Just Between Us with Jennifer Zamparelli

An experts guide to Dirty Talk: How to find your voice in the bedroom

Thu, 04 Jun 2026 00:05:00 +0000

Why does dirty talk feel so awkward for so many people, and how can it become a powerful tool for connection? This week Jen is joined by Somatica Institute founders Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harel to explore the psychology behind sexy communication, core desires, and bedroom confidence. Together, they discuss how to discover what turns you on, navigate boundaries, and find language that feels authentic rather than scripted. We want to earn your trust and are members of the Trust Project. See our ethics policies at independent.ie/ourjournalism

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Why we should all be masturbating much more | Sex Educator Olivia Teahan

Thu, 28 May 2026 00:05:00 +0000

Remember the birds and the bees chat? Yeah… neither do we. This week Jen is joined by sex educator Olivia Teahan to unpack the weird, funny and deeply awkward ways Irish people learned about sex or more accurately, didn’t. Funny, honest and surprisingly reassuring, this episode is all about learning to relax, communicate better, and enjoy sex without all the baggage because it is supposed to be FUN.

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“Wrap your legs around me waist”: Inside the horny world of ‘audio smut’

Wed, 20 May 2026 00:05:00 +0000

Porn used to be all about what you see. Now, women are putting the headphones in and letting imagination do the heavy lifting. Jen dives headfirst into the wildly addictive world of audio erotica. From sexy Irish accents and fantasy roleplay, to why millions of women are listening to smut while doing the Tesco shop.

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Sex moves, gag reflex & UTI’s: Grace Alice O’Shea solves your most intimate bedroom issues

Thu, 14 May 2026 00:05:00 +0000

Got a sex question you’ve never said out loud? Jennifer Zamparelli is joined once again by sex educator and intimacy coach Grace Alice O’Shea for another special listener Q&A.

From why sex can feel amazing one day and awkward the next, to random body reactions and feeling undesired in a relationship, no question is off limits. Jennifer and Grace Alice discuss how to talk about intimacy, reconnect with your sexual self, and the one question Grace Alice believes everyone should ask themselves about their sex life.

They’re answering the questions you usually keep to yourself.

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The worst sex advice men still believe

Thu, 07 May 2026 00:06:00 +0000

Ever been told to think about your granny to last longer? Or eat pineapple to “improve the taste”? Yeah… this episode is full of that kind of advice. Jennifer is joined by comedians Eddie Mullarkey and Paul Marsh, alongside public health doctor Ralph Hurley O’Dwyer, for a hilarious and surprisingly honest chat about the worst sex advice men have ever received, where it all came from, and what we should probably unlearn immediately. From wet dreams and one-night stands to manscaping, porn myths and modern dating apps, nothing is off limits.

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The top three ways to make a woman feel sexy

Thu, 30 Apr 2026 00:05:00 +0000

Feeling sexy… it sounds simple, but for a lot of us, it’s anything but.

This week, Jennifer is joined by comedian Aideen McQueen and burlesque performer Bonnie Boux to unpack why so many of us feel awkward, self-conscious, or just completely disconnected from that side of ourselves.

From Irish shame and long-term relationship ruts to crochet-induced icks and the surprising power of a good playlist… this is a conversation about confidence, comfort, and figuring out what actually makes you feel good

Because as it turns out, sexy isn’t a look… it’s something you can learn.

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Leather, feet and other lesser known fetishes: inside Ireland's kink scene

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 00:05:00 +0000

Ever heard of lactophilia or sploshing ? Well, you’ve come to the right place.

This week, we’re getting into kinks… and all the questions you’d nearly be afraid to ask out loud. From erotic lactation (yes, it is what you think!) to squeaking balloons, there is no stone left unturned. Jennifer, comedian Aideen McQueen and Jamie Ryan (aka Mr Leather Europe 2026) unpack where curiosity comes from, what draws people into this world, and what actually goes on behind the scenes. And let us tell you… it’s a lot more common, and a lot less “out there” than you might think.

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'Let’s talk about squirting' – Jenny Keane on the sex ed we never got with

Thu, 16 Apr 2026 00:05:00 +0000

For this episode of Just Between Us, we're talking about better sex, not more of it, not swinging from the chandeliers, just figuring out what actually works for you.

Because let’s be honest… for something most of us are doing, we’re still wildly awkward talking about it. Between Catholic guilt, dodgy sex ed and the idea we’re all meant to just know what we’re doing, a lot of us are out here guessing and hoping for the best.

Joining Jennifer is sex educator Jenny Keane, who’s here to take the pressure off. From viral workshops (and yes, the great Irish cucumber shortage) to simple, practical ways to shake things up, this is all about getting out of your head, out of the same old routine, and into something that feels good.

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Signs your relationship might be in trouble with psychotherapist Stephanie Regan

Thu, 09 Apr 2026 07:36:31 +0000

For this episode of Just Between Us, Jennifer sits down with psychotherapist Stephanie Regan to unpack what makes a relationship last.

Because love, chemistry and butterflies are all well and good but they won’t carry you through the everyday reality of life, when you’re busy, distracted, and trying to stay connected in the middle of it all. From communication and self-awareness to fun, respect and learning how to argue without tearing strips off each other, this is a warm, honest and insightful conversation about the habits that keep relationships strong long after the honeymoon phase fades.

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Would you let your partner sleep with someone else? Polyamory explained with Leanne Yau

Thu, 02 Apr 2026 00:05:00 +0000

For this episode of Just Between Us, Jennifer gets stuck into a relationship style that sparks a lot of curiosity… and let’s be honest, a fair bit of confusion too: polyamory. She’s joined by polyamory educator Leanne Yau, who breaks down what it is, how it works in real life, and why more people are starting to question the whole “one person forever” model. From myths and misconceptions to jealousy, boundaries and brutal honesty, this is a no-BS look at a way of loving that might just challenge everything you thought you knew about relationships.

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'Am I the red flag?’ - Listeners sex and dating dilemmas exposed

Thu, 26 Mar 2026 01:05:00 +0000

For this episode of Just Between Us, Jennifer opened the DMs and asked listeners to send in the relationship dilemmas keeping them up at night and wow, you absolutely did not hold back.

Joining her to sort through the chaos are comedian Enya Martin, writer and broadcaster Barbara Scully, and Laughter Lounge MC Brian Gallagher. From ghosting and dating apps to sex chats, gym hints, and mothers barging into bedrooms at the worst possible moment, this is a funny, honest and gloriously unfiltered deep dive into modern love.

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Am I dating a narcissist? Richard Hogan on the signs you shouldn’t ignore

Thu, 19 Mar 2026 01:05:00 +0000

Today’s episode takes on one of the biggest relationship buzzwords out there: narcissism. We’ve all heard it, ‘My ex was such a narcissist’, but how much of that is internet language, and how much of it points to something far more serious? This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer is joined by family psychotherapist Richard Hogan to unpack the difference between someone being selfish and someone being truly narcissistic. From love bombing and manipulation to family estrangement and the struggle to leave, it’s a clear, sobering conversation about the patterns that can quietly pull people under.

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The quiet reason couples stop having sex and how to fix it with psychosexual therapist Aoife Drury

Thu, 12 Mar 2026 01:05:00 +0000

If you’re in a long-term relationship, you might know that feeling of starting to feel more like housemates than lovers. This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer is joined by psychosexual and relationship therapist Aoife Drury to talk about what happens when the spark fades - not the love, not the commitment, just the desire. From stress and exhaustion to communication and scheduling sex, this is a warm, practical conversation about how couples can find their way back to each other.

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The secret to better sex in your 40's with clinical sexologist Emily Power Smith

Thu, 05 Mar 2026 01:05:00 +0000

Desire doesn’t have to have an expiry date. This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer sits down with clinical sexologist Emily Power Smith to talk about sex and ageing, from libido shifts and menopause to illness, disability and changing bodies. It’s a reassuring conversation about letting go of old expectations, learning what works now, remembering pleasure can evolve with you and sex can keep getting better.

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‘Love is love’ – Jennifer Rock and Jill Deering on coming out, co-parenting and building a modern family

Thu, 26 Feb 2026 01:05:00 +0000

Love doesn’t always arrive neatly or on schedule. This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer is joined by Jennifer Rock and Jill Deering to talk about building a family that doesn’t fit the traditional script. From parenting young and navigating small-town scrutiny, to coming out later in life and becoming a stepmother in your 30s, they share what it really takes to blend lives with care. They open up about co-parenting with ex-partners, putting kids first, and learning to do the work even when relationships change shape. It’s a warm, honest conversation about choosing kindness, earning trust slowly, and trusting that love can still be full and meaningful when it takes an unexpected path.

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Why are so many of us still single? A matchmaker’s perspective with Feargal Harrington

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 01:05:00 +0000

Dating in Ireland can feel like a minefield. The apps are draining, ghosting is normalised, and everyone seems either too busy, too picky, or quietly panicking about timelines. Somewhere along the way, what should feel exciting has started to feel like hard work. This week, Jennifer is joined by professional matchmaker Feargal, who has spent over 15 years setting up real-life dates and watching what actually works and what really doesn’t. From app fatigue and sky-high expectations to the danger of sticking rigidly to a “type,” he shares the patterns he sees again and again. They talk about Irish pride and privacy, the reluctance to travel for someone who might be worth it, the pressure around age and fertility, and why “not settling” can sometimes become self-sabotage. It’s an honest conversation about effort, compromise and being realistic about what truly matters. Just Between Us is the Irish Independent’s sex and relationships podcast, hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. New episodes every Thursday.

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“Porn isn’t the problem” – What we get wrong about pleasure with Cindy Gallop

Thu, 12 Feb 2026 01:05:00 +0000

What if porn isn’t the villain we’ve been told it is and masturbation is actually one of the healthiest ways we learn about ourselves? In this episode of Just Between Us, Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by Cindy Gallop to talk about pleasure without shame, curiosity without guilt, and why understanding what turns us on can be deeply empowering.

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'Sex toys 101: Finding what works for you with Shawna Scott of Sex Siopa'

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 01:05:00 +0000

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, you might be thinking about buying a sexy gift for someone you love, or for yourself, but not know where to start. This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by Shawna Scott of Sex Siopa to break it all down. From bullets to bondage, dildos to dilators, Shauna explains what’s out there, how it all works, and how to find what actually suits your body, your needs and your curiosity.

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Is motherhood for me? Meet the women who are childfree by choice

Thu, 29 Jan 2026 01:04:00 +0000

In this episode of Just Between Us, Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by counsellor and psychotherapist Margaret O’Connor (specialist in parenthood ambivalence and decision-making) and Niamh Madden, founder of Sisterhood, a community for child-free women in Ireland. Together, they unpack the pressure to follow the “default” life script, what it means to feel uncertain, and why a joyful, meaningful life can look many different ways — with kids or without.

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Is This Normal? Your secret sex questions answered by Grace Alice O’Shea

Thu, 22 Jan 2026 01:05:00 +0000

Got a sex question you’ve never said out loud? Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by sex educator and intimacy coach Grace Alice O’Shea for a special listener Q&A. From libido and orgasms to body insecurities and the male G-spot, they’re answering the questions you usually keep to yourself.

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‘There is no such thing as too late’ Sarah Magliocco on the joy of coming out

Thu, 15 Jan 2026 01:05:00 +0000

Coming out doesn’t always happen early, loudly, or with absolute certainty - sometimes it unfolds quietly over time. This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by journalist Sarah Magliocco to talk about coming out later in life, navigating compulsory heterosexuality, and the relief and joy of finally living as your full self. It’s a hopeful, affirming conversation about self-acceptance and the joy of finally living openly and honestly.

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Owning what turns you on with Bláithín de Burca

Thu, 08 Jan 2026 01:05:00 +0000

What happens when you drop the shame and start talking honestly about sex? This week, Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by comedian and sex-positive powerhouse Bláthín de Burca for a funny, frank and refreshingly open conversation about desire, kink, curiosity and learning what actually turns you on.

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The eight-time bride: rewriting marriage on your own terms

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 01:05:00 +0000

What if marriage didn’t have to follow the script? This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by Taryn DeVere, a woman who’s married the same partner eight times - not out of chaos, but out of choice. Together, they talk about rewriting the rules of marriage, recommitting as people change, and why love doesn’t have to look conventional to be deeply real.

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Hidden tales from the Monto: Dublin’s hidden notorious red-light district

Thu, 25 Dec 2025 01:05:00 +0000

A special Christmas Day episode with friend of the show Dr Caroline West and Indo Daily host Kevin Doyle, digging into one of Dublin’s darkest and most fascinating chapters: the Monto, once Europe’s most infamous red-light district. Expect forgotten history, surprising humanity, and the stories that were almost erased.

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Erectile dysfunction and the shame that keeps men silent

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 01:05:00 +0000

Welcome to Just Between Us, the sex and relationships podcast from the Irish Independent, hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. This week, Jennifer is joined by Bobby McQuaid, a new dad who spent years struggling in silence with erectile dysfunction and the shame that came with it. Bobby opens up about the pressure young men feel, how ED affected his relationships, and the long road to getting the right help.

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'Sex shouldn’t end when he does' – Alix Fox on equality in the bedroom

Thu, 11 Dec 2025 01:05:00 +0000

Welcome to Just Between Us, the sex and relationships podcast from the Irish Independent, hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. We’ve all heard about the wage gap – but what about the orgasm gap? This week, Jennifer is joined by writer, broadcaster and Sex Education script consultant Alix Fox to talk about why straight men are still having more orgasms than straight women, and how sex toys, better conversations and a broader idea of sex could help close that gap.

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“Your gut is everything” – Kate Brayden on cheating, betrayal and beginning again

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 09:31:00 +0000

Welcome to Just Between Us, the sex and relationships podcast from the Irish Independent, hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. When someone cheats on you, it can feel like your whole world falls apart — but can it also crack something open that needed to change? Jennifer is joined by journalist Kate Brayden, who has been through infidelity twice, to talk shame, silence, second chances, and why trusting your gut can be the first step toward healing. Just Between Us is an Irish Independent podcast hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. New episodes every Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts.

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“Lube isn’t kinky, it’s helpful” – Laura Dowling on having better sex

Thu, 27 Nov 2025 01:05:00 +0000

This week, Jennifer is joined by pharmacist and author Laura Dowling to talk vulvas, vaginas and everything we were never taught about women’s sexual health – from pubic hair and “feminine freshness” myths to lube, menopause, prolapse and the power of finally finding your own pleasure.

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“I made €20k in my first 24 hours on OnlyFans” – Niamh O’Connor on why she walked away

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 02:05:00 +0000

Welcome to Just Between Us, the sex and relationships podcast from the Irish Independent, hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. What happens when a 22-year-old starts an OnlyFans and earns life-changing money overnight? Jennifer is joined by Niamh O’Connor (AKA Kneevo), once Ireland’s biggest OnlyFans creator, to talk money, pressure, plastic surgery, stigma, and the moment she chose herself over the grind. Just Between Us is an Irish Independent podcast hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. New episodes every Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts.

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How do we get better at riding? – Jen and Dr Caroline West talk sex

Thu, 06 Nov 2025 02:30:00 +0000

We all talk about being our best selves - at work, in the gym, even on social media. But when it comes to sex… that conversation suddenly gets a little awkward, doesn’t it? Today, Jennifer is joined by Irish Independent Columnist Dr Caroline West to talk about what it really means to be your best self sexually. Just Between Us is an Irish Independent podcast hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. New episodes every Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts.

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From jealousy to joy: What really happens at an Irish swingers’ party

Thu, 06 Nov 2025 02:05:00 +0000

Behind closed doors, Ireland’s swingers’ scene is bigger,and bolder than you might think. Jennifer Zamparelli meets Graham, a proud member of the community, who lifts the lid on what really happens at a swingers’ party, how jealousy can turn into joy, and why “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t just about sex.

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Introducing: Just Between Us with Jennifer Zamparelli

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 14:54:00 +0000

Welcome to the new sex and relationships podcast from the Irish Independent. Here's a flavour of what to expect. New episodes every Thursday.

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