? Sunetro and Farhad unpack the topic of all things cynicism this week.

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Ep. 44: G for Grudges

Tue, 18 Aug 2020 00:35:06 +0000

As queer folks, more often than not, we do end up facing differing levels of censure. So what do we do with that grudge? Hold on to it to motivate us to do better or let it go as the bigger person? This week, Sunetro and Farhad talk about how grudges affect them as both holders as well as victims.

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Ep. 43: S for Self Harm

Tue, 11 Aug 2020 00:35:03 +0000

Trigger Warning
In a revelatory episode Sunetro and Farhad talk about the struggles of grappling with self harm in the wake of doubts, insecurities and pain. Oft considered a very common practice within the community, can there be a fool-proof way to bar the onset of the urge?

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Ep. 42: N For Nightlife

Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:35:04 +0000

Is a vibrant nightlife synonymous with the queer community? Is nightlife where the community finds its freedom and expression? This week, Sunetro and Farhad reminisce what they miss about their respective versions of the phenomenon called nightlife.

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Ep. 41: M for Maturity

Tue, 28 Jul 2020 15:01:37 +0000

Older and wiser… what does that mean really? This week, Sunetro and Farhad go on a rollercoaster of emotions to unpack the idea of maturity and the various facets it encapsulates for each of them!

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Ep. 40: B for Beauty & Makeup

Wed, 22 Jul 2020 00:35:03 +0000

Beauty and makeup have always played a big role in the shaking up the traditional tenets of masculinity. What role do these elements play in today’s day and age? This week, Sunetro and Farhad talk about how curious, little experiments with makeup have come to define and redefine various aspects of their queerness over the years.

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Ep. 39: S for Self Worth

Tue, 14 Jul 2020 12:50:47 +0000

How fragile is the sense of self worth under the lockdown circumstances? Are we more prone to doubting ourselves with the constant sense of static? Sunetro and Farhad chat about the process of building self worth and its challenges on this week’s episode!

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Ep. 38: A for Ambition

Tue, 07 Jul 2020 00:35:04 +0000

Does ambition really push us forward, or does it, in covert and overt ways, hinder our progress? What does ambition even mean in a world that’s come to a standstill? Hear Sunetro and Farhad unpack this topic this week on a new episode!

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Ep. 37: W for What's Popping?

Tue, 30 Jun 2020 07:54:07 +0000

In this episode we do a basic catchup on what's keeping us going in quarantine. From books to movies, music to a very random segue on how to separate the art from the artist. This episode is a mixed bag of fun.

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Ep. 36: F for Father

Tue, 23 Jun 2020 00:35:05 +0000

Do fathers and queer kids have a tenuous relationship? What are the generational challenges we can see fathers facing day in and day out? What is a good father? On the occasion of Father's Day, Sunetro and Farhad unpack the real meaning of being a father in the new milennium!

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Ep. 35: P for Pride

Tue, 16 Jun 2020 02:43:25 +0000

What does Pride truly stand for? Is it merely celebrating your existence? Or does it encompass a far wider conversation of pushing boundaries of tolerance and acceptance. In light of the Pride month, Sunetro and Farhad talk about the multifarious dimensions to this very simple 5-letter word.

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Ep. 34: S for Self Care

Tue, 09 Jun 2020 00:35:00 +0000

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Ep. 33: T for Therapy

Tue, 02 Jun 2020 00:35:00 +0000

Is therapy just chitchat with someone you don't know? It is really necessary? Does it really work? Or is it just another drain on our pockets? This week, Sunetro and Farhad get up close and personal with their perspective on therapy and talk about what it means for the queer community.

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Ep. 32: O for Orgasms

Tue, 26 May 2020 00:35:01 +0000

Going nuts in this lockdown or busting too many? Sunetro and Farhad talk about how they've been keeping their testosterone levels in check and what an orgasm(s) in itself means to them anymore.

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Ep. 31: R for Religion

Tue, 19 May 2020 00:35:01 +0000

Does religion enable or disable? Can religion today seamlessly blend with queer identities or does it need massive tweaking? Is it a personal belief system or a communal moral compass? This week Sunetro and Farhad dish deep about the intricacies and idiosyncracies of religion, faith and the queer identity.

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Ep. 30: S for Sexting

Wed, 13 May 2020 00:35:05 +0000

With the lockdown on extended play, sexting is the closest to physical contact for a large part of the community. How does this play into the dynamics of authencity and roleplay? Tune in this week as Sunetro and Farhad talk about it.

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Ep. 29: S for Second Chances

Wed, 06 May 2020 00:35:04 +0000

When it comes to relationships, does over truly mean over? Or are we willing to allow for second chances? This week, Sunetro and Farhad discuss their views on second chances and redemption when it comes to romance, relationships and more!

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Ep. 28: F For Food

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 00:35:01 +0000

Is food just sustenance or is it therapy? Or is it an even more deep-seated emotional personification of dreams, desires and more? Get surprising peeks into what food means for Sunetro and Farhad on a new episode of GAYBCD!

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Ep. 27: M for Money

Tue, 21 Apr 2020 00:35:01 +0000

On this episode of Gaybcd, Sunetro and Farhad try and disseminate what money really means for us. Do we control its effect on us or does money control us? What's the link between finding money and finding your happy? Tune in to find out!

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Ep. 26: Q for Quarantine Part 2

Tue, 14 Apr 2020 00:35:01 +0000

Continuing the quarantine series, this episode has Sunetro and Farhad discuss the could-be's, would-be's and should be's of living life under lockdown. What does this lockdown mean psychologically, sexually and socially for us as individuals and a community? Tune in to find out!

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Ep. 25: A for Ask Us Anything

Tue, 07 Apr 2020 00:35:00 +0000

25! On our 25 episode pitstop, Sunetro and Farhad take a series of questions from the audience and answer no-holds-barred. From personal to social, we go through a wide range of questions and believe us when we say, it's fun!

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Ep. 24: Q for Quarantine

Tue, 31 Mar 2020 00:35:01 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about how the lockdown has affected all of us. Is it a reset button for the society? Is it a doomsday call? Or is it just another obstacle that we have to figure our way around? Take a peek into the social and psychological challenges of living life under #Lockdown.

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Ep. 23: L for Long Distance Relationships

Tue, 03 Mar 2020 00:35:01 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about how long distance relationship is a relative term when one lives in Mumbai. Are we always in a long distance relationship when we depend on online platforms for all the socializing needs? How do relationships evolve? What is the concept of 'space' in a relation?

Tune in to this episode to understand modern day love as it is today with Sunetro and Farhad.

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Ep. 22: Dating the Married/Closeted

Tue, 25 Feb 2020 14:11:26 +0000

Who is straight enough? Does platonic non-sexual relationship exist? What happens when one hooks up with someone who hasn't come to terms with their sexuality? On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro talk about dating closeted or married people and what are its consequences.

Tune in to this episode to understand and analyze the complexities involved in the monogamous and exclusive relationships.

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Ep. 21: Valentine's Special

Tue, 18 Feb 2020 00:35:01 +0000

On our Valentine's Special Episode, Farhad and Sunetro analyze the importance and the hype around Valentine's Day. Is it merely an extension of commercial consumption? Does it put unnecessary pressure on the partners to go out of their way and express love? Or does it really feel nice to acknowledge love on this day?

Tune in to find out which movies would they watch with their partners on this day and how far would they go to challenge it or be a part of the celebration!

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Ep. 20: I for Infidelity

Tue, 11 Feb 2020 00:35:01 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro discuss what it means to cheat someone when we are entering the age of open relationships. Is it emotional cheating or physical cheating? Do we feel possessive about our partners?

Tune in to this tete-a-tete where both the hosts talk about their experiences of cheating as well as being cheated on.

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Ep. 19: Happily Ever Afters

Tue, 04 Feb 2020 00:35:02 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro talk about the idea of Happily Ever After that has been passed to us since childhood through fairy tales. Does it exist or does it have different versions? Is it dependent on another person? Is marriage the ultimate end of 'Happily Ever After'?

Tune in to this conversation where both the hosts give us different views on these narratives and recreate versions of 'Happily Now'.

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Ep. 18: P for Preferences

Tue, 28 Jan 2020 00:35:02 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro talk about their preferences when it comes to choosing their sexual partners. Do these choices mean that one is racist or biased? Is there a different reading when someone talks about what they prefer in their sexual act?

Tune in to this open hearted chat between both the hosts as they take us into the ABC of top, bottom and middle.

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Ep. 17: H for High Fun

Fri, 24 Jan 2020 07:35:52 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro talk about substance abuse, addiction, obsession and chemsex. As they share their personal experiences, they discuss different kinds of circumstances and behavior that lead to it. Is high fun a moral issue? How can the message of quitting be reconfigured differently? How aware are we while partaking it?

Tune in as Farhad tells you how he quit chain smoking and Sunetro tells you about his constant questioning around substance abuse.

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GAYBCD Ep. 16: C for Cities

Tue, 14 Jan 2020 00:35:02 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad share their experiences of being from different cities and how it has impacted their identities. What is it like to be queer in the small town of Ranchi? How is a Parsi queer boy looked at in Mumbai? How is the life in the metro city different than any other town of India?

Tune in to this very personal conversation where both the hosts trace their childhood and adulthood in their respective cities.

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Ep. 15: P for Politics

Tue, 07 Jan 2020 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro have the guest for the first time- Madhuri Adwani who also hosts a show called 'Tapri Tales' on IVM Podcasts. They talk about the current state of Politics in the country and their role in it. How political is personal? How does one understand mental health and anxiety in these times of political crisis?

Tune in to the episode to understand the politics of our day to day lives and how each opinion and conversation adds to the formation of critical masses.

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Ep. 14: Christmas Recommendations Special

Tue, 24 Dec 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad round up their discussion on all things queer by recommending tv shows, series and movies that we can watch as we go on a Christmas break.

How has the narrative around queer identities changed across years? How have some of their favourite shows aged? Sit with your pen to take down all these amazing recommendations from our hosts' dairies.

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Ep. 13: F for Friends

Tue, 17 Dec 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about friendships with a nuanced perspective of how each friend adds to their life. Is it possible to let go of certain friends? Can friendships be toxic? Are straight friends different than gay friends?

Tune in to the conversation to know how both of our hosts have understood friendships in their personal lives.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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Ep. 12: B for Break Ups

Tue, 10 Dec 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro take us through the rigmarole of going through the breakup. They discuss what can be a healthy or a good breakup. Is there a formula to come out of it? How different is it to breakup in a gay relationship?

Tune in to this episode as both the hosts share their experiences of growing and healing through each breakup.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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Ep. 11: F for Fashion

Tue, 03 Dec 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode. Farhad and Sunetro talk about how they have evolved in relation with their clothes. When Farhad points out how he has been shamed for not dressing up enough, Sunetro mentions his reclamation of fashion as the space.

Why are flamboyant colors considered effeminate? Is fashion the extension of one's personality? Tune in to find out how important is dressing up in one's life.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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Ep. 10: F for F*ckBuddies

Tue, 26 Nov 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On the new episode of GAYBCD, Farhad and Sunetro talk about different kinds of intimacy. Who is a f*ckbuddy? Has the new dating culture affected our response to people we sleep with? How do we understand polyamory and commitments?

Tune in to understand the modern relevant problems involved in inclusive relationships. Sunetro and Farhad share the deepest understanding of one's cumulative sexual being.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

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Ep. 09: H for Hobbies

Tue, 19 Nov 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about their obsessions from childhood that made them feel they could be queer. They discuss the not-so-straight hobbies and passions they followed as kids. Were they allowed to follow these passions or did it take a different turn altogether? What are some of the hobbies forbidden by the society for boys?

Tune in to this conversation to find out what Farhad and Sunetro loved to do as kids that made them feel different.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

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Ep. 08: D for Dating Women

Tue, 12 Nov 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro share their experiences of dating women. How is dating a woman different than dating a man? How is it received when you come out to a woman you are dating? What if other people around the woman you are dating get involved?

Tune in to this honest conversation where both the hosts open up about all their intimate relationships they have had with women.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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Ep. 07: F for Firsts

Tue, 05 Nov 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about many 'firsts' of their life from first kiss to first sexual experience. They take you through the stories of their first date, first love, first crush and much more.

Which first gay art inspired them? Which was the first queer film they could identify with? Tune in to know all about these Firsts of this conversation.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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Ep. 06: A for Aging

Tue, 29 Oct 2019 00:30:00 +0000

Thirties come with expectations and anxiety but also a lot of learning. On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro share how it felt when they surpassed this threshold.

Do you feel wiser or more broke? Does it really get easy after thirty as they say? Can someone be an age-ist? How do they feel interacting with the millennial? Tune in to the episode to know about two different ways of looking at one's life at thirty.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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Ep. 05: W for Workplace

Tue, 22 Oct 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad discuss their work life and how inclusive it is or isn't. Do you tell people at workplace that you are queer? Do you fear being discriminated due to your sexual identity? Is workplace a safe space for queer people? What does 'butch it up' phrase mean? Do you confront homophobia at workplace?

Tune in to this episode to find out how can workplaces become inclusive.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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Ep. 04: C for College Days

Tue, 15 Oct 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro spill the beans about all things queer from their college days. They discuss their crushes, watching porn, breakups, falling in love and being vulnerable. Did it help them evolve with their own personality? What is a Kuch Kuch Hota hai Syndrome that Farhad talks about?

Tune in to this hilarious episode where both the blokes give you answers to these questions.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

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Ep. 03: S for School Days

Tue, 08 Oct 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, we get introduced to two different kinds of kids from the school. Farhad represents the hyper-active, highly energetic and horny kid on one hand and Sunetro represents the extra-curricular kid around the corner who jumps at every dance performance.

Tune in to explore the letter 'S' of GAYBCD as two blokes tell you what it meant to confront one's queerness in the school.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

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Ep. 02: P for Parents

Tue, 01 Oct 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about their complex relation with their parents. They discuss how acceptance of their queer identity or coming out is just one step of the day-to-day navigation of this relation. What is a dysfunctional family? Can you let your parents go and move on? What does a loss of a parent feel like?

Tune in to this episode as two blokes tell you how to come to terms with your parents on GAYBCD.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

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Ep. 01: C for Coming Out

Tue, 24 Sep 2019 00:30:00 +0000

On the first episode, Farhad and Sunetro share their Coming Out experiences and how their friends and family took it. They discuss how they had to teach the ABCD of "What it means to be GAY" to their parents. Does the process continue even when one is out and loud? What is the concept of a chosen family that each queer person relies on?

Tune in to this conversation where two blokes tell you how to approach the same situation of Coming Out in two different ways and embrace one's identity in their day to day life.

You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

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Ep. 00: Introduction to GAYBCD With Sunetro and Farhad

Tue, 10 Sep 2019 06:51:09 +0000

How do you learn a new language? You start with the alphabet! The ABCD of it all. Two blokes - Farhad Karkaria and Sunetro Lahiri will do exactly that, trying to learn, unravel, uncover and discover a little more about being queer in today's day and age.

What's in store? Some laughter, flubs and hearty moments. Tune in to discover the dictionary of all things in life from a queer perspective on GayBCD! New episodes out every Tuesday, starting 24th September.

You can follow Farhad Karkaria on his instagram handle: @theqr8r

You can follow Sunetro Lahiri on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged

You can listen to this show and other awesome shows on the IVM Podcasts app on Android: https://ivm.today/android or iOS: https://ivm.today/ios, or any other podcast app.

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